Urhulumente wengxelo yomntwana kwiinyanga ezili-8

Unomama oqaphelayo kubalulekile ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba unamathele kwisimo esithile somhla. Kodwa ngeenyanga ezili-12 umntwana usakhula ngokukhawuleza , iimfuno zakhe ziyatshintsha, oko kukuthi, urhulumente wakhe uya kutshintshwa. Xa kuqulunqwa, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iimpawu.

Urhulumente wengane kwiinyanga ezili-8: imihla ngemihla

Kule minyaka, ukujika kufike. I-crumb iyasebenza ngakumbi, eboniswa kulawulo, kuba ngoku umntwana usuchitha ixesha elide. Ngethuba la maxesha ahlola ihlabathi, uzama ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu. Umntwana uthatha ixesha elincinane ukulala. Umama osemncinci unokucinga ukuba iprogram iyahlukana. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo le yimeko eqhelekileyo, yileyo kuphela kwiinyanga ezi-8 ixesha lokutshintsha indlela yosuku lomntwana.

Kwimihla ngemihla kufuneka ifake izinto ezinjalo:

• ulele;
• uhamba, kodwa kwimimozulu embi kuyimfuneko ukunciphisa ubude babo okanye ukukhansela ngokupheleleyo;
• esebenzayo nokuphuhlisa imidlalo, ukunxibelelana nomama;
• ukutya, kwaye ngeli xesha umntwana usesidla, njengokutya okuqhelekileyo, kwaye uyaqhubeka edla ubisi lwebele okanye umxube;
• inkqubo zamanzi.

Ulawulo lomhla womntwana kwiinyanga ezili-8 lunokuvela kwifomu yetafile. Kodwa le shedyuli icingelwa kakhulu. Emva koko, bonke abantwana bahlukile, kuba ngamnye umama kufuneka alungelelanise ishedyuli yomntwana wakhe. Umzekelo, unokutshintsha ukuvuswa kweyure, oko kukuthi, kusasa umntwana akayi kuvuka ngo-7.00, njengoko kuboniswe kwitafile, kodwa ngo-6.00. Kwakhona kaninzi ixesha lokulala ebusuku. Kwiimeko ezininzi, iintsana zilalelwe ukulala ngo-21.00 okanye ngokuphambene no-1.30.

Ngokuqhelekileyo kule minyaka ukuya kwi-5 yokutya. Ngomso kuyacetyiswa ukuba unikeze iimveliso ezintsha kwiimvuthu. Ukutya, kufuneka ukondle umntwana wakho ngokutya okulula. Ukutya kokugqibela kunokuba malunga ne-22.00 (umntwana uyavuka ukuze adle umxube okanye ubisi lwebele).

Nangona umzekelo ongentla apha weentsuku zeentsuku zeentsana ezinyangeni eziyi-8 unemiqathango kwaye unokwahluka kwintsapho nganye, kodwa isacetyiswa ukuba ulandele ishedyuli yakho ephuhlisiwe. Zonke ukutya kufuneka zilawulwe ngexesha elifanayo. Oku kusebenza ukulala. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba kwigumbi apho kuhlala khona iimvuthu, kwakukho umoya omtsha.

Ulawulo lweentsuku zomntwana ezi-8 luquka imidlalo, ukuhamba. Ngeli xesha, unokujonga imifanekiso, ufunde iincwadi zokuqala kubantwana, wenze imisebenzi elula eya kunceda ekuphuhliseni izakhono zamandla. Kwakhona luncedo ukuzivocavoca, ukucola.