Ukuphuhliswa komzimba komntwana unyaka
Ngoko ke, umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kufuneka aqikelele ngeekhilogram ezi-3-3.5 kwaye ube nokwanda kwama-50-53 ngamentimitha. Ekuzalweni kwakhe, unengqondo yokuzalwa engqondweni: ukutsana, ukukhenkcela kunye nokucatshulwa. Kwaye emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa umntwana uqala ukubona umhlaba jikelele kwaye uva ngcono. Ngenyanga eyi-1 yobomi bakhe umntwana usoloko ekhula ngamangentimitha amaninzi kwaye uphucula nge-800 grams. Kumelwe ukuba sele akwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo intloko kwindawo emele imizuzwana embalwa kwaye uphendule izandi.
Ngenyanga yesibini, intsana ihlala igxile kubantu, kodwa ikhula ngokukhawuleza. Imisipha yomlomo iyomelela, kwaye igcina intloko ibe bhetele kwaye ide, ilele emzimbeni kwaye izama ukuphakamisa isifuba nentloko.
Ngenyanga yesine, i-crumb iba malunga no-62-66 ngamentimitha, kwaye ilinganisa i-6-6.7 kilogram. Ukulala emlonyeni wakhe, sele esenyuka ngokuzithemba, encike kwiindawo zakhe zokuzimela, kwaye ubeka ngokuzimeleyo intloko. Funda ukuguqula emva kwisisu sakhe, uthatha izibambiso zamathoyizi, ukuphuhlisa ezi zakhono ezifanelekileyo. I-Kid sele iqaphele umama kwaye imemeza ngayo.
Ukongeza, kwiinyanga ezi-5-6 umntwana uqala ukuhlala phantsi, ukudlala ngeetayipi kwaye uthetha iilllab zokuqala. Kwinqanaba elilandelayo, umntwana uqala ukuzama ukuma emilenzeni, exhomekeke kwisibhedlele, aqonde oko abadala abakushoyo kuye kwaye uzame ukuphendula ngendlela ethile. Kodwa ngomnyaka wokuqala wokuphila ukukhula kweemvuthu kufinyelela kuma-74-78 ngamentimitha, kwaye ubunzima buhamba malunga neekhilogram ezili-10. Ngonyaka sele eqala ukuhamba ngokuzimela, unokuphakamisa isihloko ngokwalo, kwaye kwisigama sakhe kukho amagama abantwana abantwana.
Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yomntwana unyaka
Ngethuba lokusukela ekuzalweni ukuya kunyaka emva kokuphuhliswa komntwana, kubalulekile ukubeka iliso ngokukhawuleza kunye nokunyamekela nayiphi na into encinci. Into ekhoyo kweli xesha lihamba ngokukhawuleza lwenkqubo yokuphucula zonke iinkqubo zengqondo nezengqondo, ukwenzela ukuba uqiniseke ukuba umntwana wakho uqala ngokuqhelekileyo, kufuneka uqaphele izinto ezikhokelayo kwaye uziqhathanise nokusebenza komntwana wakho. Ngokomzekelo, esinye sezizathu zokuphambuka kungabangela ukwanda kokuva. Ukuqinisekisa, thutha amamitha ambalwa ukusuka kwiimvuthu uze ugubungele i-rattle. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana kufuneka aguqule amehlo okanye aphendule kwisandi. Kuze kube unyaka uphuhliso olupheleleyo lomntwana lwenzeka kwiziqu.
Iingxaki ekuphuhlisweni kwabantwana abangaphantsi komnyaka omnye azidluli lula kwaye zilula: iintsana zihlala zingenangqondo, ukuhlangabezana nazo kuba nzima kakhulu kunokuba ziqhelekileyo, kwaye "zixhomekeke" ngokoqobo kunina. Amaxesha amanzima ayabonwa phantse bonke abantwana kunye nangeminyaka elifanayo. Izigaba zokuphuhliswa komntwana ukuya kunyaka zilandele iishedyuli elandelayo: 5, 8, 12, 19, 26, 26, 37, 46, 55, 64, iiveki ezingama-75 zobomi.
Ekugqibeleni, ndingathanda ukuthetha ukuba uphuhliso olubanzi lwabantwana ukuya kunyaka oluchazwe ngasentla lunokuthi lube luhluke kancinci, kuba bonke abantwana bahluke ngokupheleleyo. Abazali akufanele bacaphuke xa umntwana esele emva koko, kufuneka nje wenze okunye kunye naye kwaye udlale imidlalo yokuphuhlisa, kwaye wenze isethi yokuzivocavoca umzimba. Kukho na bantwana abanjalo, ngokuchasene noko, bakhula ngokukhawuleza kunemigangatho eqhelekileyo, kodwa oku akusisona isizathu sokuba nomsindo. Ncedisa umntwana ukuba aphuhlise kakuhle, adlale nayo, athethe kwaye ahlawule ingqalelo enkulu kunokwenzeka.