Kubuphi ubudala bethu abantwana, bahlala befuna ukunakekelwa kwabazali nothando. Umntwana oneminyaka engama-7 ubudala, ngakwelinye icala, usemncinci kakhulu, kwaye ngakwelinye icala, sele esele yindoda encinane eye yalawula "iJubhi" yokuqala yokuqala-iinyanga ezintandathu, kwaye ifunda ihlabathi ngokuzimeleyo. Sekunjalo wenza uMama noTata bavuyiswe ngamazinyo okuqala kunye nezandi, bezama ukuhlala phantsi, kwaye abanye abantwana sele bekhulile. Abazali abaninzi kwinyanga nganye yobomi bentsana banomdla kwizinto ezifunekayo ukukhula nokukhula kweemvuthu? Kufuneka kuthi ngoko nangoko ukuba yonke le mimiselo ayifani ncamnye, kuba ngamnye umntwana unesilathisi ngasinye, kwaye akufanelekile ukuwasukela. Njengomthetho, ukukhula komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-7 kuvela kuma-68 ukuya kuma-70 cm, kwaye ubunzima buba malunga no-8-8.5 kg. Ukuba umntwana wakho engazange afumane le parameters, ke akuyimfuneko yokwesaba, udokotela wezilwanyana owamkeleyo ngenyanga, uya kubeka ingqalelo ukuba kukho na ukuphambuka okuphawulekayo kwaye kuthathe amanyathelo nomntwana.
Imihla ngemihla
Imirhumo yosuku iyimfuneko yokuphuhliswa okuqhelekileyo kubo bonke abantwana, kunye nomntwana oneminyaka engama-7 ubudala. Akayi kuhluke kakhulu kwixesha elidala lomhla, kodwa uya kuguquka. Ubusuku nobusuku ubuthongo, ukutya kuya kuhlala kufana, kodwa apha ekuhambeni kwengane sele sele ingafuni ukulala kwisihlalo sabakhubazekile, kodwa ufuna ukukhangela, ukufunda ihlabathi. Ukuhlamba ngokuhlwa kusenokungenziwa utshintshwe ngalunye usuku, kwaye ubeke umquba kumntu omdala. Umqathango onyanzelekileyo wale nkqubo kulawulo oluqaphile ngabantu abadala: akukho mzekelo esinokumshiya umntwana ngethuba lakhe kwimidlalo yokuhlambela. Ekubeni i-kid kule minyaka isenamandla ngokukhula kwenyama, ke izifundo kunye nomntwana weenyanga ezi-7 kufuneka ziqhutywe kwi-regime yangaphambili: i-air kunye ne-suns zokugeza, i-gymnastics iya kuqinisa umzimba wayo kwaye ivumele ukuba ikhule inempilo. Ukuba umntwana akasebenzanga ngokwaneleyo, kwaye akabonakalisi umnqweno wokukhenkceza, ke indima enkulu iya kudlalwa ngokubilisa umzimba kumntwana weenyanga ezi-7: gxininisa kwimimandla yesisu, esifubeni, ubuyele kwaye usetyenzise ezininzi iimpendulo ngokusemandleni: ukuxubha, ukuxubha, ukuxubha kunye nabanye.
Ukunikezelwa kwamandla
Yintoni enokuyondla umntwana oneminyaka engama-7 ubudala, obondlo lwakhe oluyinhloko ngumama, ngumbuzo olula ngokwaneleyo: umlenze, i-cottage cheese, i-kefir, isonka, ii-biscuits zivame ukufakwa kwiilora, kwaye unokwazi ukunika inyama encinci ephekwe. Emva kwesitya ngasinye esitsha, kufuneka uqaphele impendulo kunye nenhlalakahle yomntwana, kwaye emva kokunyuswa kwaloo nxalenye. Ukongeza kwiifatata ezityiweyo zemifuno, kwimenyu yabantwana kwiinyanga ezi-7, isobho kunye nomnquma okanye ibhotela inokubonakala, kwaye unokongeza into encinci yenyama ebilisiwe. Nondla i-crumb kule minyaka sele ilandelekile kwindawo ehleliyo, mhlawumbi kwisitulo esikhethekileyo kunye netafile ekhitshini, ukuze umntwana aqeqeshe ukuqeqeshwa nokuyalela.
Ukuphuhliswa komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-7
Emva kokufumana umncinci wakhe wokuqala "wokukhumbula", umncinci uyamangalisa abazali bakhe ngokuphindaphindiweyo imihla ngemihla. Amakhono omntwana kwiinyanga ezi-7 ayisekho ukucinga ngezinto ezizungezile, uzama ukuhlala, ebambe isandla sakhe, ekulungele ukuma emilenzeni, ekubambeni izandla ukuze anike inkxaso, atyeke kwaye athathe izinto ezithandayo. Ukomeleza uphando kulomntwana kukhuthazwe kuphela, kumnike ithuba lokufunda izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kunye nokufometha ngendlela enokwenzeka. Olunye lwezakhono zomntwana kwiinyanga ezi-7 lukwazi ukutya kwi-spoon, lwakhiwa xa ufaka ukutya okuncedisayo. Kule minyaka sele kunokwenzeka ukuba uqale ukufundisa umntwana ukuba agcine i-spoon yedwa, kungekhona into yokuba yonke into iya kuphuma ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ngeendlela ezichanekileyo kunye nomonde, uya kufumana iziphumo ezilungileyo.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezilula ngendlela yokuphuhlisa umntwana ezinyangeni ezi-7.
Kodwa into ephambili, khumbula, kungekhona iiparameters eziqhelekileyo zomntwana kwiinyanga ezi-7 zichonga izinga lokuphuhliswa kwalo, kodwa umnqweno wokuncedisa nokuqwalasela umntwana. Abazali bafanele baqaphele ukuba ukunakekelwa okulula kwansuku zonke kumntwana weenyanga ezi-7 akwanele, iiklasi eziqhelekileyo, ukuzivocavoca umzimba, inoculation kwezakhono kunye nobuchule ubuncinci obuya kunceda umntwana ukuba abe ngumntwana opheleleyo kwaye onempilo kwixesha elizayo.