Umama ngamnye ufuna ukulungiselela ixesha lokuphumla lomntwana wakhe ngendlela engcono. Umntwana wayemnandi kwaye unomdla, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukhululekile kwaye ukhuselekile. Yingakho umgca weemidlalo zamathoyizi zezingane zihlaziywa minyaka yonke ngeemodeli ezintsha zelanga, iifowuni , iimpahla kunye nezinye izinto ezincedo.
Abazali abaninzi bacinga ukuthenga i-mat matsha ezikhulayo, eziya ziba ziwayo. Ukukhetha isicwangciso sokuphuhlisa abantwana, kufuneka uqwalasele ezinye zeempawu, esiza kuthetha ngazo kweli nqaku.
Ngomlinganiselo onjani umgangatho okhulayo owufunayo?
Ngoko, okokuqala, umama omncinci ukhathazekile ngombuzo, zingaphi iinyanga ungaqala ukuvelisa iimvumba kumatshini okhulayo. Kungekude kudlulileyo, umdlalo onokuthakazelisa kunye neengcamango zazijoliswe kubantwana abangakwazi ukukhwela kunye nokuqhubela phambili. Namhlanje, unokuthatha ngokulula ukuvelisa umntwana oza kuzalwa. Ezi ndlela zimele zihambelane neemfuno ezithile, ukwenzela ukuba ukuhlala komntwana kwiphephethi kukhululekile kwaye kukhuselekile.
Okokuqala, i-mat for the newborn kufanele ibe yincinci ngobukhulu, kunye neengqungquthela ezikhethekileyo ezijikelezayo. Lo mbandela uza kuvumela umama omncinane ukuba angabikho ngexesha elithile, ngelixa umntwana wakhe ehlala ematyheni amasha. Kubantwana abadala, unokhetho olubanzi olubanzi, ukwenzela ukuba kukho indawo yokuthatha isenzo.
Njengomthetho, ukuvelisa amatye kwiintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa kuyisigxina. Emva kweenyanga ezintandathu kuyacetyiswa ukuba kuthenge iimodeli eziqhelekileyo zesikwele eziza kunika umntwana ngendawo efanelekileyo.
Ingqwalasela ingakumbi kufuneka ihlawulwe kwizinto eziphathekayo zemveliso. Abakhiqizi abaziwayo beempahla zezingane bahlala besetyenziselwa iimpahla zendalo kunye neekhwalithi eziphezulu zokulungiselela umbhoxo, ofezekisa ngokupheleleyo iimfuno. Ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka emininzi umntwana eya kuba nayo kumgangatho okhulayo, unokukhetha umkhiqizo onobuso obusisigxina okanye obusisigxina. Kulo mncinci, kungcono ukukhetha okokubonakalayo kunye nezinto ezincinci zezinto zokuhlobisa.
I-Arcs yokugaya ii-toys ayilona nto ibaluleke kakhulu. Zonke iintlobo zamathoyizi ziyaqhotyoshelweyo kubo, apho umntwana uya kukhululeka ukuyiqwalasela. Ukongeza, bafaka isandla ekuphuhliseni i-reflex yokubamba, kuba i-crumb izakuzama ukufikelela ezintweni ezingenakufumaneka. Ngaphambi kokuba uthenge, kufuneka uhlolisise amandla amacandelwana wokukhawuleza. Kumele zenziwe ngeplastiki okanye kwi-aluminium esemgangathweni.
Ukongeza kwimiba engentla, abazali bafanele baqwalasele ukuba amashishini aphuhlisayo azalisekile ukuzaliswa, umbala, ubukho bempahla yomculo. Kwiintsana, kuchanekile ukuyeka ukukhetha kwakho kumamodeli alula, ngaphandle kweendlela ze-motley, izandi ezivakalayo kunye nezinye iintsana ezisenokwenkqisayo ezinokutshathisa umntwana.
Izinto ezongeziweyo
Ngezinto ezongezelelweyo zibhekiselele kumathoyizi asebenzayo, ama-teethers, appliqués, ama- rattles kunye nezinye izinto, oko kuchaneke ukuba indlela enomdla kunye nengqiqo iya kuba yithuba elichithwe ngayo kumbhoxo. Nangona kunjalo, akufanelekile ukuthatha inani elikhulu leemidlalo ezibandakanyiweyo kwisethi njengemigangatho yokuvavanya, kuba banokuzala ngokukhawuleza umntwana. Ngoko kulula kakhulu ke ukuthenga ezintsha. Kodwa ukujonga umgangatho wezinto ezikhoyo ezikhoyo.
Kuze kube yimhla, isithuba sokukhula seentsana-liyithuba elikhethekileyo lokuthabatha imivumba ebalulekileyo kunye nomsebenzi onomdla, kunye nabazali-ukuphumla okuncane.