Ebomini, konke kwenzeka, kwaye emva kwexesha, abanye abantu bangena ebomini bethu, ngelixa abanye beshiya, batshintsha iinjongo kunye nezinto eziphambili, iiminqweno namathuba. Ngoko ke, xa ugqiba ukubhaptiza umntwana wakho, abazali bafanele baqonde ukuba oku kuyinyathelo elibi kakhulu. Isakramente yobhaptizo ebomini bomntu isithethe esenziwa ngexesha elilodwa, kunye nombuzo wabazali: Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuwela umntwana, bonke ababingeleli banikela impendulo engabonakaliyo: Hayi!
Ukukhethwa koothixo kunye noyise akubalulekanga, kuba aba bantu, becinga le meko, bathatha uxanduva olukhulu. Imisebenzi yabo ayigxininise ebukhompileni ngexesha le-sakramente, kufuneka ukuba bancedise ngandlela-thile ukukhulisa umntwana, ukuba ngabacebisi bakhe, ukwabelana ngamava okuphila kwaye emva koko abe noxanduva lwezenzo zakhe phambi koThixo. U-godfather uthathwa ngokuba ngu-godfather oyintloko, unina ngowentombazana leyo, ngoko kubakho ukubambisana kweentombi zikaThixo.
Kuthekani ukuba u-godfather akafezekanga imisebenzi yakhe?
Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba esikhathini esizayo abazali bayadumala ekukhethweni kwabo, okanye omnye oothixo abanqabileyo yena wenqaba ihlonipho. Indlela yokuwela ngokufanelekileyo umntu, ayikho, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuthatha uncedisi ekukhuliseni umntwana. Xa ukhethe umviwa ofanelekileyo, kufuneka acele intsikelelo yakhe kule nyathelo kumcebisi wakhe ongokomoya. AbaPristi babiza aba bantu "abalamkeli", kwaye umsebenzi wabo wokuqala kukuzisa umntwana ebomini becawa: ukudibanisana, iinkonzo zokutyelela.
Abanye abazali bakholelwa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuwela umntwana kwelinye icawa, ukufihla kumfundisi isithethe esisodwa senze isithethe. Kodwa esi sisono esikhulu, esithathwa ngabazali bobabini kunye noothixo abatsha. Akunakwenzeka ukuba ucinga ngento enjalo. Kuba oomama nabagadi bacinga ngendlela yokuwela umntwana, kukho enye indlela ekhoyo -
Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba oothixo bafanele babhaptizwe baze babe ngabakholo bakho. Amaqabane akakwazi ukwenza le misebenzi komntwana omnye - oku kungavunyelwe yicawa.
Ukuba ebomini bakho kwenzeka ukuba omnye oothixo abatshintshile ukholo, waphula umthetho, okanye wamane nje wayenqaba imisebenzi yakhe, kwaye wazibuza indlela yokuwela umntwana kakuhle, abakhonzi becawa banikeza icebiso elilodwa elifanelekileyo: ukuthandaza kuThixo ukuxolelwa nokucamagushela eso sono umntu, kwaye umntwana uyakhetha umcebisi ngokomoya.