Okulungileyo nokubi, uthando nothando, ukunyaniseka nokungcatsha. Wonke amagama ane-antipode ngokwayo, engazi enye, asisoze sazi ukuba yintoni enye. Ukutshatyalaliswa, njengomthetho, udibana nomntu wonke. Yaye le yenye yeyona nto ibuhlungu kakhulu, ingakumbi ukungcatsha komntu othandekayo , kuba ukugwenxa kuyamngcatsha. Ixesha emva kokungcatshiswa kufuneka ludluliselwe kakuhle kwaye, mhlawumbi, ekugqibeleni, ufanele uxolele ukuthethelela , kodwa kuphela abantu abanesibindi nabalumkileyo abanokukwenza. Yaye ukuba uthe wagqiba ngolu hlobo, usadinga ukwazi indlela yokuxolela ngokufanelekileyo ukunyeliswa.
Imithetho yokulungelelaniswa ngexesha lokungcatsha
- Ekuqaleni, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba ingqondo ithatha iimvakalelo. Ukumemeza, ukudabuka kuza kubakho nto, abayi kukunceda baphile, ingakumbi xa kunokuxhalabisa njengokusindiswa kokuthandana nomntu othandekayo. Kufuneka ukuba uzibonele kwaye uzigwebe ngokuzimeleyo imeko.
- Isinyathelo sesibini kukugxila kwinto ethile, kubantu abasondeleyo, ngabahlobo, kodwa kungekhona kumntu onikhathazayo. Akuyimfuneko ukuyeka ngokupheleleyo ukuthetha naye, kuphela xa kuyimfuneko, ukwenza oku.
- Akwanele ukuqwalasela imeko ekhoyo ngoku, ngokuqwalasela zonke iinkalo zenzeke. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela izizathu, kunye nokuqedwa kwazo, ekubeni umntu othatha inxaxheba ekungcatshweni akayena mntu. Kufuneka ukwazi ukusilela kwakho. Yiyiphi
unokusebenza kule meko ukuze kuzuze ukutshutshiswa. - Ngoku siyakwazi ukuqhubela phambili ekunxibelelaneni nasekucaciseni ubukho obukhoyo okanye ukuvuselela ubudlelwane. Kwiimeko kunye nomntu othandekayo, kunzima, kuba kungekhona wonke umntu onokuphila ngokungcatshwa komntu othandekayo aze azinikele ngaphandle kokuqhubeka nokulwa. Kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuvuselela izicwangciso zexesha elizayo, rhoqo ubeka ukuba oku kuya kwenziwa kunye.
Ngokudlukisayo, ukuthengwa kwabaninzi kubalungileyo, ubudlelwane obomelezayo kwikamva. Kwaye abo baphumelele ukusinda, kufuneka babe ngumzekelo ocacileyo kwabanye.