Ukuvusa umntwana usondlo?
Oku kuyimfuneko ngexesha lesibongo sokulala. Ibonakala ngokunyuka kweentloko zeentloko, imilomo, izitho, kwaye umntwana usenokumomotheka ngeli xesha. Ungasebenzisa iindlela ezilandelayo:
- Umama angaqala ukuthetha, kucula ingoma, - i-crumb ingasuka kwizwi lomama;
- unokuvula nje umntwana, susa ingubo, kwezinye iimeko ezi zaneleyo;
- Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukukhawulela amaqhina okanye imilenze ye-crumb, bavuselele, bethinte umntwana;
- ukuba umntwana engalali embhedeni womntwana, kodwa kwi-sofa enkulu, ngoko unina alala phantsi kwakhe aze amkhumbuze umntwana, evakalelwa kukusondeza umntu ozalelwa ekhaya, uya kuvuka;
- indlela efanelekileyo ukutshintsha iingubo zentsana okanye ukutshintsha i-diaper, i-crumb ivakalelwa utshintsho kwiqondo lokushisa kwaye ivuke, ngaphandle koko, le nto isenzo esiqhelekileyo se-karapuza, ayiyiyiki;
- Ungathatha umntwana ezandleni zakho kwaye uyibambe kwindawo egciniweyo, ngokuqhelekileyo kubangela ukuba i-crumb ivule amehlo akho.
Zonke ezi ngcebiso zilula zenziwa lula ngunyama. Ukwazi ukuvusa usana olusandul ' ukondla ebusuku okanye emini, umama unokuhlala ejongene nale meko.
Iingcebiso kumama
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali, abanqwenela ukuvusa i-crumb, bangene kwigumbi baze bavule ngokukhawuleza ukukhanya. Ukukhanyisa okukhanyayo, ngokuchaseneyo, kubangela umntwana ukuba agcine amehlo akhe avaliwe. Kulungele ukusebenzisa ukukhanya okungenakukhanya, kuya kunceda ekuxazululeni ingxaki.
Inkosikazi inokucela kwikhaya lokubeleka indlela yokuvusa umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa. Iingcali zisebenza apho, kwaye ziya kunika iingcebiso ezicacileyo. Ngokubanzi, unganqikazi ukubuza imibuzo kubasebenzi bezempilo. Ukuba ngaba abazali baqaphela ukuba ezi ndlela azizincedi, kwaye umntwana usweleke kakhulu, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukudibana nodokotela. Kungenzeka ukuba unina ongenamava wenza into engalunganga, kwaye ugqirha uya kulungisa amanyathelo akhe. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ukuphendula okunjalo komntwana kuya kuba ngumqondiso ugqirha ukuba enze uphando.