Iyiphi indima oothixo abanomdlayo abadlalayo kulo masiko? Kucacile ukuba umntwana usengakwazi ukuqonda iimbopheleleko zakhe kuThixo, akanalo ithuba lokuguquka nokubeka ukholo lwakhe. Ngenxa yale njongo, ootywala baqeshwe.
Ukuba uthembekile ukuba ube ngu-godfather, yazi ukuba ihloniphekile, kuba uya kuba ngumama wesibini umntwana. Kule nqaku siza kukuxelela oko kufuneka ukwazi malunga nekristen yomntwana wodade ozayo.
Izibophelelo ezibalulekileyo ziphambi kwakho. Okokuqala, unembopheleleko yentsana phambi koThixo, unoxanduva lwemfundo yokomoya yonyana okanye intombi yakho, ngoko kuya kufuneka uthathe inxaxheba ebomini bomntwana kunye nezihlobo zakhe zegazi, kwaye okwesibini, wenza umsebenzi wokunyamekela umntwana njengomama, Ukuba kukho into eyenzeka kubazali bezinto eziphilayo.
Lungiselela ukukhulelwa komntwana kusengaphambili, ngoko qwalasela imigaqo ekhoyo ku-unina, ngokulandela lo mkhosi:
- ubhaptizwe kwiOrdodoxy;
- Ngethuba lokubhaptizwa, tyelela itempileni, uphenduke ezonweni uze ufumane intlanganiso;
- ngexesha lomthendeleko unomnqamlezo;
- kuba ngengubo efihla emagxeni nasemilenzeni (ngaphantsi kwamadolo) kunye nebheki efihla intloko;
- musa ukusebenzisa ukwakheka okukhulu kwaye ungagqoki iimpahla ezingcolileyo.
Ungagqoki izicathulo ngezithende eziphakamileyo, kuba uya kufuna ukuma ixesha elide, ubambe umntwana kwisandla sakho.
Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba oothixo abanomdla bazi ukuba umkhosi uhamba njani. Ubhaptizo luhlala malunga neyure. Umbingeleli uyayichitha ngokulandelelana:
- Ukuthandaza ngomntwana.
- Ukucwiliswa komntwana kwisimboli (kathathu).
- Ukuba intombazana ibhaptizwa, uothixo uthatha ithawula kwaye uthatha umntwana, ukuba uyinkwenkwe, uthabathe uyise.
- Ukugqoka umntwana eengubo ezimhlophe.
- Ukunyuswa.
- Ukugqithisa umfundisi, oothixo kunye nomntwana ezandleni zakhe malunga nefonti (kathathu).
- Ukucima iphunga emzimbeni womntwana.
- Ukusika iinwele ezivela kumntwana emacaleni omane, ziwafake kwikhekhe ye-wax kwaye iwele kwifolda.
- Ukufunda umthandazo wabasanda kubhaptizwa kunye noothixo bakhe.
- Umbingeleli ethwele umntwana ethempelini.
- Ukutya.
Ubhaptizo luthandwa yienkolelo ezininzi ezithandwa. Khawuqwalasele loo miqondiso ye-christening yomntwana ku-unina, omele awaziyo:
- ukubhaptiza amantombazana kuqala;
- Awukwazi ukuhlala ecaweni, ngaphandle koko umntwana akayi kuvuya;
- unkulunkulu ufumana ikhava yomntwana;
- Musa ukusula amanzi obhaptiziweyo ebusweni bakho, makumile;
- kwitafile yobhaptizo ashiye ukutya kwiiplate;
- ukubeka kwi-shelf ephezulu ye-gingerbread kwaye uthi: "KuThixo (umxoli-nkulu) ukhule kakhulu (ukhulile)."
Yintoni endiyithengayo ukuze i-christening yomntwana kunye nonina?
Xa uhamba emkhosini wobhaptizo, oothixo abanokuza kufuneka bazi izinto zokuthenga:
- White natelnuyu shirtshechku okanye ugqoke umntwana, unokukwazi ukugqoka. Bafaka abantwana ngokukhawuleza emva komkhosi.
- Igolide, isilivere okanye umnqamlezo olula kunye nomnqamlezo. Kufuneka ube ngumtya. Ingathengwa ebandleni ngaphambi kokubhaptizwa.
- Ikhothini - ilinen okanye ithawula, ngaphakathi
apho umntwana ehamba khona emva komkhosi. - Chepchik okanye kosynochku.
- Ingubo yentsana yokugubungela iimvuthu emva kwendatshana ukuze ingabi kubanda.
- Isikhwama sokuthwala iinwele zentsana.
- Isipho sokuxoxwa nguThixo. Isipho esona sisona siphambano, isipuni sesilivere, okanye umfanekiso.
Sihlolisise oko kuyimfuneko ukumazi oothixo ngexesha lokukhulelwa komntwana. Siyathemba ukuba olu lwazi luyakunceda ukulungiselela kakuhle esi siganeko esibalulekileyo ebomini bakho kunye nobomi bukaThixox okanye uhlambalaza wakho.