Iintsana kufuneka zondliwe kaninzi?

Abazali abancinci banemibuzo emalunga neendlela zokunyamekela umntwana. Emva kwakho konke, usoloko ufuna umntwana ukuba akhule kwindawo apho ukutya, ukulala, ukuhamba, njl., Kwakungcono kakhulu kuye. Kwaye ukuba yonke into ingacacile ngokuhamba kunye nokulala, imicimbi yokutya, umzekelo, kaninzi kangakanani ukutya umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, suka kumama kunye nootata.

Ukuncelisa

Kwi-Soviet Union eyikude, inkqubo yenzelwe ukuthambisa umntwana kwifuba yonke iiyure ezingama-3-3.5 emini, kwaye ebusuku ubusuku bokulala ubusuku. Ingaba oku kulungile okanye akunjalo, imbambano iyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu , kuba kusekho nabalandeli ababini kunye nabachasene nale ndlela yokukhulisa abantwana.

Ngoku izihlandlo zitshintshile kwaye umbuzo wokuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukunyusa umntwana osandul 'usana ngobisi lwebele, nasiphi na isibhedlele siya kuphendula: "Kufuneka." Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba ekuncincikeni komntwana kuyimfuneko ukuyifakela esifubeni. Nangona kunjalo, kule nkqubo kunemigangatho: ukuba i-crumb iphilile kwaye iyancipha, ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba uyondle 8 ukuya kwezi-12 ngosuku. Ukuba iimfuno zomntwana zihluke kakhulu kumda ohlongozwayo, zombini kwelinye nakwezinye izikhokelo, kufuneka ukuba kuboniswe kwinqanaba labantwana.

Ukuthetha malunga nexesha elidinga kangakanani ukutya umntwana osandul 'ubusuku ebusuku, ngoko umda ophezulu uvela kwi-3 ukuya kwe-4 yokutya. Ukuba abazali banethamsanqa kwaye banomntwana ongevuki ebusuku ngeeyure ezingama-6 ngokulandelelana, ke akukhuthazwa ukuba avuke ngokukodwa ukutya iimvuthu. Okukuphela kwexesha xa umntwana engenako ubunzima obukhulu.

Ukongezelela, kukho iimeko, ingakumbi ukuba abazali abazenzi izidumbu xa umntwana ecela isifuba. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba unomdla wokutya umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, enye yeyona mibuzo ephakamileyo kakhulu kwiimeko ezinikeziweyo. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kukhunjulwe ingqalelo ukuba umntwana usenokuxhalabisa ngengcamango yakhe yokusondeza, kungekhona umnqweno wokutya.

Ukutya okufakwayo

Xa uphendula umbuzo wokuba usoloko ungondla usana olusandul 'umxube, ootitshala bezingane bavumelana ngokubona kwabo kwaye bacebisa ukuba banike ibhotile kumntwana njalo emva kweeyure ezingama-3-3.5. Ukuba izidlo zokutya ziyabonwa, kodwa umntwana ucela ukuba adle rhoqo, kuyacetyiswa ukuba udibane nodokotela, tk. kungenzeka ukuba umntwana lo mxube awufanelekanga.

Ngoko, kumbuzo wokuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukunyusa umntwana osanda kuzalwa, impendulo ixhomekeke, okokuqala, okokudlayo. Kwaye ukuba awunayo inombolo ecacileyo xa uncelisayo, ngoko ke xa usondla umxube inqanaba eliphakanyisiweyo li-6 ngamaxesha.