Ekugqibeleni kwafika loo mzuzu mnandi - waba ngumzali. Kwaye kwimihla yokuqala yokuzalwa komntwana, unomthwalo omkhulu. Kakade ke, amaninzi amaninzi umama uya kuba nomntwana, ubaba kufuneka ngaloo xesha aqinisekise ukuzinza kwezezimali kwintsapho. Kwaye umsebenzi oyintloko womama ekuqaleni kukunyamekela ukuba umntwana usomile, uphilile kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ngexesha lokutya.
Ukutya umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa akuyona into elula. Ngokukodwa ubunzima obubangela ekuzalweni kokuqala. Emva kwakho konke, kufuneka ukwazi indlela yokubamba kakuhle umntwana, indlela yokuyifaka kwisifuba, uluhlobo luni lokutya lokugcina. Yonke into ivela namava kwaye ungadikibali ukuba kukho into engasebenzi.
Okwangoku, kukho iingxabano ezisemgangathweni ekulawulweni komntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa. Abanye bathi le nto kufuneka yenziwe ngokucela umntwana, kwaye okwesibini ibonisa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukunyusa umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa ngelixa. Sonke siyaqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba abantwana bahluke. Omnye unokunyamezela ezintathu ukuya kwiine iiyure ngaphambi kokutya okulandelayo, kodwa kwelinye ixesha elibonakala likhulu kakhulu. Ukuba umntwana wakho akasayi kuma ngeli xesha, umntwana wakho akanalo ubisi obaneleyo okanye akasadli nje. Kule meko, ukuhambelana nolawulo xa usondeza umntwana usana luyafaneleka, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuyijwayela ngokuthe ngcembe.
Ukunyamekela isondlo sabantwana
Ngamanye amaxesha umbuzo uvela, yintoni enye indlela engcono yokufaka isicelo sokunyusa umntwana? Zininzi zazo, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ezintathu zazo zisetyenziswa:
- Eyokuqala kubo "ngumntwana". Umntwana usephambi kwesifuba, unina usibamba ngesandla esinye, kwaye yesibini inika isifuba.
- Isithuba sesibini silele. Umama kunye nosana balala phantsi. Esi sikhundla sisona sikhululekile.
- Isithuba sesithathu sokondla umntwana sisuka phantsi kwengalo. Intloko yentsana isesifuba, isisu esisecaleni lomama, kunye nemilenze emva komama. Unyulo olunjalo lokutya lunokulungele abantwana abuthathaka. Emva koko, unina ubambe intloko yesana ngesandla sakhe, ngaloo ndlela unceda ukuthatha imvumba yesifuba.
Nasiphi na isikhundla osondla umntwana, into ephambili kukuba wena kunye nosana lwakho uzive ukhululekile.
Ukutya kokuhlwa komntwana
Iintsuku zokuqala isana esingazalwa sisenokuvuka ebusuku kwaye sifune ukuba sondliwe. Kwaye kukho inzuzo eninzi kulo, kuba ubusika bomntwana ubusizi yena kuphela, kodwa nomama. Intengiso yokuqala - ukwandisa inani lobisi kunye nobude bexesha lokutya. Ukudibanisa okwesibini - ngexesha lokutya ebusuku, iprolactin ikhiqizwa, evimbela ukuqaliswa kwenkqubo ye-ovulation.
Kwaye kufuneka wenze ntoni emva kokutya?
Omnye umbuzo odla rhoqo kumama omncinci, njani ukugcina umntwana emva kokutya? Akukho mpendulo engaqinisekanga kuyo. Ezinye zizokugcina umntwana "insika" emva kokutya. Abanye bathi le ndlela "yokuzala" ayizuzisi nayiphi na inzuzo. Misela oomama othandekayo kuwe. Khawukhumbule ukuba iindlela zabazali bethu azizange zonakalise nabani na.
Yaye khumbula, inyanga yokuqala yobomi kukutshintshwa kwintsana kuzinto ezintsha. Zama, ubuncinane eli xesha ukuba uncelise umntwana wakho kuphela. Ngokwenza oku, uya kukuxhasa kwaye uncede ukuba ulungelelanise kwindawo entsha.