Ubhaptizo lomntwana yimithetho

Ubhaptizo ngumzuzu osisigxina ebomini ngamnye umntwana xa efika ingelosi yakhe yokugcina kwaye engena esifubeni sebandla. Abazali bamaOthodoki bakholelwa ukuba ukususela ngoku umntwana uya kukhuselwa kwizilingo zehlabathi kunye nobubi kwaye uya kuhlala efumana uncedo kunye nokukhuselwa elukholweni. Kodwa i-christening yomntwana inemithetho yayo, ekufuneka igcinwe ukuze iqhube kakuhle.

Yintoni oyifunayo ukuba uzilungiselele ukubhaptizwa?

Ngokwesiko, umntwana usabhaptizwa iintsuku ezingama-40 emva kokunikezelwa, kodwa ukuba i-crumb yazalwa yagula okanye ingaphumi, oko kukuthi, kukho isongelo esithile ebomini bakhe, kwaye ukubhaptizwa kwangaphambili kuvunyelwe. Emva koko, emva kokuba isithethe somntwana, ngokwemfundiso yecawa, emva kwesigxala sokunene sibonakala ingelosi yokulondoloza, oya kumkhusela kwizifo ezingokomoya nangokwenyama ebomini bakhe bonke. Ngaphambi kokungena ethempelini ukubhaptizwa, abazali kufuneka banakekele oku kulandelayo:

1. Khetha igama lecawa. Ngexesha lethu akuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana ubizwa ngokuba yiindawo zokuhlala. Kodwa abaninzi banqwenela ukukhetha enye, kungekhona, igama ngokuhambelana nemithetho emidala kunye namasiko omntwana womKristu. Ngaphambili wayekholelwa ukuba oku kuya kunceda ukunyaniseka ngakumbi ukukhusela i-influumb kwiempembelelo ezimbi ekufeni kwakhe kwabanye.
2. Yenza isigqibo malunga noothixo. Kufanele ukuba ngamakholwa kunye nabantu abavelela icawa rhoqo, ngubani oza kumthandazela unkulunkulu aze amfundise elukholweni. Ngaphambi komkhosi, kufuneka bafumane ukudibana kunye nokuvuma. Oothixo abanokhetho kufuneka bakhethwe phakathi kwamaOthodoki baze babhaptizwe. Imithetho yokwazisa intombazana ithi kufuneka ukuba ibe noothixokazi, kwaye kwi-crystal yenkwenkwe ayikwazi ukuyenza ngaphandle komntu onkulunkulu. Kodwa ubukho boothixo bobabini besini vunyelwe. Ngokwezigaba azinako, ngaphandle kwabangakholelwa kuThixo, abatywala nezidakamizwa, izilwanyana, abantu abaphila ngokuziphatha okubi, abagula ngengqondo, abazali begazi okanye abantwana abatshadile. Ukukhetha unina okhulelweyo ukhulelwe.
3. Khetha indawo kunye nexesha lokubhaptizwa. Ungabhaptiza intsana nawuphi na umhla, kwimeko yokuzila okanye ieholide. Ngokwesiko lendoda, oku kulunge ngakumbi ngoMgqibelo.
4. Ukuthenga izixhobo eziyimfuneko. Umgaqo obalulekileyo we-christening yomntwana kukuba ukuhlawulwa komvuzo kunikwe u-godfather. Kwakhona uthenge umnqamlezo, ukuba unkulunkulu wakhe uyindoda. Unkulunkulu ufumana umnqamlezo. Ingaba yinto yegolide kunye nesiliva. Kananjalo unkulunkulu uyalela i-kryzhma-isigqubuthelo esikhethekileyo apho umntwana ehlanganiswe ngexesha lokubhaptizwa, kunye ne-icon enegama le-saint-ingcwele yomntwana wengane.

Uhlobo lubhaptizo lubonakala ngathi?

Ngomhla otyunjwe oothixo mabafanele bathathe umntwana usuke kwindlu ngaphambili kwaye bamthabise ecaweni, apho umama wakhe noyise bafika kungekudala. Ngexesha elifanayo, emva kokungena kwiindawo zokuhlala ze-godson, u-godfather nomama akufanele bahlale phantsi. Ngokuqhelekileyo izalamane kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo abakhona. Abafazi mabafanele bagqoke ngokufanelekileyo: iingubo ezide, ibhokisi elivaliweyo, i-headcarf okanye i-shawl entloko. I-makeup ebomvu iya kubonakala ingafanelekanga. Amadoda nawo ayamkelekanga ukuba avele ethempelini ngamafutshane okanye kwi-T-shirt.

Bonke abakhona kufuneka babe neminqamlezo. Ukuba nabani na wabasetyhini abakhona rhoqo ngenyanga, abakwazi ukuya kulo mbhiyozo. Emva kokubhaptizwa, umbingeleli unqumla intsimbi encinci evela entloko yomntu obhaptiziweyo, okuyiyo isibambiso sokuzinikezela kuThixo. Emva koko udibanisa umntwana kathathu kwipenethi aze afake umtya ngomnqamlezo kuwo, esithi: "Nantsi umnqamlezo wakho, nyana wam (intombi yam), uyithwale." I-Godparents iphinda ithi "Amen" kumfundisi.

Imithetho yomntwana wengane kwimeko yenkwenkwe ehlukileyo kuphela kuba umntwana wesilisa uziswa kwisibingelelo ngokuchasene namantombazana. Kukholelwa ukuba unokuba ngumfundisi. Ngethuba le nkwenkwe inkwenkwe ibambe uothixo kwizandla zakhe, kwaye intombazana-unkulunkulukazi.