Ekubeni intolongo isekelwe ekuthinteleni inkululeko yabantu, amaphupha, apho bekuyiyona nto ephambili, ixhomekeke kwiinguqu eziza kuba nefuthe elibi ebomini. Izigqibo ekugcinweni kwimeko yobomi bokwenene akufanele zityatywe. Xa uhlaziya loo maphupha, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha zesalathisi. Siyabulela ukutolika okucetywayo unokufunda ulwazi oluninzi olumnandi malunga neemeko zexesha elizayo kunye namhla. Konke oku kuza kunika ithuba lokujongana neengxaki ezikhoyo, kunye nokufunda ngeengxaki ezizayo.
Iphupha likajele lisiphi na?
Iphupha elinjalo lingaba luphawu lokuba indlela ekhethiweyo ebomini ayiphutha okanye ukuba wenza izinto ezingathembekanga. Kusenokuba ngumqondiso wokuthula, obangela ubuninzi bezinto eziphazamisayo. Iphupha apho kwakukho intolongo isilumkiso sokuba ulahlekelwe inkululeko yento, umzekelo, emsebenzini okanye uya kuziva unetyala ngenxa yengozi ethile. Khangela intolongo ephupheni, ngoko ke, ngokwenene kuya kufuneka uhlupheke kwivakalelo ezibuhlungu, ezinokuthi zibe nefuthe elibi ebomini. Kwintombazana encinane, iphupha elinjalo libonisa amava ngenxa yokulahlekelwa ngumntu ongenamacala.
Kwincwadi enye yephupha kukho ulwazi ngokubhekiselele kwinto yokubanjwa entolongweni, ngoko kufuneka silindele ukudalulwa kwemfihlo, eya kuba nemiphumo emibi. Ngomfazi osemtshatweni, umbono wobusuku apho ubona umlingane ngasemva kwebhanki kukubonisa ukuba unokutshintsha ngokwenene. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kukubonakalisa ukwesaba okwenziwe ukuqinisekiswa kobuqu bakho. Iphupha apho kwakunokwenzeka ukuphunyuka entolongweni ngumqondiso obonakalisiweyo, oqikelela ukuphelisa umphumo womnye umntu. Ngona mbono wobusuku obunjalo bubonisa ukufumana uxolo olulinde ixesha elide kwimicimbi.
Ukwazi ukuphepha ukuvalelwa, oko kuthetha ukuba unokuba ngumthatha inxaxheba kwiimeko ezininzi eziza kuzisa inzuzo enkulu. Umbono ebusuku, apho ubona intolongo eneefestile ezikhanyayo, ubonisa ukuba ngengqiqo unokukwazi ukujamelana nazo zonke iingxaki. Ukuba ubona indlela isihlwele sabantu esikhupha ngayo iingcango zentolongo, ngoko kwixesha elizayo umntu ovela kwisixokelelwano soqhagamshelwano uya kuzama ukunyenga imali . Iphupha, apho kwakudingeka ukushiya entolongweni, luphawu olubonakalayo, oluchaza kwangaphambili ukugqitywa kwe "bendi ebomnyama" ebomini. U-Snyknik uthi amatsha amasha aza kuvula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye unokuba nexesha elihle kunye nabahlobo bakho. Ukuze uzame ukuphuma entolongweni ephupheni, kuthetha, ngokwenene akufanele wenze izigqibo ezikhawulezayo. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ngokucophelela ukuqwalasela ngenyathelo ngalinye. Ukuba ukhangela iifestile efakwe kwikhamera, ngoko kwixesha elizayo kukho umntu onokukuchaphazela kakhulu. Umbono ebusuku, apho uyakha ijele, uxwayisa ukuba lakho
Yintoni onokuyilindela ukuba uphuphe ukufakwa entolongweni?
Ukulala apho ujikelezileyo kuyisilumkiso sokuba akufanele uvumelane nezenzo ezingekho mthethweni. Sekunjalo ingaba yimbonakalo yokutshatyalaliswa kwezicwangciso ezicwangcisiweyo. Ukuba kwakufuneka uye entolongweni ephupheni - oku kungumqondiso ongeyonto, echaza kwangaphambili ukuvela kweengxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo emsebenzini nasemashishini. Ukubukela abanye abantu abavalelwe entolongweni kuthetha ukuba kwixesha elizayo baya kufuneka bancede baze batshayele amalungelo abo kwiintsapho zabo. Enye yeencwadi zokuphupha inikeza ezahlukeneyo kulolu lwazi, ngokubhekiselele kuyo ukuya entolongweni ephupheni, ngoko yonke imicimbi eqaliswe kweli xesha iya kugqitywa ngokupheleleyo. Kwixesha elizayo elisondeleyo, umngcipheko wokwakha isifo esiyinkimbinkimbi ukwanda.