Abantu abadakiwe kwiinkwenkwezi ezininzi banokubangela ukucaphuka kunye nokunyaniseka, ngakumbi ukuba ngumyeni wakho. Inani elikhulu labameli bezesondo ezilungileyo, bebona iphupha elifanayo, baqala ukulungiselela iingqondo kunye neengxaki ebomini bokwenene. Musa ukuthukuthela kusengaphambili, kuba ngamanye amaxesha amaphupha amabi anokuchazwa kakuhle, ngaba kunjalo, ngoku siya kuluqonda.
Yintoni indoda ephukileyo ephuphayo?
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, iphupha elinjalo liwuphawu olungathandekiyo, olunokuthi luchaze amava omzwe. Iyakwazi ukutolika njengophawu lobuqhetseba bemali. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ngeli xesha ukuba singagqiba nayiphi na isivumelwano kunye nokungavumelani neentlanga. Kodwa kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba iphupha apho umyeni onxilisayo wayecinga ukuba yinto ebonakalayo. Kwintombazana engatshatanga, lo mbono ubusuku uyisilumkiso sokuba kufuneka athathe indlela ethe xaxa yokukhetha abahlobo kunye neqabane lomntu. Kwakhona kungabonakalisa ukukhawuleza, oku kunokukhokelela kwiinkathazo ezininzi.
Kwinye yeencwadi zokuphupha kukho ulwazi lokuba uphuphe umyeni onxilisiweyo, kuthetha, kwikamva elikufutshane kunobungozi bokulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi. Ngomfazi oza kutshata, umbono ololo hlobo ubusuku bungabonakalisa ukuba unomdla wokutshata. Kusenokuba kukho into yokuba kukhethwe udidi oluyinkimbinkimbi kunye nobomi bentsapho nayo kuya kuba nzima. Kwezinye iimeko, iphupha ngendoda enxilayo inokuthathwa njengesincophiso sokuba kulungele ukunyamekela ngakumbi umfazi ebomini bokwenene.
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