Iingcamango ziyingxenye engabonakaliyo yolwazi, apho abantu bafumana khona imiqondiso malunga nekhoyo kunye nekamva. Ukuze uyichaze kakuhle, kufuneka usebenzise iincwadi ezikhoyo zephupha, kodwa kufuneka zikhunjulwe ukuba iimpapasho ezahlukeneyo zihlala zinika ulwazi oluhlukileyo. Kule meko, kulufanelekile ukuthelekisa le mibhalo kunye neemeko zobomi bokwenene, udwebe umzobo.
Kutheni siphupha ngeqhwa elimhlophe nelinen?
Ukuba wakwazi ukubona ihlathi elinzima, kufuneka ulungiselele utshintsho oluchaphazela umsebenzi okanye ishishini . Kwinye yeencwadi zephupha, ikhephu elimhlophe lidibene nesibhedlele, oko kukuthi, iphupha liyakwazi ukubonwa njengesincophiso ofuna ukuyijonga kakuhle impilo yakho. Ukuphupha kwekhephu elimhlophe nelicocekileyo ehlotyeni yi-harbinger yezinto ezimangalisayo, kwaye umntu unokulindela ukuvula amathuba okulinganisa. Enye iphupha lithetha ukutshintsha ubomi.
Umbono ebusuku, apho iqhwa eliqhambileyo likhanya elangeni, lithembisa ukuqala kolwalamano olutsha. Ukubona iphupha apho kwakufuneka ubukele khona ubusuku ekhephu ngefestile kukubonakalisa ukuba kulindeleke ukuba umntu alindele ilitha kunye nomthandi. Iqhwa elichanekileyo nelomhlophe ephupheni eliye lawa kwiinqanda ezinkulu zekhephu liphawu lotyalo-mali oluphumeleleyo oluya kwenza ukuba kube nenzuzo ezayo kwixesha elizayo. Ukuba umntu ephupheni ehlanganiswe nekhephu ecocekileyo necocekileyo, ngoko kusasa kwixesha elizayo, yonke ishishini liya kuphumelela, kuba lihamba neenhlanhla. Iphupha apho indoda yatshisa khona iqhosha kwikhephu lithetha ukuba akanalo ixesha elaneleyo lobomi bokwenene ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe wokuzilibazisa.
Iphupha elingavamile, apho kwakudingeka ukuba lidle iqhwa, li lumkisa ukuba kungekudala kuyimfuneko ukujamelana nokuwa kwezimvo. Ukuba iqhwa liyancibilika, ngoko kufanelekile ukulahla konke ukwesaba , kuba kungekudala kuya kuba neqela elimhlophe. Imifutshane ehlanganiswe ngeqhwa ephupheni yimiqondiso emihle, nto leyo ithetha ukuba yimpumelelo, kwaye ingakanani into engafanelekanga ngayo. Imbono yasebusuku yeqhwa leqhwa lihlobo lokubiza, kuba kwikamva kuya kuba neengxaki. Enye iphupha li nokuba ngumqondiso wokudumazeka nokulindela okukhohlisa.
Ukuhamba ngekhephu elimhlophe nelinen ephuphayo ngumqondiso obonakalisiweyo, obonisa ukuba kuya kubakho ukujamelana nazo zonke izithintelo eziza kuvela kwikamva elizayo. Umbono ebusuku, apho ndafuneka ndihambe ngeengubo ezinqabileyo kwikhephu, zibeka iingxaki kwiinkalo zemali. Enye iphupha linokuba lube ngcebiso yokuba kulungile ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi kubantu abasondeleyo.
Namhlanje kuyimfashini ukucacisa amaphupha avela kwizengqondo. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngamaphupha, iqhwa liyinto engqinelanayo yengqiqo kunye nokuqonda, kunye nokungabi nantoni yokuphila kwangempela. Iingcali zeengqondo zidla ngokucinga ngamaphupha ngeqhwa elimhlophe, umqondiso wobomi obunzima obudlulayo kwisicwangciso esithile. Isiqhwithi ephupheni sibonakalisa isimo sokukhathazeka komntu. Ukuba kukho uloyiko lwezinto, ngokukhawuleza umphuphi uya kufuneka abhekane neemeko ezingaphezu kwamandla akhe. Iphupha, malunga neqhwa elimhlophe eliwileyo,
Kutheni ikhephu elimhlophe nelinen ecocekileyo?
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo iphupha elifanayo lithetha ukuba kuya kuba ne-stagnation ebomini bakho. Ukuba kwakufuneka uhambe ngeqhinga elikhethiweyo ephupheni, kufuneka ujamelane nokungaqondi abantu abakufutshane nawe. Esinye isicwangciso esifanayo singathetha indlela yokuhlola iimvavanyo ezibucayi. Kweminye yeencwadi zokuphupha unokufumana ulwazi oluninzi lweqhwa lekhephu eliphupha ukuphucula izinto eziphathekayo. Umbono ebusuku, apho umphuphi waphupha indlela yakhe kwiqhwa leqhwa, eprofeta indlela yokufumana iingxaki ezininzi. Ukuba ufanele ugibele i-sledge kwi-snow-white scrifts, ithetha ukuba kungekudala uza kufuneka ubhekane neempikiswano ebomini bakho.