Ephupheni, umntu unokubona izifundo ezihluke ngokupheleleyo, ezinokuthi zinezinto ezilungileyo nezimbi. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo amaphupha angathandekiyo, ngokuchaseneyo, aphikisayo. Ukuze uchaze iphupha, apho umntu efuna ukumbulala, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha zesalathisi.
Kutheni uphupha ukuba ufuna ukukubulala?
Ukuba kwakufuneka ubalekele umbulali ephupheni - oku kuwuphawu oluhle, oluthembisa ixesha elide. Umbono ebusuku, apho bekuyimfuneko ukufihla kwisihlwele kumbulali, uxwayisa malunga nobukho beentshaba abalindele ithuba lokugxeka. Sekunjalo ingaba yi-harbinger yeengxaki eziphathekayo eziphathekayo. Ukuba umntu osuka kubahlobo okanye abantu abasondeleyo bafuna ukubulala ephupheni, ke lo mntu ebomini bokwenene uya kuzama ukukhupha umphuphi. Iphupha apho imizamo yokubulala ayiphumelelanga isilumkiso malunga nokuba kukho umngcipheko kwimpilo nobomi.
Ukuba ufuna ukubulala ngeqebunga ephupheni - le nto i-harbinger yeemvakalelo ezinzima kunye nokudandatheka. Umphuphi kufuneka ahlangane nayo yonke imikhosi yokuhlangabezana nazo zonke iingxaki. Umbono ebusuku, apho bekufuneka ndibandakanye isandla sokulwa nombulali, ubonisa ukuba kukho ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi, oku kungandivumeli ukuba ndiphile kwaye ndiqhubele phambili ngokuthula. Ingcaciso yephupha ikhuthaza ukuthatha ikhefu nokuzihlaziya ngokuzinzileyo. Ukutolika kwephupha kweso siqhinga, apho bafuna ukubulala ephupheni baze bathathe umkhombandlela, baqwalasela isilumkiso sokuba iintshaba ziya kuzama ukutshabalalisa kwaye, okokuqala, ixhalaba ngabathengisi emsebenzini. Ukuba irhamncwa lifuna ukuhlaselwa nokubulala, ngoko kwixesha elizayo umphuphi uya kudibana nomhlobo omhle. Amantombazana angatshatanga nje iphupha athembise ukubonakala kommiselo omtsha. Ukubona kwiphupha ukuba izihlobo eziseduze zifuna ukukubulala, ngoko, umntu ovela kubantu abakujikelezile ufuna ukuseka ubudlelwane , kodwa okwangoku awusebenzi. Umbono ebusuku, apho umfokazi efuna ukumbulala ngesibhamu, uxwayisa ngeengxaki zomsebenzi.