Ukutyhila intsingiselo yobuthongo, apho ubela khona inkomo, kufuneka ukwazi ukuba lithini leli phofu eliliphuphayo. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, inkomo ithathwa njengongumongikazi oyintloko kwintsapho. Ukuba usapho luneli silwanyana, awukwazi ukwesaba indlala. Ngoko ke, ubuthongo kufuneka budibene nentsapho yakho.
Kutheni ufuna ukuphupha inkomo kwiphupha?
Iphupha liqikelela ukuchuma kunye nenhlalakahle. Kufuneka kwakhona ukhumbule yiphi inkomo oyilisayo - eyomileyo okanye epheleleyo. Ukuba zincinci, kunokuthi kubekho ilahleko ezincinci, kodwa inkqubo yokubambisa ibenza ibe yinto engabalulekanga, kwaye inzuzo iya kuqhubeka. Ukulinywa kwenkomo enqatyisiweyo ngokukhawuleza kuthetha umthombo osondeleyo wokuchuma okukhulu. Iindaba ezimbi zifanelekile ukulinda, kuphela ukuba uphupha inkomo emnyama. Lapha ukubaluleka komnyama kubaluleke ngaphezu kwesilwanyana.
Ngenhlanhla kwishishini, umntu unokuthemba, xa ephupha inkomo inika inani elikhulu lobisi. Kodwa ngenxa yesiphumo esinjalo kuya kuba yimfuneko ukuzama kanzima kwaye ungayishiyi. Ukuba ephupheni uyaziqhenya kakhulu ngobisi obumnandi isilwanyana esizisile kuwe, mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi, uza kufumana ilifa kungekudala. Uyakwazi ukutshala imali ngokutsha kwishishini elitsha, kwaye ngoncedo lomonde kunye nobasebenzi uza kufumana inzuzo enkulu. Uya kwandisa inhlalakahle yakho.
Ixabiso elibi liphupha, xa ubisi olusandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza lubuhlungu okanye luba buhlungu. Lo mqondiso ubonisa iingxaki kwimicimbi yentsapho okanye kwishishini . Kwakhona kunokuthetha ukuba phakathi kwabahlobo kukhona abantu abanobukhwele abafuna ukuphazamisa ubomi, baqaphele.
Kutheni ndiphupha ukukhwela inkomo?
Ukuba ibhinqa liphupha iphupha apho lisela khona inkomo - oku kuthetha ubomi bentsapho obonwabileyo, ingakumbi xa ubisi lumhlophe, ngephunga elimnandi. Kodwa eli xabiso lichaphazeleka kuphela xa umfazi esatshatileyo. Xa intombazana iphupha ukuba ityabe inkomo, kuqikelelwe ukuba ubutyebi bayo kuphela kubalulekile kumfana osemntwini, kwaye imiba yabantu ayimjabulisi.
Kwakhona, xa ibhinqa liphupha ukuba likhwela inkomo, oku kunokuchaphazela ngqo umntwana wakhe. Eli phupha lithetha ukuba uya kuhamba kunye nenhlanhla kunye novuyo.
Kutheni ujonge ubisi lweenkomo kwibhakethi?
Ibhakede elizaliswe ubisi lweenkomo liphawu oluhle. Ukuba uphupha ukuba ubisi inkomo uze ugcwalise ibhakede ngobisi, ngoko ngokwenene uya kuba nexesha elifudumele elichithwa ngabantu abathandekayo nabathandekayo. Kulo msebenzi, eli phupha lithetha ukungahambi kakuhle kwezinto kunye nenhlanhla kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi osebenzayo. Ukuxabisa okulungileyo, into ebalulekileyo kukuba ubisi kufuneka bube mhlophe, mhlophe, ngephunga elimnandi, kwaye lingabi libi. Ngobisi obubi, ubuthongo buba nemiphumo emibi.