Ulwandle olunxwemeni, olubonwa ngephupha, luthembisa umntu ngokukhawuleza kweengxaki ekujonganeni nabantu abasondelene naye, kodwa ukuqonda ukuba kuya kwenzeka ukuba usombulule imeko engathandekiyo ngaphandle kwemiphumo emibi, umntu makakhumbule umbono wakhe, kuphela ngale ndlela ungayiqonda ukuba ulwandle luphupha ntoni na elinde phambili.
Kutheni uphupha ulwandle lolwandle?
Ubunxweme obunxweme ngokubhekiselele kwincwadi yephupha likaMiller uthi umntu ukhathele ngeengxaki kunye neengxaki ezahlukeneyo kwaye ufuna ukuphumla, kodwa unokwenza oko akufunayo kuphela xa isanti elwandle luhlambulukile kwaye ulwandle luzolile.
Ukuba kukho abantu abaselunxwemeni, khumbula ukuba ngaba bayazi wena nendlela abaziphatha ngayo. Kwimeko apho abantu abanomdla nabanobubele owaziyo, umbono ubonisa uncedo ekuxazululeni iingxaki. Ewe, ukuba le ndawo yindawo yokuphumla i-nudist, ngoko-ke ukutyeba kwimeko ekhuselekileyo kulindeleke umntu, yintoni elwandle kunye nabantu abahamba ngamabhongo amaphupha.
Ngoku makhe sibone ukuba yintoni isanti esingcolileyo elunxwemeni. Uninzi lwabafundi bephupha bathi loo mbono ibonisa ukuba iqela elimnyama liya kudla ubomi, kwaye liya kuhlala ixesha elide. Inkunkuma eninzi kunxweme kwiphupha umntu abonayo, i
Ukuba le ntombazana iphupha ukuba ithabatha iibhakabhaka zelanga kummandla wonxweme, mhlawumbi umhlobo wakhe osondeleyo uya kumkhohlisa ngexesha elizayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kuba kwiincwadi zokuphupha malunga neqabane lesini kunye nokungcatsha, yiyiphi iphupha malunga nomfazi oshona ilanga elunxwemeni. Kodwa kumntu lo mbono, ngokuchaseneyo, uthembisa ukuphumla kunye nethuba lokuphumla kwizinto ezingamampunge, iingxaki zixazululwa yizo kunye nazo zonke iingxaki , ezibandakanya izinto eziphathekayo, ziya kushiywa emva.