Yeka inhlanhla lowo unomzalwana! Emva koko, lo ngumntu osondeleyo kwaye uyithandayo. Emva kwakhe uziva ngathi emva kwodonga lwamatye. Uhlala ekhusela wena, uxhasa, uyakhathalela. Xa kuziwa ngosuku olubalulekileyo njengosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, uqala ukuhlushwa ngumbuzo wento onokuyenza umzalwana wakho. Ndifuna isipho siveze iimvakalelo ezifudumeleyo, iinkumbulo ezixabisekileyo kwigazi lakho, kwaye zinike lonke uthando lwakho. Indlela yokwenza isipho kumntakwabo, ngoko ukuba uyayixabisa kwaye uyayikhumbula ngonaphakade, funda ngokubanzi kwinqaku.
Yintoni ongayinika umzalwana omdala?
Ngaphandle kokungathandabuzeki, isipho sifanele sihambelane neminqweno kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa zomzalwana wakho, ukumelana naye ngomoya nangendlela. Zama ukukhumbula oko umzalwana wakho akuthandayo, yintoni inomdla kunye nesibindi esiya kwisipho. Ungalibali ukuba abaninzi abantu abathandi zonke iintlobo zee-trinkets ezikhulayo kwiithalafu, kodwa zikhethele izipho ezingenakuzifumana ngokuzonwabisa.
Yiyiphi indoda engathandi imoto? Isipho esona sisona sikhulu somqhubi womzalwana imoto entsha, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu unethuba, ngokokuba izixhobo zeemoto ziphelele. Ingumqhubi wemoto, umtshini we-radar, i-DVR okanye isimbozo esishushu.
Umlobi okanye umzingeli ngesipho angathabatha intonga entsha yokuloba, umloba wokuloba okanye ukuzingela, isikebhe esinokuthabatha. Amadoda anqwenelekayo kwiintlobo zokuzonwabisa (okanye ezemidlalo) ngokuqinisekileyo uyazixabisa isipho sakho.
Ukuba umntakwenu ungumntu oshishino okanye nje umntu oshishino, uya kuba nofanelekile izipho ezinjalo ezihloniphekileyo njengekhredithi yesikhumba, amanzi angasese e-brand eyaziwayo, i-lighter ebiza kakhulu, ibhotile ye-whisky ye-vintage okanye i-cognac, igolide yegolide (ikhetri, ukushicilela) okanye i-clockwork (musa nje ukulibala thabatha imali evela kumzalwana ngomlindi).
Isipho sokuqala kumzalwana othanda imidlalo engqongqo isatifikethi sesipho sokuzala emlanjeni weentaba kunye ne-parachute.
Ingaba umntakwenu ungumnikazi wangempela wendlu kwaye uthanda ukulungisa yonke into kwaye uyenze ngokwakho? Mnike iisethi zezinto ezisemgangathweni okanye ezinye (fumana ngaphambili) izixhobo zamandla.
Kumdlali wezentengo uthenge amathikithi enye okanye imidlalo emininzi yebhola, umfanisi okanye iisethi zeetennis. Ukuba umzalwana uyakuthanda ukubhukuda, ukubhaliswa kwidama kuya kulungile.
Khumbula ukuba awuthandi kuphela ukuphumla. Nika umzalwana wakho i-brazier, i-grill, isethi ye-skewers okanye intente yenkampu eneebhegi zokulala. Kuya kuba nesizathu sokuba yonke intsapho iphume epikinikini okanye iqalise ukukhwela.
Yintoni enokuyenza umzalwana omncinci?
Xa umntakwenu omncinci ekhula ngokudubula kunye neengqungquthela, unokukwazi ukubizwa ngokuba ngumntwana osemtsha. Abantwana kule minyaka banomdla kakhulu kwaye bazibheka ngokwaneleyo, ngoko akunakulula ukuyikholisa.
Kuze kube namhlanje, intsha iyakuthanda ikhompyutha okanye ezinye izixhobo zombane. Mnike umnxeba, umdlali we-mp3, umdlalo we-gameplay, iifowuni zekhomputha, umzekelo, inqakrazo entsha okanye imouse, ikhamera yewebhu, izithethi,
Ukuba umntakwabo omncinane uthanda imidlalo, uya kuthanda ibhola yebholabhu okanye i-volleyball, intonga entsha, ibhasikidi okanye i-helmese helmet.
Unokwenza isipho kumfowenu ngezandla zakho ngendlela yeefowuni kunye neekhogali zeendidi zakhe ezithandayo okanye ngabaculi, okanye unako ukuyalela i-T-shirt eneempawu zeqela lebhola okanye igama lomdlali ozithandayo.
Into ebalulekileyo kukunika abathandekayo bakho uthando, ukufudumala nokunyamekela, kwaye bayakuxabisa.