Ngokwamasiko ase-Orthodox, abantwana babhaptizwa. Kukholelwa ukuba emva kwesi siko umntwana ufumana ingelosi yakhe yokugcina. Yingakho isakramente yobhaptizo iyalingwa ngokukhawuleza, ukuze ungashiyi umntwana ngaphandle kokukhuselwa. Umcimbi wobhaptizo awubalulekile kuphela kumntwana nabazali bakhe, kodwa nakwabo bahloniphekileyo ukuba babe ngoothixo kunye nonina kumntwana. Ngoko uothixo ubamba umntwana kwiengalo zakhe ngexesha lonke umkhosi aze adlulisele umntwana kumntwana ngokungena kwifayili. Ukongezelela, oothixo bafanele banikele i-godson isipho, ngoko kubalulekile ukucinga ngokucokisekileyo malunga nokokunika ubhaptizo lomntwana.
Yintoni eqhelekileyo yokunika umfana inkwenkwezi?
Abantu abangaqhelanga ngokukhethekileyo ukubhaptizwa abahlali besazi ukuba banike i-godson yokukhanda. Ukuze sikhuphe ukuhlushwa okunjalo, okokuqala siya kuqonda oko kumiselwe ukunika izithethe. Ngokwesiko lomncinci, oothixo mabagqoke yonke into entsha ukusuka entloko ukuya enyaweni. Kodwa ukususela phantse yonke into eyenziwa ngumntwana usezandleni zikaThixo, ke yena omele anikeze iingubo zakhe kumntwana. Ukongeza kwikhati lokubhaptizwa kunye nekhanda, kufuneka kwakhona unakekele umngcipheko (ilinen okanye ithawula, embozwe kumntwana, uthabathe ifolda). Ziziphi izipho zenkwenkwana ye-Christ - isilungiselelo esilungile okanye isilula i-godson zonke izinto eziyimfuneko ngezandla zayo? Akukho mingcipheko eqinile apha, sivumela ukuba zikhethwe zimbini. Ngaphambili, ngokuqinisekileyo, yonke into yayikhonkxwe ngesandla, kodwa ngoku ungathenga i-christening setting. Ezi zinto zihlala zihlala ixesha lokuphila, ngoko ke ukhetha ithawula, i-cap kunye nekhati kunikwa ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Zonke izinto zifanele zivisisane nomnye, kwaye umbala wengubo umhlophe, ubisi okanye ukhilimu, njengoko ubonisa ukuhlanzeka nokucocwa. Ukongezelela ubuhle, kufuneka uqaphele ukulungeleka kwesi sambatho - intsimbi ithambileyo, iindawo ezifihliweyo zifihliweyo, ukuze zingacasuli isikhumba esincinci sentsana, kwaye zonke izinto zokuhlobisa zicatshulwa.
Kwakhona, izipho ezifunekayo ziquka umnqamlezo kunye nekholeji, ngokwesiko, bathengwa ngu-godfather. Ukusuka oko kuza kwenziwa umnqamlezo wokuqala ungabalulekanga, ukuba unqwenela, uxoxule ke unokutshintsha, kwaye umnqamlezo wokuqala ugcinwe kuphela. Ukuba umntwana unikezwa ikhonkco kunye nomnqamlezo, kungcono ukuba uvumeleke ukuba ulale "ekuphumeni", kwaye ngoku kungcono ukunxiba umnqamlezo kwibhanki elithambileyo, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana angashukunyiswa kwi-chain friction kwesikhumba.
Yintoni enye ongayinika inkwenkwe yokukhanda?
Yintoni enye ongayinika isipho ku-godson? Ngokuqhelekileyo, isipho esinjalo senziwe nge-christenings - inkwenkwana (okanye intombazana) inikwe iBhayibhile yezingane kunye nemifanekiso enemibala, kunye nekiso elincinane elinomfanekiso wongcwele ongconyayo umntwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abaninzi baye bakuva ngesithethe esinjalo esidala ukuba banike iimpawu eziqhelekileyo. Isithonjana eso sibhalwe ebhodini ekukhuleni komntwana. Ikhonkco ibonisa ingcwele yomntwana womntwana, kwaye uphawu lwalubekwe kwigumbi lakhe. Ngumfanekiso onjani omele ndiwubonise uThixo wami namhlanje? Ngamhla, njengokuba kunjalo, inkwenkwe yokukhanda i-christening ayinakwenzeka ukuba inikwe uphawu olunjalo oluqhelekileyo, kodwa ukuthenga okuqhelekileyo
Kananjalo nemveli isipho sesiliva sesiliva "kumazinyo." Kodwa ngokubanzi, akukho mfuno ezizodwa zezipho. Ukuba ungathandabuzeki ukhetho, unokubuza umama womntwana oko kukulungele ukunika inkwenkwe inkwenkwe yakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo banikela izinto zezingane kwi-christenings, kodwa oomama abaninzi banomdla kakhulu kwizinto abazikhethelayo kwaye banqwenela ukuthenga yonke into ngokwabo. Mhlawumbi amathoyizi, abahambahambayo okanye abahambahamba kwintsana baya kuvuya. Unokukunceda abazali abancinane ukuba balungiselele itafile yeholide, umzekelo, bathenge ikheke elihle.