Ayikho imfihlo yokuba ukubhiyozelwa koNyaka omtsha ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka kwiinkampani ezinxulumene nezihlobo okanye ngabahlobo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ufuna ukuchitha ixesha kunye nomthande wakho, yenza ubusuku bakho kuphela kwaye ukulwa kwee-chimes kuphulaphule kunye, kude nomnandi wonk 'ubani.
Indlela yokwenza umbhiyozo ube mnandi, ungakhohlwa kwaye unomdla kubini? Okokuqala, cingela oko ukulindele ukususela ku-Eva Wonyaka omtsha? Ngaba iya kuba isidlo esilula ngokubukela iinkqubo zonyaka omtsha kwiTV okanye ubusuku obuthandana nothando, obufakwe kwi-tangerines ne-champagne? Ngobusuku kwindwendwe yeehotele zedolophu okanye ukuphuma ngothando ngendalo?
Kuphi ukudibanisa uNyaka omtsha kunye?
Ngenxa yokuba umbhiyozo uquka ukulungiswa, kubalulekile okokuqala ukugqiba apho ukubhiyozela unyaka omtsha kunye. Ukuba ukhetha inombolo yehotele yokubhiyozela, amalungiselelo aya kuba yinto encinci, kwaye ukuba uceba ukuhamba kwindalo, ngoko imicimbi efuneka ixazululwe iya kubonakala ngaphezulu. Inketho eqhelekileyo kukuba uhlangabezane noMnyaka omtsha ekhaya, apho umoya ucocekile kwaye ke ukhululekile, kwaye ukuhlobisa igumbi ngokuhambelana nokucinga kwakho kuya kudala imimoya efanelekileyo yokuzonwabisa.
Unyaka omtsha wobuRoma
Umoya wokubhiyozela ngomnxeba wokuthandana ungadalwa usebenzisa amakhandlela enamehlo kunye neengqungquthela eziqhaqhazelayo emthini weKrisimesi. Ubumnandi obumnandi kunye nezibane ezincinci ziza kusihlwa ngokuqinisekileyo, kunye nokutya okulula kwitheyibhile, i-salads yasekuqaleni ehlotshisiwe kunye nenyama okanye intlanzi ephekwe ngokwemivuzo entsha iya kuba yinto ekhethekileyo yokukhetha i-candlelight dinner.
Ngaphambili, cinga ngesambatho esifanelekileyo, musa ukuhlala kwijee kwitheyibhile yokutya kunye nakwezinye iimpahla zangaphandle ezingavumelekanga. Ukuba, ngokwemivo yakho, ngokuhlwa kuya kuba nokutshisa okutshisa ebhedeni, ngoko kufuneka ukhethe iingaphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi, ulungele umcimbi kunye nezicathulo kunye nezicathulo eziphezulu.
Unyaka omtsha nosithandwa wakho unokuba ngumcimbi wenene, oya kuwukhumbula kuze kube yilapho ubusika obulandelayo, ngoko uzama ukuhobisa igumbi lokuNyuselwa koNyaka omtsha, ukunyamekela ukuba kukho izitya ezintle kunye nokusika, iziglasi ezifanelekileyo ze-champagne. Imenyu yokuhlwa, ungakhethi ukutya okunzima, kungenjalo kukho umngcipheko wokuthi emva kwesidlo esinomdla awuyi kuphinda ufune ukudansa okanye wenze uthando. Kungcono ukwenza imenyu ngendlela enjalo ukuba izitya zingavamile, kodwa zikhanya, zingenzi iingxaki kwisigxina sakho.
Musa ukulibala ngesipho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abantu abadala bazi ixesha elide lokuba uSanta Claus uza kubonelela ukuxhomekeka kwakho ku-Eva kaNtshonalanga, kodwa isithethe esilungileyo sokufumana iimangalo phantsi komthi sele isiba ngumqathango onyanzelekileyo woNyaka omtsha okanye u-Ekuseni ngosuku lokuqala kunyaka ozayo.
Ukudibanisa uNyaka omtsha kunye nomfana, indlela enye okanye enye kufuneka iqwalasele ukuba ubusuku bokuphela buya kugcina egumbini lokulala,
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi imeko oyikhethayo, khumbula ukuba unyaka omtsha kunye nomyeni wakhe ufanelekile, wongeza umbala kwimpilo yakho yemihla ngemihla kwaye ube yimemori enhle kwaye mhlawumbi isithethe sonyaka. Ukuhambisa ubomi kude kulobu busuku nokudala umoya okhethekileyo, wena ngokwakho uya kuziva ukuba iholide iya kuzaliswa ngoluvo lomhla wokuqala kunye nefuthe lothando lwakho.