Kuze kube kutshanje usubambe isikhala esincinci ezandleni zakho, kwaye ngoku - kwaye wayenalo ixesha lokujonga emva! - sele ucinga ukunyamekela iminyaka emibili yomntwana wakho. Ewe, siqokelele kuwe izinto ezinomdla kakhulu kule holide.
Kuphi ukugubha iminyaka engama-2 yokuzalwa komntwana?
Ukumaka iminyaka engama-2 umntwana angaba ekhaya. Ngokukodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, ebusika. Kodwa ungacingi ukuba oku kuthetha ukubutha okuqhelekileyo kunye nokuqhelekileyo etafileni! Nendawo eqhelekileyo yasekhaya ingenziwa imikhosi - kuya kuba nomnqweno. Vula umculo, ugcobe amagumbi kunye nezigulane, iibhaluni kunye nezinye izinto ezithandwa ngabantwana. Qaphela!
Kwimvelo, unokwazi ukubhala umntwana oneminyaka emi-2 ubudala. Yiya elwandle okanye kwihlathi. Ungathatha kunye nawe ukutya okumnandi, ube nepikiniki , ulande umculo omhle, udale imvakalelo evuyayo, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungalibali ukuthatha ikhamera okanye ikhamera. Ngokuqinisekileyo nonke nifuna ukuthatha ixesha elivuyayo. Emva koko unako ukubonisa iividiyo kunye neefoto kumntwana wakho okhulileyo kwaye unqatshelwe nguwe.
Unokugubha njani umhla wokuzalwa womntwana oneminyaka emi-2?
Mema abantwana! Enyanisweni, umntwana uya kutyhukela kwinkampani yabanye abantu abadala - vumela abantwana badlale baze bahlekise phantsi kolawulo lwakho. Kodwa musa ukumema abantwana abaninzi kakhulu: ngelixa umntwana uneminyaka emibini nje kuphela, kungcono ukumema abantu abathathu okanye abane, ukuze bangadlulanga umthwalo kwinkqubo yeentlanzi zeendwendwe ezincinane.
Kukwafanelekile ukucinga malunga nemenyu yabantwana. Khumbula ukuba abantwana abaneminyaka engamthandi ukuhlala etafileni ixesha elide, ngoko kufuneka udibanise ukutya okudliwayo kwimenyu - amancinci amancinci , iikhukhi, iziqhamo. Iziphuzo, iJusi iyona nto ibhetele. Ngaloo ndlela, abantwana, bebedlala ngokwaneleyo, banako ukwanelisa indlala kwaye bafumane amandla, kodwa ngelo xesha iholide ngokwayo iya kuhlala ingavamile kwaye ingabantwana.
Kubomi bomntwana, usuku ngalunye lubaluleke kakhulu. Kunyaka owedlule umntwana wakho wayengayiqondi into ebalulekileyo yeli holide, kwaye ngoku unako ukuyonwabela ngokupheleleyo. Yilungiselela umntwana wakho uvuyo oluvuyokileyo, ovuyokileyo usuku oluvulekileyo, kwaye unomdla wokumomotheka kwakhe ngemini ye-biennium, kwaye kwiifoto ezininzi.