Amakati akhuliswa kakuhle kwintsimi yesisu, ibopha umntwana kunye nonina ngokuqinileyo. Ngaloo ndlela, unikezelwa ngokupheleleyo kumntwana, kubonisa ukunyamekela nokuthanda. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha into ethile isishukumisela ukuba sicinge malunga nokuba iikati zidla iikiti zazo, okanye oku kungenye indaba engafanelekanga. Kwaye kwesoyikima, kwakhona kwakhona kunzima ukuphumelela.
Kutheni iikati zidla iikiti?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kodwa kwenzeka ukuba iikati zidla iikiti zazo, kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza emva kokuzalwa kwezingane. Kule meko, isiko soomama kunye nevumba lebala lihleli kude nasethunzini le-cannibalism.
Izizathu zokutya umntwana azinzima kakhulu njengokuba yinto eyenzekayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iikati zidla emva kokuzalwa kunye nezikhwebu, zizalwe zifile. Ngamanye amaxesha bayalimaza umntwana xa behlafuna intambo yomgubo, okanye bawuchithe ngokungabonakali kunye ne-placenta. Kodwa unina unako ukwenza oku kwaye uqaphele. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba iikati zidla iikiti zazo. Ukuba umntwana uzalelwe ubuthathaka okanye ukhubazekile, kuya kwenzeka ukuba uya kufa. Ngaloo ndlela, unina uhola kuphela kwizintlu ezinamandla kwaye zihlala zihlala.
Esinye isizathu sokuba itekisi idle iikiti zayo kukuba isitho sikamama esilwanyana asikwazi ukuba sichazwe ngokwaneleyo, kwaye umntwana uya kuphinda aqhubele inceba. Ubume kunye nenkohlakalo ekhethekileyo kwenza ubomi bakhe bukhethwe.
Kutheni iikati zidla iikiti?
Ukuzalwa kwamagqabha ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka kwindawo ekhuselekileyo, efudumele kwaye epholileyo, leyo umama ngokwakhe ayicinga ukuba afanelekile kubantwana bakhe. Kodwa kukho imeko ezinzima xa iikati zityhila apho iikiti zikhona kwaye ziwabulala ngonya. Abayidli kuphela eyabo, kodwa nakwabanye abantu.
Kwaye amawaka eminyaka kwakukho inkolelo eyenziwa yizilwanyana ngale ndlela,
Ezinye iingcali zikholelwa ukuba iikati zidla ezinye iikiti zabantu ukuba zicime indawo yazo inzala. Kwaye ukuba abafana abatsha bebulewe, kuthetha ukuba bafuna ukulahla abakhuphiswano kwixesha elizayo abanokubhenela amabhinqa kunye nommandla.
Ihlabathi lezilwanyana likhohlakele kwaye ngamanye amaxesha lingahambelani ngokupheleleyo nokuziphatha. Kodwa kufuneka siqonde ukuba ukuziphatha kwabo mhlawumbi kunengcaciso ecacileyo, kuba i-reflexes eyi-mill kunye neentlobo zezenzo zenziwe.