Kunzima ukudibana nendoda engazange iphinde ibe nobomi bakhe kwinto ephuphayo ebona ebusuku. Ngokuqhelekileyo iqhinga libetha ngokungavamile, kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi kwiphupha umntu ubona izinto eziqhelekileyo. Ukuze uqonde oko uphuphayo ukulila, umntu makakhumbule ezinye iinkcukacha zesalathisi.
Kutheni kubangelwa emlonyeni iphupha?
Umbono ebusuku wokubanga kunye nomphathi ngu-harbinger weengxabano ezinkulu ezinokuchaphazela umsebenzi. Ukuba ufanele uwanga umhlobo, ngokukhawuleza ufanele ulindele ukulondolozwa nalo mntu. Ukubukela indlela abantu abangaqhelekanga abangezanga ngayo, kuthetha, ebomini unokuba nethemba. Umtoliki wephupha, apho "isiFrentshi" esanga emlonyeni amaphupha, sichazwa njengento yokubonakala kwesifo esiza kudlula ngokukhawuleza. Kubantu abanobudlelwane ibali elinjalo lithembisa ukuhlukana okude. Ubusiso obusondeleyo kuthetha ukuba umphuphi unelisekile ngokuthanda kwakhe.
Kutheni umfazi ephupha ngokumanga umntu emlonyeni?
Ukumanga nomyeni wakhe kukuphawu oluhle, olubonisa ukuhlaziywa kolonwabo noxolo phakathi kobudlelwane . Ukubona indlela enye intombazana eyanga ngayo umyeni wakhe, ngoko kukho umngcipheko wokulahlekelwa intlonipho yakhe. Umbono ebusuku, apho intombazana yayingamanga kunye nomfokazi, ubonisa ukungabikho koqhagamshelwano nolwabelana ngesondo kunye noluntu lonwabo. Ukumanga nomhlobo uthembisa ukugxeka kunye nokuhlukana, okuza kwenzeka ngenxa yokungaqondi kakuhle. Ukuba ufanele uwanga umfana osekudala, ngokukhawuleza kuza kwenzeka isiganeko esingalindelekanga, esiza kubangela ukuba unqabile. Sekunjalo kungabonisa ukungaphelelanga kobudlelwane.
Uthando lomntu ofileyo uphupha njani emlonyeni?
Ukuba umphuphi uyamanga umntu ofileyo - eli li-harbinger yokuqala kokugula kunye nokufa komntu othandekayo. Umbono wobusuku, apho umfi uwanga khona emlonyeni, uqikelela ukuba uphumelele kwi-career kunye nezoshishino, eziza kuvulwa amatsha amatsha.