Iphupha linokubakho ukuchazwa okulungileyo nokubi. Ukuze ufumane ulwazi oluchanekileyo noluneenkcukacha, kufuneka uqale ukuzama ukukhumbula ngokubanzi iinkcukacha zephupha, uze uqhubeke nokuchithwa.
Kutheni kubhanana?
Ezi ziqhamo zelanga zingabonakalisa ubukho ebomini bakho bemihlali engabonakaliyo nabangathandekiyo onabo abanxibelelana nabo. Ukuba udla iibhanana, kukho iprojekthi entsha phambi kwakho, eya kuba yinkwantalo. Elinye iphupha libonisa ukulahleka kwamagunya phakathi koogxa. Kule nto iya kuba ityala umntu ozama ukumelana naye ngokuphangaleleyo. Ukuba uphatha omnye umntu ngesithelo, oku kuluphawu lokuba ufuna ukuphepha uxanduva kwaye uzame ukuthatha omnye umntu.
Ephupheni, ukubona iibhanana ezivunwa kwiqela libonisa ukuba ingxaki enzima ilindeleke kwangaphambili. Isiqhamo esingapheliyo sibonakaliso sokuba uya kuba nomsebenzi onzulu, onoxanduva. Enye iphupha linokuthi ithathwe njengesiphakamiso sokuba kuyafaneleka ukuhlaziya iimvo zomntu ebomini. Ukuthenga ibhanana ephupheni, kuthetha, ungathandabuzeki kwaye wenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo ukuba ufanele ukuthatha uncedo oluvela ngaphandle. Iziqhamo ezonakalisiweyo zithembisa ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimeko engathandekiyo, mhlawumbi lixesha lokutshintsha ubuninzi bomsebenzi.
Kutheni umfazi ephupha ibhanana?
Ngesondo esifanelekileyo, iphupha, apho iibhanana ezivuthiweyo zifunyenwe, zifanekisela umnqweno wezobubele obushushu kunye nempilo ephezulu. Nangona iphupha elinjalo libikezela ubuhlobo obungathandekiyo nomntu, kunye nokudumala okukulindele ngaphambili.
Ubhanana oluvuthiweyo lubonakala ngathi?
Iphupha elinjalo liqikelela ukuvela kwee-scandals, eziza kuvela kuphela ngephutha lakho. Oku kungathathwa njengesilumkiso sokuba uza kutshatyalalana nomhlobo osondeleyo. Kukho iibhanana ezivuthiweyo kwaye ezimnandi, ngoko, ngokwenene kufuneka uqale ukuphuhlisa, umzekelo, ubhalisele ezinye iikhosi okanye ufunde iteknoloji entsha, njl.