Inkumbi ingabizwa ngokukhuselekileyo ngokuthi liphupha elibi lomfama. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba isi sidalwa esilungileyo siphupha kumntu ongaxhunyiwe kunye nolimo, unyango lobuthongo aluyi kuba luhle kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, yonke into incike kwiinkcukacha kunye neenkcukacha, kunye nendlela yokuchazwa. Ukuqonda ukuba yiyiphi imilinganiselo efanelekileyo, kufuneka ukhumbule ezinye iimeko zokulala nokuphulaphula intuition yakho.
Ziziphi iinqothu eziphuphayo?
Khawucinge ngamaphupha enkwenkwezi ngokubhekiselele kwiincwadi ezithandwayo zokuphupha. Kufanelekile ukubeka ingqalelo kwiimvakalelo zakho kwiphupha - njengomthetho, uhlalutyo lwabo lunceda ukhetho oluchanileyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba ephupheni unokuxhalabisa, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuthobela ingqalelo kwesinye seziphumo ezifanekisela imvakalelo efanayo.
Ngoko, yintoni na amaphupha enkumbi:
- Iingcambu zikwazi ukuxela ukunyuka kwesidlo, ukungabikho kwintlanzi;
- Ukuba ubona inkumbi enkulu, kunokuthetha ukubonakala ebomini bakho ngumntu ongenalwazi, ongenamdla oza kufuna ukukusebenzisa ukuze athole inzuzo yakhe;
- Ngokuqhelekileyo ubuninzi bezinambuzane ephupheni kubonisa ukulahleka kwemali ethile (ukulahleka okanye inkunkuma engenakuncedo);
- ukuba inkumbi ibonakale ngokukhawuleza kwaye iyamangalisa ephupheni, ngoko ebomini umntu kufuneka alindele ukubonakala kweemeko ezingalindelekanga, ukuphazamiseka kwiimeko zakho ngamanye amaqela;
- ukuba iinkumbi zingabangela ukuxhalabisa ephupheni, zithetha ngezenzo ezinokukhawuleza zomntu osuka kubangane bakho abasondeleyo;
- Iphupha eliphazamisayo malunga neenkumbi libonisa ukulahleka ngenxa yokuphathwa kakubi kwemiba yezoshishino.
Musa ukuzame ukuzama ukuba yeyiphi inkumbi kunye neenkumbi eziphuphayo malunga: ukuba kukho iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo kwiphupha, kwahluke ukutolika ubuthongo. Umzekelo, ukuba iinkumbi ziphupha entwasahlobo, lindela intlanganiso yothando. Kuba abafazi beenkumbi ephupheni bangathetha ngeengxaki zokuzala kunye nesidingo sokutyelela ugqirha. Ukubulala iinkumbi ephupheni, unokuba nethemba,
Kutheni iinkumbi ezininzi ziphupha?
Ukubona kwiphupha umlinganiselo omkhulu weenkumbi awusona uphawu olukhulu kakhulu. Oku kudla ngokubonisa ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kunye nomntu ongekhoyo, ongenakuchukumisa nokungacacanga. Kubantu abanxulumene nezopolitiko nemicimbi yezempi, iinkumbi ephupheni zingaba ngumqondiso wesiganeko esiza kuhlasela.
Ukuchazwa kuyahluka kancinane ukuba ngumbuzo wenkwenkwezi ephuphayo ngefestile: kulo mzekelo, iphupha libonisa ukuba kuvezwe ngedumo, okanye ukulahlekelwa kwintlalo yendlu.