Ngaba uye wakha wacinga ukuba imibala oyithandayo ingakuxelela malunga neempawu zakho kunye nomlingiswa wakho , kodwa ngelo xesha ungafunda malunga nehlabathi langaphakathi le-interlocutor, izinto ezithandwayo, njl njl.
Isikhokelo "Indlela yokwazi uhlobo lweentyatyambo zakho ozithandayo"
- Olubomvu luphawu lwefuthe phezulu kwempumelelo . Labo abanalo mbala ebomini kwindawo yokuqala bayabonakalisa amandla okuphuhlisa, ukuxhamla, ukunyaniseka, isibindi. Abayena uhlanga kwizinto ezinqabileyo, kodwa, hayi, abakwazi ukuziqhayisa ngomonde.
- Pink . Ngamanye amaxesha kunokubonakala ngathi ukucacisa ubunjani balo mbala kulula: umntu onothando, ococekileyo, onomnene okhetha ukuhlala kwilizwe elimnandi, kunokuba ehlabathini lenene. I-Pink idibanisa kokubili uthando kunye nobumsulwa. Abantu abanjalo bathambekele ngokukhawuleza emva kokufumana ubunzima bokuphila. Enyanisweni, olunzima "usuku" olunzima ngeengxaki lunokubakhoxela ixesha elide ngaphandle kwirekhodi.
- I-Orange - umbala ozithandayo lwabo abanobuqhetseba obunobuncwane kunye nobuhlobo babo, kunye nencazelo yamandla omntu kuwo akulula nzima: bafundela kakuhle, bayaphupha kwaye bakulungele ukuzala iingcamango zangaphambili nganye ngomzuzu.
- Uluphuzi lubala abantu abanentlalontle, abavumelanisa nezimo, abanomdla, abanethemba, abanengqiqo. Ivelisa umgca wobugcisa.
- Oluhlaza . Xa ukhetha lo mbala, ungatsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntu onjalo ungumzali onomzekelo onomdla, kwaye emlingeni wakhe, inkani kunye nokuphikelela. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba azinikezele kulobu bomi.
- UBlue uthi ngokungazinyulu, ukuba umntu uyakuthanda ubomi, ufezekisa ngempumelelo kuyo nayiphi na imizamo. Yonke ixesha uzama ukuphucula ukuzimela.
Uloyiko lobunzima oluyinkimbinkimbi yobomi bakhe. - UBrown ukhethwe ngabo bawenza izenzo ezininzi ngokuzikhethela. Ebudlelwaneni, zibonakaliswa ngobunzima, kwaye kwiimeko zobomi - ukuqina kunye nokunyuka.
- UMhlophe ubonakalisa abantu abanobuhle, abaqaphelayo nabalumkileyo, abaluleke kakhulu.
- Umnyama uthetha ngokungakwazi ukuvavanya oko kwenzekayo. Ezi ziimpawu ezinomdla. Ngeziphelo zabo, zikulungele ukuya phambili. Ubudlelane ngamanye amaxesha kubonakalisa iimvakalelo ezingalawulekiyo.