Umntu ohlala ngokuqinisekileyo, usebenza kakuhle kunye nazo zonke izithintelo endleleni yakhe. Oku kukhethwa wonk 'ubani ukuba aphile njani-kuba ngumdali ophumelelayo wekamva labo okanye ukuba ahlale ehlupheka kwaye atyebe kwindawo. Wonke umntu unayo yonke impawu efunekayo ukwenzela ukuba amanqaku athandekileyo, aphumelele kwaye avuyiswe. Ixesha elizayo luyiphumo lokucinga namhlanje, oko kutheni ukukhuthazwa okulungileyo sisixhobo esinokutshintsha ubomi ngokubhetele.
Uya kutshintsha njani ukucinga okulungileyo?
Okokuqala, umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba xa eqalise ebomini bakhe loo mkhwa njengengcinga eqhubekayo malunga nokungahambi kakuhle, thina ngokwethu sivelisa iimeko ezenzeka kithi kwixesha elizayo. Ngako oko, ukuzilolonga kubakho ukugqithisa ingqalelo yakho yokungahambi kakuhle okukhoyo kwintloko yethu yonke imihla. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba, njengokwesiko, ukuba ufezekise umphumo ufuna umsebenzi oqhubekayo nobunzima. Ngokwezinzululwazi, ukuhlakulela umkhwa omtsha, ingqondo ifuna ixesha elingama-21 ukuya kwiintsuku ezingama-60.
Ukuzivocavoca ukucinga kakuhle kukunceda yonke into engeyiyo. Baqala ngokugatya amagama angalunganga, amabinzana okungaqiniseki. Zama ukutshintsha isitatimende ngasinye esingalunganga kwisimo esihle.
Sebenzisa ukucamngca ukudibanisa i-subconscious.
Musa ukulibala ngokubulela. Uxabiso lokubonga olubhekwa njengelinye lezinto ezinamandla kunye nezigqibeleleyo. Yibonge yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bakho, nokuba ingaba yinto engalunganga okanye imeko efanelekileyo. Ukungalungi ngamava kunye nokunika amandla amatsha, kodwa kungabikho okubi. Izindlela zengqondo ephilileyo zibonelela ukurekhodwa kwimihla ngemihla emihlanu ebomini, apho uvakalelwa ngayo. Kwakhona, phindaphinda amagama athile rhoqo, ukulungela ubomi, kuba akukho nto inhle kunokuba uphile kwaye ujabule yonke into. Cinga ngamagama. Unempilweni, uyavuya, ujikelezwe ngothando kunye nomoya omhle. Lumkela izinto ezincinci, ngokukhawuleza ukuba uzakhe ngokwakho ngale ndlela, zonke izinto ziya kuhamba ngqo entabeni, kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba le nkqubo itshintsha ubomi.
Umncedisi omhle kulo mzekelo uya kuba yiziqinisekiso . Ngenxa yokuba ezininzi zeengxaki zichaphazela abameli besigqibo esihle sabantu, kukho ukuqinisekiswa okuqinisekileyo kwabasetyhini abanceda baqiniseke ngakumbi kwaye bafezekise iziphumo ezibalulekileyo.