Sonke sahluke, kodwa iingqondo zengqondo zithi ubuntu buhlukaniswe zibe zimbini iintlobo ngokubhekiselele kwiimpawu zobuntu: i-extroverts and introverts. Uhlobo lokuqala ludibanisa abantu abavulelekileyo kunxibelelwano, amandla, abanobubele, abakhutheleyo kunye nokulungele ukuthatha inxaxheba ekuxazululeni imiba yobomi bentlalo. Ngokuphathelele uhlobo lwesibini - u-introvert, yonke into apha iyanzima kakhulu.
Ubani umntu ochazayo?
Indawo yokuphila yabantu balolu hlobo ihluke kakhulu kwiintetho eziphumayo neziphumayo. Zivaliwe kakhulu, ngoko ke zixhomeke ekutheni zifikelele. Iinkampani ezinkulu ezinomsindo azibangeli, abazinandipheliyo, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba abayithandabuzi kwaye bayayicima. Kwengqondo, kukho iimpawu zokusungula, ngokubhekiselele kuyo ukuba zingabonakaliswa njani na uhlobo oluthile lobuntu. Zijongwa ngoku:
- Ukutyekela ukucinga, kungekhona isenzo;
- ukuziva ungathandeki nesihlwele esikhulu sabantu;
- ubutyebi behlabathi elingaphakathi kunye nomnqweno wokutyhilela kuphela "abakhethiweyo";
- umnqweno wokuthetha kuphela ngezihloko ezithandekayo kubo;
- ngezinga eliphezulu, ubuchule kunye nomnqweno wokuphulaphula, ungathethi;
- ukungafuni ukuba ngowokuqala ukudibanisa;
- ukhetha ukuba yedwa kwaye usebenze ngokuzimela, kungekhona kwiqela.
Iintlobo zeentetho
Ubunzima bezethulo ziqinisekiswa yimpawu zabo ezahlukileyo kwintlalo yabo. Iingcali zengqondo ziyahlula zibe ngamaqela amakhulu amabini: inzwa kunye nenembile. Iimpawu ezibonakalayo zifuna iimfuno eziphezulu zokucacisa nokuchaneka kungekuphela komsebenzi, kodwa kunye nobudlelwane. Banoxanduva kwaye bazise umsebenzi ekupheleni, ukuba banemiyalelo ecacileyo.
Intuitive - ngokuchaseneyo, abafuni ukuqonda izinto ezincinci, bekholelwa ukuba kubangelanga kwaye kungathandeki. Baye bacinga kakhulu, baphupha, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo abakwenzi nto ukuze baqonde amaphupha abo. Bangakwazi ukwenza izinto eziliqela ngexesha elinye, ngaphandle kokugqiba into enye. Ukuba ixhala malunga nokukhethwa kobugcisa, banokuthatha isigxina omnye, omnye ke, ukukhetha umntu ofanelekileyo.
Ngaloo ndlela, ukuhlelwa kwale hlobo lwabantu kubandakanye iintlobo zezaziso, iinkcazo zazo ezinika umfanekiso opheleleyo. I-psychologist eyaziwayo kunye nesifo sengqondo, uKarl Young, wanyula iintlobo ezi-sibini ezinjalo, kodwa namhlanje isigaba esiqhelekileyo sisetyenziswa. Ubumbene abantu abaneempawu ezifanayo zeempawu, ezahlula zibe ezine eziphambili:
- enembile-engqiqo;
- inzwakalayo;
- enembile;
- ku thintela.
Inveritive-vertical introvertvert
Abantu abanjalo bavame ukubizwa ngokuthi bangenangqondo. Iingxelo zabo ezibuhlungu, njengomyalo, ngesizathu esithile sinesakhiwo esizaliseka. Le yinto echazwe ngokuthi yi-rationalist: uyaboniswa ngongcamango lwezenzo, ukugcina ixesha, ukunyamekela. Izicwangciso zakhe zicacile, kodwa uyaziqonda ngaphandle kokukhawuleza, njengokungqinisisa isinyathelo ngasinye. I-introvert enembile ayikho inkokheli, kodwa ngumlandeli onoxanduva.
Ngokuqhelekileyo akayithandanga kwiqela ngokuzikhethela ngokugqithiseleyo nokufuna. Nangona kunjalo, uyazi indlela yokubala ngokuchanekileyo inzuzo ethile imeko kwaye unokuhlala efumana indlela efanelekileyo yokuphuma kwimeko enzima. Ngaphandle zibonakala zibandayo kwaye zigcinwe. Ukuncoma, ukuthokoza, udumise umntu - kungekhona kwimithetho yakhe. Uthanda ukufunda nokubonisa.
Ingqiqo yeengcamango izisa
Olu hlobo lokungeniswa ngokubuhlungu ekuphenduleni kwehlabathi lakhe, aluqapheli ukuzenzisa, ukuphikisana kwiintetho kunye nobudlelwane. Ngexesha elifanayo, uyayiphendula kwaye ukulungele ukuza kusindiswa; Lo ungomnye wabalingane abathembekileyo. Akayithandi iinkampani ezinomsindo, kodwa akakwazi ukubizwa ngokuba yi-recluse and unsociable. Unandipha incoko yokuzonwabisa, ukuthetha nabantu abanomdla kuye.
I-Logic-Sensor efaka ingqiqo inokukwazi ukulungelelanisa imeko, imigaqo, iimfuneko kunye nemigangatho yendawo engqongileyo-imvumela ukuba aphile kwihlabathi lakhe, "angayi kuphuma" kuluntu apho kufuneka abe khona. Unobungozi kakhulu kunye nobuthathaka, kodwa uyazi ukufihla kwabanye. Ingqiqo yayo kunye nokuqonda kuvela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo:
- ihluke kakhulu-imali ayichithekanga;
- Ngaba unengqiqo engaqhelekanga - abahlaziyi kunye nabanqabileyo abakwazi ukuwugcina;
- Kuphela into ephathisiwe iya kwenziwa;
- Kukho ukuguquguquka kwemizwelo: ukusuka kubanda kunye ne-detachment ukunyuka okukhulu, okubonakalayo kwiimeko ezibucayi.
I-introducti ye-Ethical-intuitive
Abantu balolu hlobo babonakaliswa ngokunyaniseka okukhulu. Bakholelwa ukuba abantu bahloniphekile kwaye banyanisekile, baninzi kwaye bakulungele ukuxolela nabani na oye wavuma iimpazamo zakhe kwaye waphenduka. Baqonda ngokuchanekileyo impawu kunye nemizwelo yabantu abangaziwayo, kodwa abazi kakhulu malunga nabo basondelene nabo, becinga ukuba banokuzungezwa kuphela ngabantu abahloniphekileyo, abanobuhle.
Ukuziphatha ngendlela enemeko enembile yokuzisa ingqiqo inokunika isiluleko esihle, ngokuphathelele ubudlelwane obunxibelelana, ngokubhekiselele kwiimeko zobomi ezinzima. Unesifiso esitsha nesingavamile; ukuzimela, umnqweno wolwazi-isimo sakhe esiqhelekileyo, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukucwiliswa ekufundweni kweengcamango zefilosofi kunye neenkonzo zonqulo.
Ubonakaliswa ngokubambezeleka okukhulu kunye nokukwazi ukugxininisa kwiimeko ezinzima, ukunqanda umdla kunye noloyiko olungabonakala emva kokuba ingxaki ixazululwe. Ngokukhethekileyo uvelwano kubantu abaneempawu zobunkokeli ezikhuthazayo baze bamshukumise ukuba enze isenzo, ngelixa engavumi ukunyamezela nokunyanzela. Kwiimeko ezinjalo unokucatshukiswa kwaye ukhawuleze.
I-Ethical-sensory introvert
Uhlobo lwesine lobuntu luyi-sensvert-ethical introvert, owazi kakuhle abantu kwaye uyaqonda "ngubani ophefumulayo." Awunakukucela, yenza ukuqesha kunye nabahlobo: unquma ukuba ngubani "wakhe" kwaye "ungumphambukeli". Ngabantu uyaqaphela kwaye akavuli umphefumlo wakhe kumntu wokuqala, kodwa kunye nalabo ababa ngabahlobo bakhe, uya kunyaniseka, akhathalele kwaye alumkele. Kunzima ukuthetha naye: kunzima ukumkholisa, unikezela ukunyaniseka okwaneleyo.
Ngumntu onengqiqo okwazi ukuhlalutya imeko kwaye enze isigqibo esilinganiselweyo esichaphazela ngokupheleleyo imeko yeyona nto. Unokwamkela iimfuno kunye neemeko zoluntu apho ekhona, efuna ukukrazula iingxaki ezingadingekile. Ayithandi iinkampani ezinkulu ezinomsindo, iziganeko ezinkulu. Unandipha iintlanganiso ezinqabileyo, ezingabonakaliyo, kodwa ziyakuchukumisa ukuba udibaniswe rhoqo nabantu abawaziwayo.
Ngokungafani nezinye iintlobo, i-introvert ye-sensory-ethical does not like the flow of events, a long decisions. Isimo sokuxhalabisa kuye sisigxina, ngexesha elifanayo ukhumbula iimpazamo zakhe, ukungaphumeleli kunye neempazamo kunye nezifundo ezivela kubo. Kukunzima ukumthabatha: uhlala ekulungele ukuphi na iziganeko. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba kwenzeka le nto, ibuhlungu ngayo iiphene kunye nokuhluleka kwayo.
Iingenelo zeziNgqungquthela
Nangona kukho iingxaki ezibonakalayo, ama-introverts anenani leempawu ezixabisekileyo ezibenza zibaluleke kakhulu enkonzweni. Into ephambili yikhono lokuqhuba ishishini ekupheleni, ngokulandela imiyalelo. Ngelo xesha, umsebenzi uqhutyelwa ngendlela ephezulu kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo. Ukongezelela, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungabalulekanga nezinye iindleko zokusungula:
- ukuhlukana kwengqondo, isimo sengqondo esicatshulwayo emsebenzini onikwe, amandla okucinga ngaphandle kwebhokisi;
- unengcamango ephuculweyo, ingcinga yokudala ;
- nehlabathi elityebileyo, ukukwazi ukuzazisa;
- Kubaluleke kakhulu kwizinto ezincinci ezinokuba zibalulekileyo;
- abo baba ngumhlobo wabo banokuthembela kuzo zonke izinto;
- bayakwazi ukuphulaphula nokuva umdibaniselwano;
- unokugxila ekuphunyezweni kwimeko ethile, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka ngabanye.
Iingxaki zokuqala
Zonke iindleko ezikhankanywe ngasentla zenza ukuba abantu abanjalo bangabi nasimweni sokwenza umsebenzi ofuna ukunakekelwa kunye noxanduva. Nangona kunjalo, nabo banemiphumo, engathinteli kuphela ukuthetha nabo, kodwa kaninzi - kunye nabo ngokwabo:
- ubunzima bokusebenza kwiqela elikhulu;
- ukungafuni ukuphazamisa;
- ukucwiliswa kakhulu kwihlabathi lomntu ongaphakathi: amava, ukuzithemba, ukungathandabuzeki, ukuxhalabisa kunye nezinye iimpawu zokuzisa, ukwenza ukuba unxibelelwano lunzima.
Indlela yokwenza i-introvert?
Ngokuqhelekileyo kubuzwa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ube yi-introvert. Iingcali zengqondo zithi akunakwenzeka ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo somntu, kodwa ukujonga ukuba utshintsho lomlingani lunokwenzeka ukuba u-introversion alunzima. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uzame kwaye uzame uqobo, ukudala iimeko ezikufuphi nakwazo izivakalisi ezifumaneka rhoqo, umzekelo:
- ukusebenza kuphela;
- Hlala ngolunye uhlwa ngoLwesihlanu;
- uthetha ngaphantsi kwaye uphulaphule ngakumbi;
- ukuhlalutya izenzo zabo nokucwangcisa nayiphi na ishishini;
- azinakho kwiivenkile ezinzima kunye nokushiya iinkampani ezinomsindo.
Indlela yokunxibelelana ne-introvert?
Ukuba usungula ulwalamano olufanelekileyo kunye no-introvert, unokufumana umhlobo onokwethenjelwa kunye nomntu onoxanduva lokusebenza ngokufanelekileyo, kodwa kufuneka uqwalasele imiyalezo yokuthetha naye:
- akakwazi ukukhawuleza ukwenza izigqibo;
- kuyimfuneko ukubonelela isicwangciso senkqubo esicacileyo, ukuchaza iinjongo kunye neenjongo zomsebenzi;
- Musa ukumisela izigqibo zakho kwaye ungafuneki ukudibana rhoqo;
- musa ukulibala ukuba lo mntu unobungozi obukhulu kwaye ukhubekile.
Kutheni kunzima ukuthetha kunye neentetho?
Impendulo yalo mbuzo ixhomekeke kwiimpawu ezibonakalayo zeli hlabathi ngabo bantu. Ukuba kufuneka adibanise ne-extrovert, kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi. Isizathu esiyinhloko senkathazo yokuthetha naye sidibene nenyaniso yokuba uhlobo lwe-introvert luye lwahlonyelwa ukuthetha ngokukhethekileyo kunye nehlabathi langaphakathi . Ucotha kwaye unxinzeleleka, intlalontle encinci kunye nentlanzi.
Ngubani oza kusebenza nge-introvertu?
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