Ukuthatha inxaxheba kootatomkhulu ekukhulisweni komntwana, njengomgaqo, kugqitywa ngamanani amaninzi, apho sikwazi ukwahlula khona:
- umsebenzi wegogo (siza kuthetha ngabo, kuba ngaba ugogo ohlala ekhuliseni) -kuba ugogo unomncinci, unamandla kwaye engakulungeli ukushiya umsebenzi wakhe, ukuthetha kwakhe nabazukulu bakhe, ngokusemthethweni, ubilisa ukuhamba kunye neentlanganiso ngeveki. Oogogo-abathatha umhlala-phantsi banokuqonda ukuba abantwana baninzi ixesha;
- kuhlala - indima ebalulekileyo idlalwe yilapho oogogo bahlala khona kwelinye igumbi kunye nosapho olutsha okanye kwesinye isixeko. Uluhlu lomgama luchaneke ngokuthe ngqo kumandla kunye nobukhulu befuthe kubazukulwana;
- Ubudlelwane bezizukulwana - ngelanga, ngamanye amaxesha ubudlelwane kunye nabazali abafaki, ngenxa yokuba bahlukane okanye baxoshwa ebomini babo babantwana kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, abantwana babo;
- iimfuno zabamakhulu. Ngoko, ngokomzekelo, kwilizwe lethu kuqhelekileyo ukuba oogogo bahlala bethatha inxalenye ebambeleleyo kwimfundo yesizukulwana esincinane - bancedisa ngemali, bathatha iiveki kunye neeholide njalonjalo. Kwaye, ngokomzekelo, eYurophu ayamkelekanga, kwaye abanye bafazi sele batshintshe le migaqo kwiimeko zenkcubeko yethu. Aba bigogo ababoni ukuba kuyimfuneko ukunikela ngobomi babo kunye nemisebenzi ukuze bazuze abazukulu babo.
Ngayinye yale miba inezinto ezininzi kunye nezixhobo kwisicelo kwintsapho nganye. Ukuba ugogo akayi kuthatha inxaxheba kwimfundo yabazukulwana, konke kulula apha. Le nto iyimfihlo yabanye kunye nabantwana abanelungelo lokunyanzelisa, bengazivumeli ukugweba. Makhe sithethe ngeenkcukacha ezininzi ngezo meko xa ukuthatha inxaxheba kootatomkhulu kukuthe ngqo kwaye kusebenza.
Iinkonzo kunye neengxaki zezemfundo "ugogo"
Njengokuba kunjani nasiphi na imeko, kwimfundo yabantwana okhulu-nkulu banenzuzo kunye neengxaki zabo. Masiqale ngokuluhlu lwamacandelo angenakuqinisekiswa:
- umntwana uhlala enakekelwa, ugogo unomdla wokumkhupha ngaphandle kwintsimi, isikolo, ukuhlala kwizifundo, ukondla njalo njalo. Kule meko, abazali banokusebenza ngokuphepha kwaye bangakhathazeki. Ukongezelela, akukho mfuneko yokuqesha i- nanny kwaye uyihlawule imali, ngoko ayikho into ebhajethi yentsapho. Kodwa ezi zihlandlo zombuso;
- ngokwezinye izazi zeengqondo, oogogo abanalo uvavanyo lokuhlola, ngokungafani nabazali abahlala beqhathanisa nabantwana babo kunye nokubeka iimfuno eziphezulu;
- Oogogo banokuzibeka endaweni yomntwana kwaye "bathethe" naye ngolwimi olunye, kuba banako ukuwamkela njengoko bengenakuziphazamisa zabo iingxaki kunye neenjongo zabo;
- Abantwana abakhuliswa ngabagogo bahluke noontanga abanokuzithemba okuphezulu, okunceda ngokwenene ebomini;
- ekuphuhliseni kwengqondo "abazukulu" baka-Grandma bahlala behamba phambili koontanga babo.
Kodwa akuzona zonke izinto ezigqithiseleyo, zikho ixesha elibi :
- ngokwezifundo ezithile, abantwana abakhuliswa ngabagogo bazingca kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abanakho ukulahlwa;
- oogogo - abamele isizukulwana esihluke ngokupheleleyo, ngoko ke ukuba baqhuba imfundo yabazukulwana abadala, amathuba okungaqondakali kunye neengxabano zikhulu;
- Ingozi enkulu ekulindeni intsapho apho abazukulu bekhuliswa ngabagogo banemibono ephikisanayo ekukhuliseni. Ukuba umntwana uhlala eshenxiswa, ubeke phambili engahambelani kunye neminye imfuno, kukho ukuphakama okuphezulu ukuba umntwana uya kukhula evaliwe kwaye engavumiyo.
Enyanisweni, kumbuzo wokuthatha inxaxheba kootatomkhulu ekukhulisweni komntwana, kukho ezinye iimeko ezininzi, ngokukodwa, kuxhomekeke kwintsapho kunye neempawu zabantu. Ngoko ke, zonke izigqibo malunga nomlinganiselo kunye nezinga lokuthatha inxaxheba kufuneka ziqwalaselwe ngabanye.