Ixesha lenkwenkwezi linzima kakhulu kumntwana. Kukho ubunzima obuninzi ekuziqondeni ngokwakho, ukuthetha noontanga nabantu abadala. Umntu osemncinci unengqiqo yokuziqonda njengomntu, ngakwesinye icala uyaqonda ukuba akasekho mncinci, kodwa ngelo xesha, akavumeli konke abantu abadala abakwenzayo.
Ukuyinkcenkcesha kweli nqanaba luthando lokuqala, kaninzi alufunyanwanga. Abantwana bakuthola kunzima ukubonisa iimvakalelo okanye ngokungafaniyo-abazi ukuthi bangazilawula njani. Ngenxa yoko, banokuthi bavalelwe ngokwabo, okanye benze izenzo ezinyanyekayo, banzima umngeni onokungaziqondi baze bazivelele.
Ukuze ungabhubhisi umntwana ukuba asebenze ngokukhawuleza, ncedise ukuba anqobe eli xesha elilukhuni lokukhula, kuyinqweneleka ukuqhuba imidlalo yengqondo yabantwana besikolo. Baya kunceda ukususa ingxaki yengqondo yomntwana osemva, bafunde ukuvakalisa kakuhle iimvakalelo zabo neemvakalelo zabo, baxoxe ngombono wabo kwabanye.
Imidlalo yemidlalo yengqondo kunye nokuzivocavoca kufuneka iqhutywe ngumfundi weengqondo, mhlawumbi kanye ngenyanga. Emva kokuhlalutya kweemidlalo zengqondo, abantwana abafuna ukuqeqeshwa ngabanye bachongwa.
Ukuze ulungiselele abantwana ukutyelela rhoqo kwi-psychologist kwaye uwasindise kwiinkomfa (ngokuqhelekileyo ulutsha luhlaziswa ngabaphengululi beengqondo, bakholelwa ukuba kuyadingeka ukunyanga ukuziphatha okungonelanelekanga), kufuneka uqale ngokudlala imidlalo yeengqondo.
Imidlalo yeengqondo kunye nobunye
«Umtshini Womculo»
Kufuneka uthabathe iqhosha eliqhelekileyo uze ulibophe ekupheleni kwentambo ende. Abantwana baba kwisangqa kunye nokugqithisa isitshixo kunye nentambo ngokuphezulu kweengubo (uhamba entanyeni ye sweatshirt kwaye welula ngaphantsi kwezantsi). Ngaloo ndlela, bonke bahlanganisane.
Umququzeleli unikeza imiyalelo yokuba bonke kufuneka benze ngokukhawuleza - ukuxhuma, ukuxubha, ukubetha, njl njl.
Emva kokuba imeko yabathathi-nxaxheba iphuculwe ngokucacileyo, kuyimfuneko ukukhupha enye.
Emva kokuba unokubamba iqhosha kwindawo evelele eklasini, ngokubhalwe "into eyisivulekele omnye nomnye."
Imidlalo yokunxibelelana
"Thetha okanye wenze (ukuhluka kwebhotile") "
Abantwana bahlala kwisangqa, phakathi bafaka ibhotile. Ngomncedisi wokukhupha, umceli wokuqala, oguqula ibhotile, ukhethwe. Ubuza nayiphi na umbuzo lowo intloko yebhotile ibonisa ngayo. Kumele aphendule umbuzo ngokunyanisekileyo okanye enze umsebenzi owenziwe ngumthathi-nxaxheba wokuqala. Inomdla kukuba inxaxheba ayiyazi umbuzo okanye umsebenzi. Okokuqala kufuneka uthe: "Thetha okanye wenze."
Ukuba lowo uthatha inxaxheba, emva kokuva umbuzo, akafuni ukumphendula, ngoko unikwe imisebenzi emibini okanye uyasuswa (ayinconywanga).
Iimidlalo zemiDlalo yokuDlala
"Ingxoxo"
Kusuka kwikomiti khetha abantu abahlanu. Banikwa amakhadi ngendlela yokuziphatha komntu kunye nenkcazo yendlela aziphatha ngayo. Bahlala bephikisana nabo bonke abanye.
Isihloko sengxoxo sikhethiweyo:
- kutheni abatsha abalala ngesondo?
- kutheni sifuna imfundo ephakamileyo?
- yintoni indoda okanye ibhinqa enhle kakhulu?
- Ngaba uthando ekuqaleni?
- kutheni bengasivumeli siye kwiidiski zasebusuku?
Isihloko sinokuba nantoni na, abantwana banokukhetha umbuzo abanomdla kuzo okanye banikeze uluhlu lwemiba yendaba.
Kwimakhadi, abathathi-nxaxheba bathathu mabaxele oku kulandelayo:
- Ikhadi lokuqala ngumququzeleli. Lo mntu ubuza uluvo lwabafundi abathathi-nxaxheba kwaye uzama ukufumana izigqibo kwizinto ezithe zatshoyo, ecinga ngoluvo lwakhe. Uthetha bonke abantu, kodwa ngelo xesha uthetha nabanye abathathi-nxaxheba.
- Ikhadi lesibini liyingxabano. Uhlala ephikisana nayo yonke into ebhenela kuye okanye ibonise nayiphi na imbono yokujonga.
- Ikhadi lesithathu liyilungu lokuqala. Uvakalisa izimvo ezingalindelekanga kunye nezisombululo kwingxaki. Maxa wambi banako
kuqondakala kuphela kuye. Akangasebenzi kakhulu, uthetha kuphela oko acinga ngamanye amaxesha kumdlalo wonke. - Ikhadi lesine lidla ukutya. Uyavumelana nabo bonke, bancedisa wonke umntu, kuphela ukwenzela ukuba angangeni ekuxabaneni nabani na.
- Ikhadi lesihlanu lihamba. Ngokukhawuleza kakhulu kunye nokuzama ngokunyanisekileyo ukunyusa wonke umntu kwindawo yakhe yokujonga, uhlala ephazamisa abo bathathi-nxaxheba angavumelani nabo.
Khetha umdlalo osishukumisayo kunokwenzululwazi, kwaye uya kubanceda bazisombulule iingxaki ezininzi zemihla ngemihla kunye neengxaki zabo.