Ukulimala kwabantwana kuyinto engenakukhunjulwa. Kwakukho isiganeko esingathandekiyo - inkomo yakho yaziqhubela phambili? Uhlushwa, ucinga ngeendlela zokubuhlungu kunye nokukhawuleza ukukhupha umonakalo womntwana onenkathazo, kwaye umntwana wakho, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngeli xesha, ukukhala kwakhe kwandipha upende. Ukuqala, ukuzola, izandla "zobugqirha" akufanele zithuthumele. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuqala ko "msebenzi" kuyafaneleka ukuhlola imeko. Ukuba lincinci, unokukwazi ukuziphatha ngokuthe ngqo, kodwa ukuba u-splinter kumntwana usuqulile ngokucace kwaye iphulo layo liphukile, kuyacaca ukuba uye oogqirha kwaye ungabandakanyeki kwiyeza.
Sithatha amanyathelo
Ngoko, sele uhlale uzolile, ngoku sekuyisikhathi sokuzinqabisa iimvuthu. Musa ukumbonisa "isethi ye-sadist", apho uya kufumana khona umgca. Ungasibongozeli nenkalipho yentsana, uzama ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo oko kuya kulimaza. Zama ukuguqulela le nkqubo engamangalisi kumdlalo, njengokuba kunokwenzeka ukuzama ukuguqula umntwana "ekuzalweni".
Inkqubo yendabuko kukufumana umzimba wesinye isizwe kunye neenaliti. Zonke izixhobo kufuneka zikhutshelwe i-disinfected. Khanyisa ngokukhawuleza isikhumba malunga ne-splinter ukuze iphosi ibonakale ngaphandle. Kubalulekile ukuba i-crumb ingagqithisi, ngoko yibambe umnwe wakho ngokuqinileyo. Ukukrazula ngokucophelela iiflethi kunye neengqungquthela, kwaye unyamekele isilonda ngokuhlaza, utshwala okanye iodode. Kubalulekile ukuba akukho zincinci ezishiywe ngaphakathi zingakwazi ukunqanda.
Ukuba unesiqinisekiso sokuba uncinci, usenokucinga malunga nendlela umntwana athola ngayo i-splinter ekhaya. Ngaphambi kokuba uqalise ukuphathwa, hlamba kakuhle ngeesepha nezandla, uze uphathise ulusu malunga ne-splinter. Enye yeendlela, indlela onokukrazula ngayo i-splinter ngaphandle kwenaliti, ilula kakhulu. Emva koko sisebenzise inxalenye yeqabunga le-aloe kwindawo apho i-splinter ikhona khona. Ijusi yalesi sityalo iya kuncokisa ilusu. Ukuphazamisa imifanekiso yenkwenkwezi okanye iitokisi ezithandayo. Ncothula kancinci isikhumba sakho ngokugqithisela phezu kwe-splinter, kwaye uyifake ngobumnene ngesipoti. Emva kokuphumelela kwe "intsebenzo", kuya kufuneka usebenze kwaye unamathele isilonda kwaye ukuba unyoko uyafuna - thatha into ephoyisa.
Ukuba ayinzulu, kukho indlela enkulu yokuyikhupha
Ingcali inceda
Nangona kunjalo, kungcono ukuzama ukunqanda iimeko ezinjalo, kunokuba ucinge ukuba ungaxubusha njani unobuncwane kumnwe omncinci. Kodwa yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini, kwaye kufuneka ulungele oku. Okukhethiweyo ngokuthe xaxa yimiba xa umntwana enomngcipheko ophantsi ngaphantsi komnquba wakhe kwaye akukho nethuba elincinane lokulikhetha ukuze likhuphe. Kule meko, kufuneka uqhagamshelane noogqirha ngaphandle kokulibala.