Iphupha ngenye yezinto ezimbalwa, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, iindlela ezithengiweyo zokujonga kwikamva. Siyabonga ngolwazi olufunyenweyo, unokuzikhusela kuzo naziphi na iingxaki kwaye uphephe ama-scandals. Ukuze uchaze oko wakubonayo, kufuneka uqwalaselwe kungeyona into ephambili, kwimeko yethu - inkwenkwana, kodwa nakwezinye iinkcukacha: indlela ebheka ngayo, yintoni akwenzayo kwaye uyayikhumbula indima yakhe kwiphupha kunye neemvakalelo ezenzekayo.
Kutheni umntwana ephupha?
Kukho ulwazi lokuba iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukufika kweeholide kunye nolonwabo kwiintsapho zobudlelwane. Kubantu ababandakanyekayo kwishishini, umntwana usana uthembisa ukuhamba kwenhlanhla kwishishini. Ukuba ubamba umntwana ngokusingatha - lo luphawu oluhle, olubonisa inkxaso kwinkampani ebungozi. Xa umphuphi ebanga umntwana ephupheni, kuthetha ukuba unokugcina ulutsha kunye namandla ixesha elide. Kwabesetyhini abakhulelweyo, ukulala, apho umntwana umntwana esesandleni sakhe, ubhekisela kwisini somntwana ongakazalwa. Kwabanye abafazi, iphupha elinjalo lithembisa amava amnandi. Ukuba uhlambe usana - olu luphawu oluhle, olubonisa isisombululo esiphuthumayo seengxaki ezikhoyo.
Ukubona inkwenkwana ephupheni nokumondla kuthetha ukuba yonke into iya kulungeleka kwixesha elizayo, ngaphandle kweengxaki. Kwafuneka nditshintshe i-diapers okanye i-diapers-le ngxube yezithintelo eza kuvela kwizenzo zeentshaba. Umbono ebusuku, apho umntwana ozelwe khona, kuthetha ukuba izifiso kunye nezicwangciso ziya kuba yinyani, kodwa oku akuyi kwenzeka kungekudala. Elinye lamaphupha okuphupha ngokuphathelele umntwana usichazela njengomqondiso wokumangalisa nokumangalisa. Ngexesha elizayo elizayo ungalindela ukufumana iindaba ezilungileyo okanye isipho. Ukuzibona emfanekisweni usana kuthetha ukuba abantu abathile bangasolwa ngokuba neqabileyo kwaye bengenangqiqo.
Ezinye iincwadi zokuphupha zikwazi ukuchazwa kwamaphupha malunga nenkwenkwana, ngoko ngoko ulwazi lwabo, icebo elinjalo libonisa ukuba inhlanhla kuyo yonke imicimbi, mhlawumbi lixesha lokudlala i-lottery? Ukuba umntwana wayekhala - lo luphawu olubonisa ubukho bexhala, olungenalo ukulungiswa. Kwakhona kungaba ngumqondiso wokuba netyala malunga nabantwana babo. Umbono ebusuku, apho inkwenkwe ekhulelweyo ibonakala, isichazwa ngokuhlukileyo kwiincwadi ezahlukeneyo zokuphupha. Ngokomnye ulwazi, isalathisi esinjalo sisilumkiso esilungileyo malunga nokuhluleka. Ukongezelela, kwikamva elikufutshane kufuneka uloyike ukuhlaselwa kwamasela. Kukho umngcipheko wokuwa kwiimeko ezinzima, kwaye akufanelekile ukubala kuncedo lwabani na umntu ekusisombulula. Kukho uluvo lokuba ukuba inkwenkwe egulayo iphupha ephupheni, oku kuwuphawu oluhle, oluyimpumelelo ethembisayo kwizinto eziphathekayo. Ixesha elilandelayo libhekwa njengeyona mpu melelo yokuqalisa ishishini layo. Ukuba umntwana wafa ezandleni zakhe emva kokuzalwa - oku kubonisa ukuba okwangoku
Iphupha, apho waqhaqhaza umntwana, uqikelela ukukhuthazwa kwezempilo kunye nokuphelisa izifo ezikhoyo. Ukusondeza umntwana, kuthetha ukuba utyalo-mali oluphumelelayo lwenziwa ngoku kutshanje, ngenxa yoko kuya kukhangela inzuzo enkulu kwaye inzuzo. Ukubona kwiphupha umntwana onyanisekileyo kunye nokudlala naye ngumqondiso obonakalisiweyo, obonisa ukufika kwexesha eliyimpumelelo. Ngokukodwa ukutshintshwa kwezinto eziphathekayo. Kubantu abasebenza ngobuchule, iphupha elinjalo lithembisa ukuphefumlelwa . Ukuba omnye umntwana usuvele ephupha, kodwa lowo uphuphayo uyambona njengomntwana wakhe - oku kukudakisayo kwintsebenziswano yothando.