Ukukholelwa kumaphupha okanye kungekhona into eyimfihlo kumntu wonke, kodwa, eqinisweni, zonke iiphupha zinokuthi zihlaziywe.
Kutheni uphupha ukulila?
Kukholelwa ukuba ukukhala kukuphendula komntu kwizinto ezithile, imifanekiso okanye abantu. Ephupheni uzive uvakalelwa, unesihe, uvelwano ngento evezwe kuwe kwiphupha. Unokuvakalelwa ukunyuka kwengqondo kunye nokukhutshwa. Emva kwephupha, cinga oko kwaba yinto ebangela ukuba i-subconscious yakho iguqulwe iingcamango kumfanekiso ofanayo kwiphupha.
Kukho uluvo olukhala ephupheni lamaphupha kwiindaba okanye ekuvuyiseni okukhulu. Xa uzibona ukhalela ephupheni, ulahla iimvakalelo eziphazamisayo ngale ndlela uze ukhulule kwiimeko zokuxhomekeka kunye nezimo ezixinzeleleyo. Iphupha elinjalo liyakulungeleka kuba umntu ophethwe yintlungu engakwazi ukukhokela ubomi obuqhelekileyo, kwaye ngoncedo lwamaphupha anjalo ugcina impilo yakhe. Ngoko ke, ukuba ubona amaphupha apho ukhalela khona, qaphela ukulinganisela kwengqondo kunye nendlela ovakalelwa ngayo.
Kuthetha ukuthini xa abanye abantu bekhala ngeliphupha?
Ukuba ubona abanye abantu abalilayo ephupheni, unokuba ngumqondiso othile okanye uphawu lokuthatha inyathelo elongezelelweyo. Kukholelwa ukuba ukukhala krakra kwabanye abantu kudla ngokuphupha umtshato ocolileyo.
Umama okhalayo uphupha ntoni?
Iphupha elinjalo libhekwa njengelibi, elilumkisa ngento engavumelaniyo kwiintsapho kunye nokuxabana okukhulu. Ukuba wena kunye nomama wakho nixabana-elophupha ngelanga. Kule meko, uya kuzibona unetyala.
Kutheni kukho intombazana ekhalayo?
Ukulala kunokufanekisela ukuvuya, ukuchuma, ukuzinzileyo.
Kutheni umfana okhalayo ephupha?
Ukuba uphupha ukuba umntwana uyakhala, kuthetha ukuba uchitha ixesha elincinane kwintsapho kunye nabantu abasondeleyo.