Ukukhulelwa yiinyanga ezili-9 ezibalulekileyo ebomini yowesifazane olungiselela ukuba ngumama, ngeli xesha elide lijongene nolwaphulo lokubeleka, kuba ngoku kufuneka amkhusele umntwana uhamba nawo onke amandla akhe. Ngona wesifazane ongeyena okholelwa enkolelo-ntliziyo, ekhuselekileyo kwaye evelele xa ekhulelwe, uphulaphula iimpawu zamandulo kunye neenkolelo ezithandwayo, ezathi zadlulela kwiinina ukuya kwiintombi.
Izimpawu zokukhulelwa
- Kufuneka uhlale uthule ngesithuba sakho ngokukhawuleza. Kwakukholelwa ukuba imimoya emibi kunye needemon zingathatha umntwana ukuba umfazi uxelele izihlobo zakhe nabamelwane ngokukhulelwa kwakhe ekuqaleni. Ngenxa yoko, into yokuba umntwana uza kuzaliswa kungekudala, umyeni wakhe uya kuxelelwa kuphela, kwaye zonke izinto zigcinwe ngasese.
- Ibhinqa elisemgangathweni inqatshelwe ukusika iinwele zakhe. Ukususela kwixesha elidlulileyo abantu bakholelwa ukuba onke amandla omntu agcinwa kwizinwele, kwaye ukuba uyayinqumla iinqwelo zakho, uya kuba ungakhuselekanga kwaye unobuthakathaka. Ewe, ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo wenza oku, kunokukhokelela ekuphumuleni.
- Umfazi okhulelwe akavumelekanga ukuba alale kumqolo wakhe. Okhokho bethu babeqinisekile ukuba kulo mntwana umntwana unako ukuxhatshazwa. Kodwa namhlanje akusekho inkolelo-qhelo evamile, oogqirha bacebisa abafazi kwisimo sokuba bangalali emhlane, ngenxa yokuba oku kunokukhokelela ekuphuleni kwegazi ngenxa yokucima i-down vena cava.
- Ngexesha leempawu zokukhulelwa ayenqatshelwe ukujonga izinto ezimbi okanye ezimbi. Kwakukholelwa ukuba iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo kwizinto abazibonayo zinokuchaphazela ukubonakala komntwana.
- Umama wesikhathi esizayo akavunyelwe ukudibanisa, ukugcoba, nokuguqa. Kukho inkolelo yokuba kule ngxaki umntwana usenokubanjelwa ngentambo yomlomo.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uhlale ephethe imilenze, umntwana uya kuzalelwa emlonyeni okanye enqwelweni.
- Izinkolelo zabantu ziyakwenqabela abafazi kwindawo yokuba batye iikati. Oku kuchazwa yinto yokuba umntwana uya kuba neentshaba ezininzi okanye ngakumbi, uya kuzalelwa ngokugula kakhulu. Ngethuba lethu, oogqirha bancomela ukuba banxibelelana nabancinci bezilwanyana zasekhaya, kuba, njengoko kwaziwa, ikati inokubangela ukuba i-allergies okanye ibe ngumthwali wezifo ezinobungozi, umzekelo, i-toxoplasmosis.
- Ngaphambi kokubeletha, awukwazi ukuthetha malunga nawaphi igama ogqityiweyo ukuba libize umntwana. Ngoko imimoya emibi ayinakuyibamba umntwana.
- Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo uhlala echaphazela ubuso, umntwana uya kuba namabala amaninzi okuzalwa.
Izimpawu ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ukuvumela ukuba wazi ngesondo lomntwana
Kwixesha elidlulileyo, xa iyeza lingazange liphuhliswe kangako, oomama abanokuza ngokuqinisekileyo banokucacisa ukuba ngubani ozalelwe ngawo, kwaye imiqondiso eyayithembeke kakhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa yayincedo kakhulu.
Imiqondiso yokukhulelwa yinkwenkwana:
- ikhuthaza i-toxicosis eqinile;
- ibhinqa ngexesha lokukhulelwa likhulu kakhulu;
- isisu sigqityiwe okanye siphumelele ekunene;
- ukukhulelwa okupheleleyo kumama ozayo unokuphefumula kakhulu, ukuhlala kushushu kwaye kungabi nomoya owaneleyo;
- ummandla ojikeleze iimbumba zaba lula;
- ukhulelwe nje ukulala kwicala lasekhohlo;
- Zonke iinyanga ezilisithoba, umfazi "udonsa" kwi-salted, emuncu nenyama;
- umntwana uqhubela kwisisu esezantsi.
Iimpawu ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ekhomba intombazana:
- Isisu sisisigxina kwaye sijikeleza ngakwesobunxele;
- phantse kulo lonke ukukhulelwa akukho netyhefuzi;
- Ummandla ojikeleze iimbumba uye wadimala;
- bahlala befuna isiqhamo nesiphunga;
- umntwana ushukumela kwisisu esisentla kwesisu;
- Ngethuba lokukhulelwa, umfazi waqala ukubheka ngaphezu kokukhulelwa;
- ebusweni kwakukho amabala kunye namabala ahlukahlukeneyo;
- Zonke iinyanga ezili-9 ibhinqa ivakalelwa;
- Iintendelezo zekamva elimnandi kakhulu.