Iimpawu zeKrismesi kwiimeko ezininzi zihlala zizaliseka, oko kutheni ziphathwa ngqalelo ekhethekileyo.
Ngesixhenxe kaJanuwari-umhla wokuzalwa kukaKristu, ngokukhethekileyo imantombazana engatshatanga, kuba iKrisimesi yiholide elinezibonakaliso zothando. Ngaloo mini, abo bangatshatanga kwaye ngokukhawuleza baphupha ukuba bahlangane nesiqingatha sabo, abazange baqhekeze phantsi kwaye abazange bathabathe indlala ngaphandle kwendlu ukuze bangabhoyi umyeni.
Kwakubaluleke kakhulu ukuba amantombazana agqoke kwaye alungiselele intlanganiso yeKrisimasi ngaphambi kokuba kuhlwe. Oku kubandakanyeka abantu abatshatileyo nabakhululekileyo. Kwakukholelwa ukuba abo abangayigcinanga le siko baya kuhlwaywa: abayeni babo abayi kubabathanda abafazi babo, kwaye abafazi abangatshatanga banako ukufumana umyeni ofanelekileyo.
Iimpawu zeKrisimesi zothando
Ukuze ufumane ukuba ngaba lo nyaka intombazana leyo iya kukwazi ukutshata, kwafuneka idle i-apula kwaye ibale inani lembewu kuyo. Inani le nombolo lathembisa umtshato wokuqala, kunye nokuxhomekeka okungaqhelekanga kwedwa. Ukuba inani leembewu lingaphezulu kweyesithandathu, umtshato uya kuba yimpumelelo kakhulu, ixesha elide kwaye lonwabo.
Impawu zeKrisimesi zothando, zizaliseka ngokuchanekileyo:
- Xa intsapho ihleli phantsi isidlo sesidlo, ama-bachelors okanye amantombazana akhululekileyo kufuneka adle, kodwa angadli, enye i-pie ephilileyo. Emva koko, phuma ngaphandle uze uphulaphule iingxoxo zabantu abadlulayo-kude kube lizwi. Kukholelwa ukuba yile ndlela umfazi okanye umfazi oza kuthiwa ngayo.
- Ngaphambi kokutya kweKrisimesi kufuneka kuthathe iintlobo ezi-3, ezenziwe ngeblue, ezibomvu neziluhlaza kwaye zifake kwisitya. Emva kokudla isidlo, susa umxube omnye. Ngombala walo, misela oko kuza kuba kusasa elizayo. Ubuluhlaza - ulindele umtshato omnye unyaka, uhlaza - ngokukhawuleza ukutshata kunye nobomvu - ukufa wedwa.
Izimpawu kunye neenkolelo zeKrismesi ngothando:
- ukuba ngomhla weKrisimesi indoda engaziwayo ingena endlwini kuqala, ngoko umfazi okhululekile uza kutshata ngokukhawuleza;
- Intombazana kufuneka ibambe intaka kwiKrisimesi, ize uyilahle. Ukuqhubela phambili ukubheka kwinqanaba eliza kubhabha, ukusuka apho kwaye kuza ufundiswe;
- ukuba intombazana ifumana izicathulo njengentetho - ngokukhawuleza iya kufumana indoda yakhe, imali - indoda yakhe iya kuba yityebi kakhulu, kunye nebhekethi ibonwa njengomqondiso ukuba umfazi uza kukhawuleza abelethe umntwana.