Ukhangelekile kwaye uzive ulungile. Uninzi lweetalente, umsebenzi omhle nothando. Yonke into ebomini bakho ilungile, kwaye kubonakala ukuba ubomi buyenzeka. Kodwa kukho enye. Unesizungu, kwaye intloko yakho isishukumisela ngcamango eyodwa kuphela: kutheni ndingamthandi mntu, akukho mntu uyandiqondayo, akukho mntu unomdla kum? Isiqendu sonke sezikhalazo malunga nobomi kwaye akukho ukukhanya kunye nendlela yokuphuma kwimeko. Ngaloo nkathazo, izigidi zabantu namhlanje zijongene nazo. Yintoni eyenzekayo kubantu banamhlanje kunye naziphi iimpazamo abazenzayo, zizenzele zodwa?
Kutheni kungekho mntu undiqondayo?
Ngokwenza nayiphi na inkampani, nokuba ngabahlobo okanye oogxa baya kufumana umntu ongeyatshatanga ngokuthelekisa nabanye, akafumananga isibini, kwaye ukuba le ntombazana, ngoko ke engatshata, njl njl. Kuyo yonke imibuzo eyenza ukuba kwenzeke into enjalo, aba bantu basebenziselwa ukuphendula ngamagama amabini afana nawo: "Akukho mntu uya kundithanda" okanye "Andiyithandi mntu". Kodwa bona ngokwabo abaqapheli ngezizathu zangempela zokuba bodwa. Kwi-reception kwizengqondo zengqondo ezifana nezigulane zivela rhoqo. "Akukho mntu uthetha kum, akukho mntu uya kumisa ... Akukho mntu undibona, Ugqirha, kutheni ndingadingi mntu?", Bakhala isikhalazo. Ugqirha uyamemeza ngokubuhlungu aze abuze umntu ngamnye ukuba abuyele ebuntwaneni bakhe. Kususela apho iinyawo zikhula kule ngxaki. Ukwesaba uthando, umzekelo wobudlelwane bomzali obungenasiphelo, izikhalazo ezingabantwana, ukuzihlukanisa, njl njl. - konke oku kubeka uphawu olubalulekileyo kumntu, othe wambi ube ngumbonakaliso wokwenene. Buza abanye abantu abaphumelelayo nabazityebi kuba kutheni bodwa. Kwaye abaninzi banokuvuma ngokunyanisekileyo: "Akukho mntu wandithanda." Akunjalo ngabanye, kodwa malunga nomntu. Yaye ukuyicombulula le ngxaki kuye ngamandla. Ezinye iingcebiso ziya kuncedisa i-dot kwaye ndiziqonde:
- Ukubuza umbuzo othi "kutheni kungekho mntu undithandayo" kubalulekile okokuqala ukuba uziphendulele uze ucele "Ngubani na ukuba ndiyamthanda?". Ngaba kukho umntu ebomini bakho othanda ngayo into okanye ngenxa yokuba nje. Ukuba ungayesabi uthando kwaye uyayiphika, iya kubuya kuwe ngokubuyisela. Into eyona nto kukukholelwa ukuba unokuthanda.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu basondele kwilizwe labo elincinci ngenxa yelokuba baxhatshazwa ngenxa yokwesaba ukushiywa, bekhohliwe okanye bethengwe. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, sihlala siqaphela ukuba umntu usinika iimpawu zokunakwa.
- Esinye isizathu esenza rhoqo sokungaphumeleli kwintsebenziswano yinqanaba elibhaliweyo lamabango kwiqabane kunye neengcamango. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ngokweendlela ezininzi zomtshato zanamhlanje ziyawa. Umgangatho wokulindela amaqabane aphuma omnye komnye awuhambisani nokoqobo. Kwaye xa abafaki bothando beenkqubo zokuhlalisana beqala ukunqumla, ngoko ulwalamano lwangempela kunye nalabo abathanda ukuba abantu basondele ukungafani. Ukuze ulahlekise le ngxaki, kufuneka uyeke ukucinga ubuhlobo bakho kwaye "uyehla eMhlabeni." Ngamanye amagama, tyenziswa kwimbono yokuba umntu ofanelekileyo owakhuphayo ekucingeni kwakho akayi kuhlangana nawe, kuba engekho.
- Kwaye ekugqibeleni, isizathu sokugqibela sokuba kutheni abantu bangakwazi ukufumana isiqingatha sabo sesibini kukuzithemba. Ungalindela njani uthando oluvela kumfokazi,
Ukuba awuyiva le ntliziyo? Njengoko ilizwi lisithi: "Ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha ihlabathi - qalisa wena." Zifumana i-hobby, hamba rhoqo kwaye utshintshe imeko, utshintshe umfanekiso, ungene kwimidlalo. Izinketho zokuzikhuphaza nokuphelisa ukuxinezeleka namhlanje zininzi. Umsebenzi wakho oyintloko kukuzithandayo, ihlabathi elikujikelezayo kunye nazo zonke iziganeko zalo.
Ukuvuyisa uvuyo nokuzithemba, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kubangalisa abantu abatsha nabanomdla ebomini bakho. Kwaye kunye nabo, uvakalelo olunomdla luza kuwe.