Abasetyhini abaninzi babuza umama, intombi, kunye nabantu abangaqhelekanga kwiNethiwekhi umbuzo ofanayo: "Unokumangaliswa njani umyeni wakho?". Iimpendulo ziya kuba yinani elikhulu, ngelixa ziza kuhambelana nemida eyahlukeneyo yobomi: ukususela kwimihla ngemihla ukuba isondele. Nangona kunjalo, kuqala ngokuqaphela ukuba umntu uhlala esengumntwana emphefumlweni, kwaye ukuba ufuna ukutya okanye ukulala, akavuyi, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba uneminyaka elingakanani ubudala, kwaye unjani na isikhundla sakhe. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngenxa yoko kuyacaca ukuba umangaliswe umyeni ukuba ulambile.
Yisiphi isidlo esimangalisayo indoda?
Ehlabathini kukho inqwaba enkulu yeendlela zokupheka ezona kuphela ukukhanya kwamehlo kunye nokuphuma kwemitha. Yintoni endiyikhethayo ukuyithanda? Xa ukhetha isiphi isitya ukumangalisa umyeni, kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba ukhetho lwakhe lunokuba luhluke kancinci nakwakho. Ngako oko, nokuba ucinga ukuba umnqweno wokuba "uqhube" i-1 kg ye-broccoli kumlingane ohluphekileyo, xa ephupha i-cutlet, ulungele ukukhathazeka ngempilo yakhe, akunakucebisa ukuba aqhubeke nomoya ofanayo. Emva kwakho konke, umsebenzi wethu kukuphendula umbuzo othi "Kuyamnandi ukumangalisa umyeni?".
"Ukutya inyama" kuya kufana naso nasiphi na isidlo esimnandi esilungisiweyo kule mveliso. Ukuba ukugqithisa ngemifuno kusenakukuphumla, zama ukulungiselela ukutya okudibeneyo, njengamaphepha epilisi anengxowa .
Yonke imihla
Ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukuba umfazi wamanje unamaxesha amaninzi kunye namandla ukuze enze izixhobo zokutya zemihla ngemihla. Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha elide ingcamango "Ndifuna ukumangalisa umyeni wam" nangona kunjalo iza kwiindlebe eziqaqambileyo zamantombazana amahle. Kwaye oku kumangalisa, kuba akukho mntu oye wanciphisa indlela eya kwintliziyo yothando ngomzila womlomo. Ukukhetha into enokumangalisa umyeni wakhe ngokutya, nceda uqaphele ukuba ukuze umbethe, akuyimfuneko ukuba uhlale ehleli, kwiiyure ezingabikho kwisitofu, uzame ukupheka isidlo esingaqhelekanga ngegama elingenakuqondakala. Kukho imfihlo encinane. Umntu, ngelixa esesimo "sokukhulula" kwaye ehlala yedwa, ukupheka, akayithandi, kaninzi kungekhona ngenxa yokuba engayazi njani, kodwa ngenxa yokuba uvila, kwaye udla ngokutya okukhawuleza. Abasetyhini, bephazamiseka ngokumangaliswa yindoda yakhe ethandekayo, zama ukumphatha ngokutya okwenziwe ekhaya. Ukuze i-nostalgia ingazange idonsa iqabane elixabisekileyo "ecaleni," oko kukuthi, ententeni eneemigodi "engacatshangwanga," yiphatha nge pizza okanye e- chebureki .
Ukumkela okumnandi akukwazi nje ukuba yidle eyinkimbinkimbi, efuna izakhono. Kukho iimeko xa, umzekelo, ubuyele ekhaya kunye, kwaye njengenhlanhla ingaba nayo, akukho nto ikulungele. Ndingamangaliswa njani indoda yakhe kwimeko? Ukukhawuleza! Kukhona iirephepheni, ukuphunyezwa kwayo akudingi ixesha elininzi, umzekelo, i- pasta eneenyama egxothwayo .
Izihlandlo ezimnandi
Ukumangaliswa umyeni wakhe ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa lunokwenzeka ngoncedo lweqela "posh table kunye nomfazi omhle". Ngoko ke, kwiimeko ezinjalo, khetha iiresipeyi ezivivinywe (zombini ekuphekeni kokusebenza, nangomyeni). Kungcono ukuba "ishushu" akumele ihlale iphazamisa. Izitya ezifanelekileyo ezibhaka kwi-oven. Ngoxa idoki, inkukhu, i-goose okanye enye inyama ijika ibe yinto yokulungisa imitha, kunokwenzeka ukwenza i-hairdo, i-make-up, yambethe ingubo enhle.
Umthetho ofanayo usebenza kwezinye iholide - emva koko, ukuba ungamangaliswa njani umyeni, umzekelo, ngomhla wesiganeko, ukuba umfazi onomhlwaya kakhulu akahlali ehamba ngeendlovu ezidliwayo?
Ukongeza kokutya, amadoda amaninzi anomnye ubuthathaka obuncinane-umnqweno wokusela kancane kwiholide. Ewe, iglasi lesiselo esinxilisayo asiyi kuba yingozi, ngakumbi kuba kukho isizathu. Kwaye xa kwenzeka ukuba ngexesha lokulungiselela isidlo sesidlo kwakukho ukulibazisa kunokuba uthuthukise umyeni ngokulindela, uxube kunye ne-cocktail egcobile njenge- mojito , umzekelo.
Kukho enye indlela eyaziwayo ukuba ungamangaliswa njani umyeni wakho othandekayo ngosuku oluyimfuneko, nangona ufuna ikhono elithile. Bhaka ikhekhe uze uyihlose ngendlela yokuqala - akufuneki ube yipopu enkulu yokwenza ubhalo oluhle lwakho.
Siyathemba ukuba ngoku, ngoncedo lweengcebiso zethu, uya kuhlala ufumana iimpendulo kumbuzo othi: "Ndimele ndiphike ukuba ndimangalise umyeni wam?"