Bobabini amaqabane olwalamano kumlinganiselo omkhulu okanye omncinane abonisa ukunganeliseki kunye nomlingiswa. Amantombazana amaninzi akhalaza ukuba indoda ivame ukuthetha, iziphatha ngendlela engafanelekiyo, ihlazo, kwaye kwezinye iimeko iphakamisa isandla sayo. Ukuze ungalokothi ulahlekelwe, kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokubeka umyeni wakho kwindawo yakho kwaye ubuyele ubuhlobo obuqhelekileyo. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokuthula, kwaye kungcono ukubhala phantsi onke amabango kumlingane. Emva koko kufuneka ucinge ngeempazamo ezisemgangathweni ezingabikho, kunye noko kukufanele ukulwa.
Indlela yokubeka umyeni endaweni - iingcebiso zesazi sengqondo
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba i-scandals ayisombululi nantoni na ukukrokra ngamabango kuphela okwandisa ingxaki, kwaye amagama anceda unqabile kakhulu kwaye isisombululo esona sisisombululo kukuthatha isenzo. Makhe sibone umzekelo weendlela ezininzi zokusombulula ingxaki:
- Ukuba indoda ingenzi into ejikeleze indlu, umzekelo, ayithathi igxobhozo okanye ihlambulule izinto ezihlakazekile. Inketho yokuqala kukungenzi nto wena kwaye xa iqabane liyeka ukufumana izinto zakhe kwinqwaba enkulu, kuya kufuneka ukuba acinge kwakhona ngezikhundla zakhe.
- Iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo indlela yokubeka umyeni wesibindi - ukumphendula ngegama. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abasetyhini banentloni baze bathule, bahlupheke, kodwa esi sigqibo esifanelekileyo. Ngexesha elizayo, xa iqabane liza kubonisa ubugwenxa, memezele kuye, kwaye ukuba akunakunceda, ke unike i-slap. Ukuphendula okunjalo kufuneka kuqhube umyeni. Ukuba oku akuzange kuholele kwimiphumo efunwayo, isisombululo kuphela sisinxalenye.
- Kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokubeka umyeni kwindawo leyo ukuze ubudlelwane bungabonakali ngokupheleleyo. Kwamanye amaxesha ukunyaniseka kunceda, ngoko iqabane likhumbula ukuba uyangenisa, kwaye ubudlelwane kufuneka butshintshwe. Enye indlela ephumelelayo yinto ehlekisayo, eyoyothusa indoda. Unokungawuthobeli ngokupheleleyo umlingane, xa eqala ukunyaniseka, ukuba akukho mpendulo, awufuni ukuqhubeka uhlambalaza.