Umbutho womnyhadala womtshato awuwona umsebenzi olula, kodwa uvavanyo oluncinci luqeqesho olufanelekileyo lobomi bentsapho ezayo. Ukulungiselela umtshato, umtshakazi nomyeni kufuneka bafunde ukusebenzisana ngokufanelekileyo, bahambise imisebenzi, bahloniphe uluvo lwama-halves, baze bafumane ukunyaniseka. Uluhlu lwamatyala omtshato alukhawulelwanga kuphela kwidili kunye nopende, kuba wonke umntu ufuna iholide ukuba ibe yodwa. Kwaye ukuze ufezekise okufunwayo, isibini esilandelayo kufuneka senze umzamo omkhulu.
Okokuqala kufuneka ucinge ngoluhlu lwezinto eziyimfuneko kunye neemeko zomtshato kwaye wenze iishedyuli yoqeqesho ukwenzela ukuba awukwazi ukulungisa iingxaki ezibalulekileyo ngokukhawuleza. Okokuqala, kufuneka ukuba wenze isigqibo malunga nomcimbi wokubhiyozela kunye nenani leendwendwe. Oku kuya kuxhomekeka kakhulu kwiluhlu lwezinto zonke ezifunekayo kumtshato. Ukulungiselela iholide yakho, ungasebenzisa uluhlu oluqhelekileyo lwamatyala phambi komtshato kunye nomtshato kunye nolwahlu lwezinto eziyimfuneko zomtshato, olunikezwa ngcali kwiinkalo zemibhiyozo. Ewe, kuya kufuneka uluhlule yonke into oyifunayo ngomtshato kwindawo ekhethiweyo. Ingaba iimfuneko zeekhwizishini kunye neenkonzo, izipho zeendwendwe, izambatho, njl.
Uluhlu lwezinto ezibalulekileyo kunye neentlonelo zomtshato:
- Misela umhla womtshato.
- Misela uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lomtshato.
- Yenza uludwe lwamamemo.
- Khetha a mangqina.
- Khetha i-ofisi ye-registry, isicelo, isombulule yonke imiba enobulungisa.
- Sombulula umcimbi kunye nomququzeleli womtshato, nokuba uya kuba yinkampani ehleliyo ekuhleleni imitshato, okanye umyeni kunye nomtshakazi baya kulungelelanisa yonke into ngokwabo, ngenkxaso yezihlobo kunye nabahlobo. Njengomthetho, xa ukhetha iqumrhu, ukulungelelaniswa okulandelayo komtshakazi nomyeni kuya kuba kuphela ekuxoxeni ngeendlela ezikhethiweyo kunye nokubhiyozela ngqo. Ukuba abantu abasandul 'ukutshata banokugqiba ukulungiselela iholide yabo, ngoko siyakwazi ukuqhubela phambili kwizinto ezilandelayo kwiluhlu lwamalungiselelo omtshato.
- Khetha indawo yokubhiyozela.
- Xoxa ngemenyu kunye nokuhlobisa iholo.
- Khetha i-photographer, i-cameraman, i-toastmaster, i-DJs kunye neemvumi.
- Xoxa ngesimo kunye nomphathi wesigqeba, yenza uluhlu oluhlukileyo lwezinto ezifunekayo ukuze umtshato uphumelele isicwangciso. Kuya kuba lula ngakumbi ukubeka le nxalenye yombutho kumphathi wesigqeba.
- Xoxa ngomculo kunye nabaculi beholide, ungalibali ukubunjwa komdaniso wokuqala wabatshatanga.
- Khetha umgcini wezinwele kunye nomculi ozenzayo.
- Thumela izimemo zeendwendwe, cela izihlobo kunye nabahlobo abahlala kwamanye amadolophu nakwamanye amazwe, nokuba baya kuba nako ukunyamekela indawo yokuhlala.
- Sombulula umcimbi ngezothutho. Bala ukuba zininzi iimoto kunye neebhasi ezifunekayo, khetha inkampani yokuthutha.
- Ikhekhe lomtshato lomyalelo.
- Cwangcisa iinkukhu kunye namaqela angama-stag.
- Cwangcisa i-honeymoon.
- Ukusabalalisa uxanduva, udwebe ishedyuli kuzo zonke iimeko ukwenzela ukuba ngomhla wokugqibela kukho izinto ezilula ukudala umkhosi wokuzonwabisa.
- Buza amangqina okanye abazali ukuba bahlole ukuba yonke into oyifunayo emtshatweni ifakwe kuhlu. Mhlawumbi baya kuba neengcinga ezingaphezulu okanye baya kukhumbula into ebalulekileyo kwintsapho okanye kwiindwendwe.
Uluhlu lwezinto eziyimfuneko zomtshato:
- Izimemo zeendwendwe.
- Ingubo yomtshakazi ngomtshato kwaye ngosuku lwesibini, ukuba iya kubhiyozelwa.
- Sukela umyeni.
- Izindonga kunye nomtya wokugada.
- Imali yokuhlawula kwiofisi yokubhalisa, intengo yomtshakazi kunye nezinye iindleko ngosuku lomtshato.
- Iibhanki zamangqina.
- I-Champagne, iiglasi, iitilesi kwiofisi yokubhalisa.
- IiPassports, iirisithi eziyimfuneko zokupenda.
- Ukusela, ukutya kunye nezinto zokuhamba emva kokupenda.
- Imihlobiso yemoto.
- Imihlobiso yokungena.
- I-Bouquet yomtshakazi.
- Iipalato zeentyantyambo, i-millet, i-candy, iimali zokufafaza umtshakazi nomyeni.
- Isonka.
- Iiglasi zokugqoka.
- Iimfuneko zemincintiswano yomtshato.
- Izipho zeendwendwe.
- Iibhetri zeekhamera.
- Imihlobiso yegumbi lokulala labantu abasanda kutshata.
- Kunconywa ukuba ube nethikithi yokuqala yokuncedisa emotweni, kwaye isethi yamalungiselelo anokunceda ukuphepha iingxaki eziqhelekileyo, umzekelo, izidakamizwa ezichasayo, kunye nezixhobo zokugaya kunye nokuxiliswa kotywala, kunokuncedisa kwisidlo.
Kwiveki ngaphambi kokubhiyozela, kufuneka uqaphele ukuba yonke into eluhlu luqwalaselwa njengemfuneko yomtshato, kunye noko kusele kuthengwa nokwenziwa.
Uluhlu lwezinto zonke eziyimfuneko kumtshato kufuneka ziprintwe kwiikopi ezininzi, kuba bonke abenza inxaxheba kwimibhiyozo. Kwikhophi nganye, kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba yeyiphi na ishishini elinikezelweyo, kwaye yabela imisebenzi yomnini wololuhlu. Emva koko akuyi kuba naludideko, kwaye wonke umntu uya kukwazi ngokucacileyo ukuba yiyiphi indima enoxanduva lwakhe, kwaye ukuba kukho imibuzo okanye iingcamango kwezinye izinto, kuya kucacisa ukuba ngubani ongayi kuhamba naye, angayi kumphazamisa umyeni okanye umtshakazi kwakhona.
Ngentlangano elungileyo, yonke ilungiselelo lomtshato liya kwenzeka kwindawo efudumeleyo yothando nokuqonda, kwaye ukubhiyozelwa kuya kuhlala kuyimemori ebomvu kunye nenhle ebomini.