Ubuqhetseba kumyeni wakhe yindlela ephumelelayo yokulahla ukungabikho komntwana. Oku kwaziwa kwabaphili bama-Middle Ages, kodwa le ngcaciso ayifumanekanga kubahlali ...
Amachiza ebudlulileyo kwiinkulungwane ezidlulileyo zibonakala zingekho zesayensi namhlanje kwaye kwinto eyoyikisayo. Ngokomzekelo, kwi-Middle Ages, indima yabaphili bavame ukuqhutyelwa ngababhenki-barbers. Baye basebenziselwa ukulungiselela amafutha okugcoba amayeza, amalungisa amalungisa, amanxeba atyunyiwe kwaye acacisa umzimba wegazi. Abambalwa kuphela abashiya umsebenzi wendlu yokuhlambela ibhotela kwaye bajonge kuphela ekufundeni amayeza. Kodwa kwanokuba babengenakukwazi ukuza neendlela zonyango ezichanekileyo. Ziziphi iindlela endala zokuphulukisa ukungabikho komntwana, okwakusele kuqhelekile!
Isiqendu sokubeletha
Ekubeni amayeza enzululwazi awaphuhliswa kakuhle, abafazi (ikakhulukazi abo abayeni babo babengenayo imali engenayo) baye baphendukela ngokunyanisekileyo kubaphili kunye nabakwa-shaman abathembisa ukwabelana nabo ngeziqhelo zobungqina bokukhulelwa okulula. Kuye kucetyiswa ukuba isisu sifanele siqhutywe ngamehlo, sijonge inyanga epheleleyo, sithela amanzi afudumele entloko, simile echibini okanye kwibheji, sibethe imithi evelisa iziqhamo. Into enamandla kunayo yonke into eyayinomdla kunye neengqungquthela zemihla ngemihla emgqeni obomvu okanye ngentambo. Kwafuneka ukuba uqale ngosuku lokuqala lwenyanga kwaye emva kweentsuku ezingama-40, ngokwezithembiso zamadoda amayeza, ukukhulelwa kwakuza kuza.
Ukuzibonakalisa njengendlela yokuba ngumama
Ingcali kwimbali yeYunivesithi ye-Exeter, uDkt. Catherine Ryder, osandul 'ukukhubeka kwiqoqo yemimiselo yonyango yeli-13 leminyaka phantsi kwegama elithi Liber de Diversis Medicinis. Wafumana kuzo iindlela ezingaqhelekanga zokunyanga ukungapheli. Inomdla kakhulu kukuba umbhali wencwadi uthi ngokucacileyo zonke iindlela ezi ngasentla zenzelwe ukuzithiba-zineempembelelo ze-placebo, njengoko zithethayo. Umzekelo, unokufumana izi ngcebiso:
"Ukuba ibhinqa lifuna ukunyamezela umntwana, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuthatha amaphepha amancinci kwaye ubilise ngewayini kuze kube yilapho i-mint ishiya yonke ijusi layo. Ukukhulelwa okumele kubonelelwe kufuneka kunikwe indoda kwisisu esingenalutho iintsuku ezintathu. "
"Thatha ilungu lomzimba wesifuba, uyomise kwaye uyinqumle. Yidla kwisisu esingenalutho uze uhlambe iwayini. "
Akukho ndlela yonyango yezenzo ezi zokupheka ukunyusa amathuba okukhulelwa phantsi kwabo. Oogqirha banamhlanje bayavumelana nombhali wabo: ngokucacileyo, ibhinqa kufuneka likholelwe ukuba lincede kwaye liphilise ngokwabo.
Indlela yangexesha elide lokufumanisa ukuba ngubani ogula ngengxaki yokungena
Kweminye imifanekiso yamandulo, oogqirha basitshela ukuba kukho indlela ethembekileyo yokufumanisa ukuba yeyiphi isibini esingakwazi ukuba ngumzali. Akukho zifundo zelabhoratri: indoda kunye nomfazi okwakudingeka ukuba alahlekise imfuno yenkomo aze ayibeke kwindawo emnyama iintsuku ezilishumi. Emva kwexesha elifanelekileyo, ngamnye kubo kwakufuneka ajonge ebhodweni lakhe: ukuba izibungu zibonakala kuyo, zifanele zibonwe njengomqondiso wokuthi lo mntu akanako ukuba nabantwana.
Unokuphelelwa yintsholongwane kunokunyangwa njani ngesondo?
Mhlawumbi, enye indlela ephumelelayo yokuphulukisa ukungabikho kwemvelo kwakunjalo kwi-Middle Ages. Ngaloo mihla, ibhinqa lingaqhawula indoda ukuba ingakwazi ukukhulelwa umntwana. Abantu abagqityiwe kwezopolitiko okanye nayiphi na imibutho encedisayo, ukuhlukana ngesizathu esinjalo akuzange kuhambisane. Emva koko oogqirha bafumana ingcamango: indlela yokusemthethweni yokuphatha ukungabikho kwengqondo yayicatshangelwa ... ubulili kunye nabahlali.
Indoda ekhulile yamenywa kwigumbi lokulala lomfazi ocebile kwaye yamthanda kuye phantsi kolawulo lomyeni. Xa ukulala ngesondo kwagqitywa, naye wangena ebudlelwaneni kunye nabathembekile. Kwakukholelwa ukuba ngale ndlela ungakhohlisa imvelo kwaye "udlula" kumntwana ozayo iimpawu zomntu ofuna ukuba nguyise, kodwa akakwazi.