Iinyanga ezili-9 zingabonakala zingapheliyo, ingakumbi ukuba uthetha kakhulu.
1. "Hayi, uyadla kwakhona?"
Ukwanda kwondlo yowesifazane kwi-trimester yesibili yokukhulelwa kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kuba, okwesibini, umntwana ukhula ngaphakathi kwakhe. Kodwa njengawe unakho isizathu sokufumana amaphiko angama-30 enkukhu, udliwe ngelixa ubona umdlalo webhola. Ngoko luma ulwimi uze ugcine umlomo wakho uvaliwe.
2. "Le bhiya iyaqabula kakhulu! Yiloo nto oyifunayo! "
Oomama abakhulelweyo banobungozi ngotywala (abanokuthi bayonwabile kakhulu ngale nto), ngoko akufanele uzingcwine malunga nendlela othanda ngayo isiphumo sakho "somntu omdala". Ngokukodwa xa uphulaphula ilizwi lakho ngokuyeka utywala ngokubambisana.
3. "OwuThixo, indlu iyinto engcolileyo!"
Ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ulingwa ukuba wenze izimvo malunga neengxaki, bhetele ungathuli, uphawule kwaye uphumelele. Oku kwamkelwa kuya kwenza ubomi bakho nobomi bomlingane wakho buvuyiswe.
4. "Umbala we-nursery? Ewe, andinandaba. Khetha nantoni na yakho kwibala. "
Ukuba umlingane unomdla kwimbono yakho, oku kungona kubangelwa kukuba ungobuchule ekukhetheni iintyatyambo ekamelweni, kwaye mhlawumbi ufuna ukubona ukuba wena, njengoye, ulungiselela ukubonakala komntwana. Ngaloo ndlela, nokuba ngaba unganamdla umbala weendonga, kufuneka wenze umgudu, vuka kwi-sofa uze ukhethe umbala oyithandayo ukusuka kwiimpawu eziluhlaza.
5. "Ngaba ufuna ukuxoxa ngegama lomntwana kwakhona?"
Ukukhetha igama lomntwana wakho ngenye yezinto zokuqala ezibalulekileyo zomzali. Ngoko ube nomonde kwaye ungalahlekelwa ngumdla, nokuba uxoxa ngamagama afanayo ubusuku bonke kwiiveki ezimbalwa.
6. "Kutheni sifanele sithenge iimpahla ezininzi zezingane?"
Ukuthenga izambatho zabantwana kunika umfazi ukuzithemba ukuba ulungele ukuzalwa komntwana, ngoko ukuba ufuna ukuthenga iimpahla ezininzi okanye ibhi, yenza njalo.
7. "Khawuleza!"
Abafazi abakhulelweyo bahlala behamba ngeenxa zonke (inkokhelo yakho iya kuba yinto efanayo xa ubethwele umntwana esiswini), ngoko ungazithembi ukuba uya kukuxabisa amahlaya akho ngokunyamezela kwakhe.
8. "Ngaba ngoku ukhale ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yale nto?"
"Yeka ukuhleka!"
Umfazi wakho uhlangabezana nazo zonke iintlobo zeenguqu ze-hormonal, ngoko ke ukuba, ngenxa yezizathu ezingachazwanga, uyakhala ngenxa yokuba aphelile ama-donuts, nje udibanise.
9. "Ndiyaxolisa, ndithanda, kwakungenayo ipayi nekhredithi yebhanana esitolo, ndandithengela ibhanana."
Ngethuba lokukhulelwa, kuninzi kunqwenela ukunqwenela ukunambitha into enjalo, ngoko ukuba uthunyelwe ekhaya ukuthenga ukutya okungavamile, kungcono ukuba ungabuyeli uze ufumane oko wayekufunayo. Ndiphinda ukhuseleko lwakho kunye nokhuseleko lwabanye: musa ukubuyela emva kokungenanto okanye nayiphi na indawo!
10. "Ndaye ndahamba ngeencwadi malunga nokukhuliswa komntwana kulokhu ukusa, ndikulungele ukuzala."
"Flip ngokusebenzisa" incwadi yokufundisa yento ethile ethengwe kwisitoreji se-intanethi yanele ngokwaneleyo, kodwa ngoku sithetha ngomntwana. Yenza wena kunye neqabane lakho ubenomdla kwaye ufunde ezi ncwadi. Apha uya kubona, ulwazi olufumene luya kuba luncedo xa umntwana ezalwa.
11. "Umntwana uza kubonakala ngeenyanga ezimbalwa. Ngoku akukho mfuneko yokulungisa lakhe igumbi. "
Oomama bexesha elizayo bahlala befumana isidima sendawo yokuhlala, kwaye ingcamango yokuba bayilungele umntwana iya kubanika ukuzithemba. Akunakudingi ukuba wenze njalo, ngoko kutheni ungaqali ngoku, ngokukodwa xa kuthoba isiqingatha sakho sesibini?
12. "Ukukhulelwa kunzima kum".
Ewe, ewe, ewe. Ubeke ingqalelo xa umfazi wakho ukhulelwe, kodwa oku akuthelekanga nento efana nokukhulelwa.
13. "Wow! U-Beyoncé unomntwana, kodwa awusoze wachaza ngawo. Ukhangeleka! "
Umlingani wakho, ngokuqinisekileyo, uyavuya kakhulu ngendlela eya kujonga emva kokubeleka, ngoko akayi kuvuyela ukuva ukunyaniseka kwakho kwezinto eziphathekayo eziphathekayo kunye nemali eninzi kumqeqeshi womntu kunye nesondlo sokutya.
14. "Andikufuni ukuba ubone ugqirha, kunene?"
Ewe, akunakudingi umlingane ukuba ubone ugqirha, kodwa ufuna ukuba uye naye kunye nokumxhasa. Kwakhona uya kuba novuyo lokuba usondele kuye waza waqala ukumbona umntwana kwi-ultrasound.
15. "Udinga ukuzola."
Ukuba uhamba ngokumangalisa ubudlelwane bakho kwaye awufumananga ukuba yintoni into embi kukuxelela umfazi wakho ukuba azinqabise, ngoko uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza oku, ngakumbi ukuba usenokuba nengqondo yokuthetha oku xa ekhulelwe.
16. "Ngokuqinisekileyo ukhathala kakhulu kungekudala."
Ewe, ewe, iyinto ebalulekileyo. Ngaba ucinga ukuba kungenzeka ngenxa yokukhulelwa kwakhe?
17. "Bonke abafazi abakhulelweyo bavutha kakhulu, kodwa akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo. Nakho konke kulungelelaniswa. "
Inyani le nto kukuba ngokwenene awukwazi kakuhle ukuba kukho into ekukhathazayo okanye ayikho. Kufuneka uthathe ngokungathí sina, kwaye ukuba kuvela ukuba wayenomdla kakhulu, oko kuya kuba yiindaba ezilungileyo.
18. "Kutheni unganginika i-massage?"
Ewe, awunamathuba okufumana ukusilalisa ngoku, kodwa akudingeki ukuba ube neenyanga ezili-9 zomntwana, uze uzalise.
19. "Ndibethe ukuba ndibe mhle xa ndikhulelwe."
Mhlawumbi kuya kuba kunjalo, kodwa akukho mfazi okhulelweyo uya kufuna ukuphulaphula ingxoxo malunga nendlela oye waphatha ngayo ngokukhulelwa kwakho, ngakumbi kuba oku kuqinisekisiwe ukuba kunzima kunokuba ucinge!
Kwaye, ngokufakela phezulu, into oyifunayo ngokwenene ukuxelela umfazi wakho okhulelweyo ngolu hlobo: "Unobungangamsha, kwaye andikaze ndiqhayise ngawe njengamanje!"