Ukuba ngumzali kuyinto elula, kodwa kunzima kakhulu kuba ngabazali abanomdla oqonda yonke into ebalulekileyo yobomi bentsapho.
Ewe, ngokuza kubantwana, ubomi bunentsingiselo ehlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kwaye buqala ukugubha ngemibala eyahlukahlukeneyo. Nangona umthwalo onzima woxanduva uhlale ukhumbuza ngokwakho, ukunyanzelisa umzali ngamnye ukuba alwele umzekelo omhle wokuziphatha nabantwana babo. Kodwa yonke into iphelele! Akunjalo, kusondele ngokusemgangathweni kwimigangatho eyamkelekileyo. Ngoko ke, ukufezekisa ukugqwesa akunakwenzeka, kodwa oko kukuzinyusa kunye nobomi bentsapho yakho. Kule thumela baqokelelwa iingcebiso ezincedo kunceda ukuba ubudlelwane babo bazali kunye nabantwana babo.
1. Nangona uhlamba umntwana ekubhabheni basebenzise ibhasikidi yokuhlamba ukuze ufike kwixesha elibaluleke kakhulu amathoyizi omntwana wakho akasayi kubhukuda kakhulu.
2. Gwema ukungahloneli abanye abazali ngokubuza imibuzo kumntwana. Khumbula ukuba nayiphi na imibuzo ingaphendulwa ngumzali, ingakumbi ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukuthetha.
3. Gcina iifowuni ezindala eziza kusetyenziswa njengemidlalo.
Kwaye, ngokubanzi, emva kwezizukulwana ezimbalwa, ezo fowuni zingaba yintsikelelo. Ngako oko, eli ligalelo elihle kwixesha elizayo.
4. Ukuba abantwana bakho bahlala bekulwa, bahlwaye.
Umbhalo kwiT-shirt: "I-T-shirt yethu yokuxolelana."
Ukususela ebuntwaneni, ngamnye umntwana kufuneka aqonde ukuba umzalwana okanye udade akakwazi ukukhubekiswa, kuba akukho mntu uhlala kwintsapho ebomini. Zama ukuchazela abantwana imfuneko yokukhusela.
5. Ukuthenga isitya sokuhlamba umntwana esikuvumela ukuba ujabulele amanzi ngaphandle kokwesaba isepha kunye namanzi.
6. Ukuba umntwana wakho unobhala obunzima, hamba kunye naye kwindawo yokudlala yabantwana, apho kukho ukubhala ngesandla.
Inyaniso kukuba ukusuka kubuntwaneni kubalulekile ukuqinisa izandla zomntwana. Enye yezona "zifanisi" eziyimpumelelo ngenxa yolu hlobo lwezemidlalo - incwadana enceda ekuphuhliseni ukunyamekela ngokwenyama nokuphuhlisa ubuchule bokudala, kuba izandla ezisebenzisayo zipenda kakuhle kwaye zakha amanqaku ezenziwe ngesandla.
7. Ukuze wenze lula ubomi bakho, thengisa iingubo zokuhamba.
Ukunqunyulwa okuqhelekileyo kweebhulukhwe zeempahla kuya kunceda nawuphi na umama ngexesha lokuhamba esitalatweni. Inani elikhulu lamapokethi liya kubandakanya i-napkins, iibhotile ezincinane, i-diapers nezinye izinto ezincinci ezifunwa ngumntwana. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuzigcina kwisigxobo esinzima.
8. Yongeza i powder enemibala kubo bonke abantwana.
Phakathi kweentlobo ezingapheliyo zezinto zokugcoba i-confectionery, i-universal jikelele ibhekwa njengamafafaza ahlukahlukeneyo. Nabo, nasiphi na isiselo sonyango siya kuba mnandi, kwaye umntwana ujabulela isiselo kunye ne-cocktail. Kwivenkile ungathenga i-powder ngohlobo lweebhola, i-vermicelli, iintliziyo, iifir-tree okanye i-confetti. Kodwa unokwenza ubucwebe ekhaya.
9. Yenza i-hammock yomntwana wakho.
Ukudala indawo yabantwana abahlukeneyo uya kuyidinga ingubo ebanzi kunye netafile ephezulu. Ukubopha ingubo ejikeleze itafile, ukwenza isikhala samahhala phakathi kwemilenze. Phezulu ingubo ngokuqinisekileyo kwiqhina. I-hammock encinane yabantwana ikulungele.
10. Yenza isiphephelo semidlalo.
Ukuze umntwana wakho ajabulele ukudlala kwindawo yokukhusela eyenziwe yengubo, ufuna kuphela ukuba nomoya oza kunceda ukudala i-nook. Thatha umgca wefestile kunye ne-duvet. Kucetyiswa ukubeka umqhubi kwinqanaba lesitulo ukwenzela ukuba umzi ube phantsi. Hlela icala elinye lekhava ye-duvet ngemilenze yesihlalo. Beka kwelinye icala kunye nomngcipheko kumqhubi. Vula umxhasi kwimodi ephakathi kwaye ujabulele umva wakho womntwana.
11. Ngaphambi kokuba uye esitolo, yenza umzekelo wemilenze yabantwana bakho.
Iqhinga elihle kubazali abazitholayo kwisitolo seentathu ngaphandle koonyana. Ukuze ukwazi ukuthenga izicathulo ngaphandle kokufaneleka, ukuthwala iqabunga ngomfanekiso weenyawo zakho kunye nolwazi malunga nobukhulu obukhoyo beesanti ezikhoyo. Ixesha lithatha isilinganiselo, kuba umlenze unokukhula ngokukhawuleza.
12. Fumana izikhethi ezikhethekileyo ukuhlukanisa amawele akho.
Ubhaliso emzimbeni: "Amabhinqa".
Ukuze uhlukanise ngokulula phakathi kwamawele, kufuneka ukuba uthenge kuphela iimpahla ezikhethekileyo kwisitoreji, apho kuya kubakho ukubhala okanye ukuprinta, ukukunceda ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwamawele.
13. Vula ukucoceka ngokuqhelekileyo kumdlalo.
Kumntwana wakho onwabile ukukunceda, uze nomdlalo oquka ukucoca igumbi. Ingaba kukho iindibano eziqhelekileyo okanye umdlalo ocingayo kunye nemithetho ethile, kufike kuwe. Ngokomzekelo, ukhethe isikwere ngaphantsi apho umntwana kufuneka ahlambulule inkunkuma.
14. Sebenzisa i-clip yeenwele ukuba ubambe iintambo zegxina zesihloko.
15. Ukulahla ukukhwehlela ebusuku, sebenzisa iVax VapoRab (okanye ugqirha uMama) amafutha ukuze ukhulule iimpawu ezibandayo.
Ukusasaza imilenze yengane kunye nale mafutha uze ufake iisokisi phezulu. Ubuthongo obunzima bubonelelwa umntwana kunye nentsapho yakho yonke.
16. Ukuphelisa ukwesaba iilonda kuya kunceda ukuphalaza.
Kanye kunye nomntwana, yenze i-spray ngokumelene nezilo. Ukwenza oku, sebenzisa ibhotile engenanto kunye nesibhamu sokutshiza, esihlobisa imifanekiso yezilwanyana ezivela ephepheni. Mema umntwana ukuba afefe kwindawo apho apho, ngombono wakhe, izilo zifihlekile.
17. Fakela isikhombi esincinci kumqolo wesihlalo ukuze kugcinwe i "bibs".
18. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba abambe ipencil ngokuchanekileyo kunye nephepha lephepha lephepha.
Thatha i-napkin uze uwahlule kwiindawo ezi-2. Esinye isiqwenga somqhawulo kwaye umbeka umntwana esandleni, phantsi komnwe omncinci kunye nomnwe womnwe. Nangona umntwana ezama ukubeka i-napkin ngeminwe emibili, mcele ukuba athathe ipensela kwiminwe yakhe yamahhala. Kuyaphawuleka ukuba ngelixa umntwana ephethe i-napkin, ipencilisi iya kuba kwindawo echanekileyo.
19. Sebenzisa ijelo zobusuku ukuze ufundise umntwana ebhodweni.
Iibhasikizi zivumela ukuba ugcine indawo ejikelezileyo eyomileyo, kodwa umqondiso kumntwana ukuba kwi-panties imanzi kwaye kufuneka uguqulwe ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko ke, ngokuhamba kwexesha, umntwana uqala ukuqonda ukuphazamiseka aze abuze ibhodwe.
20. Ukuhamba, thengisa indawo ephakamileyo ye-highchair engayi kuthatha indawo enkulu.
21. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukholelwa kwizinyosi zezinyo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ubeke phantsi komsila wengqekembe, le ndlela izenza umntwana akholelwe ukuba kukho imimangaliso.
Thatha imali yamaphepha, glue PVA kwaye uphawule. Basebenzisa ngobuncinane umfanekiso omncinane ngendlela yamaphiko endloko kwi-banknote uze ufefe ngeempawu ezimbalwa. Emva kokubona umvuzo onjalo omangalisayo wezinyo ezigcinwe, umntwana wakho uya kuvuya.
22. Xa umntwana wakho enza umsebenzi wesikolo, sebenzisa ibhola lokuzimela endaweni yesitulo. Oku kuya kumnceda ahlale egxilile ixesha elide.
23. Khuphula i-pacifier yomntwana kwisitya sebisi, umso, umxube okanye amanzi ukucobisa iinjongo ngexesha lokutshatyalaliswa.
24. Yenza umgodi omncinci kwi-nipple ukuba unikeze lula imishanguzo yamanzi.
25. Jonga izixhobo zobuchwepheshe, ezifuneka ziguqulelwe kwimodi yabantwana.
26. Ukuba ufuna ukukhusela umntwana ekufundweni kwezitepsi, sebenzisa ucingo, ulungelelaniswe nezibophelelo zekhebula.
Nayiphi na isiteyithi inokukhuselwa kumntwana ngezakhiwo ezizodwa, ezinokuqhotyoshelwa ngokungafaniyo kwinqanaba ukuya kwizitepsi. Ukuze ungaqhubeki izimbobo ezongezelelweyo, kufuneka ufune ukuthenga i-cable kunye nokulungisa ucingo kunye nabo.
27. Izibophelelo zeekhenkethi nazo ziya kuhlangabezana ngokuthe ngqo nendima yezinwele ezilahlekileyo.
28. Sebenzisa iipakethe kwiDVD ukudala imeko ekhethekileyo yokuhamba.
Ukusebenzisa i-glue, iiplanga zekhadibhodi kunye nephepha elibomvu, yenza "amathangi" amancinci ngaphakathi kwebhokisi ukugcina iipensela kunye nezinye izinto zeofisi.
29. Ukuthenga umququzeleli wezicathulo ukugcina amathoyizi abantwana kunye nezinye izinto ezincedo kwindawo enye.
30. Ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukulala ngaphandle kwakho kwaye uvuka ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza ukuba uthathe isandla sakho kuye, le ngcebiso izokukusindisa kulo.
Thatha iglavu uze uthele i-barley yeparele kuyo. Sew it. Xa umntwana elele, ubeke ngesovulo iglavu emva komntwana. Emva kwexesha elithile, susa iglavu. Umntwana akayi kubona ingxaki.
31. Buyisela ibhotile ngaphantsi kwe-shampoo okanye ioli kwi-tap for the tap.
Ngobuqhetseba obunjalo, nayiphi na umntwana uya kukwazi ukufikelela kwipompo aze ahlambe izandla.
32. Se benzisa intambo eqinile ukuguqula umntwana wakho ngokuguqula ukude.
Ibhunga eliqulunqwe ngokucacileyo ngabantu!
33. Ukuba ungumdlali wegeria kwaye ushiywe ukukhathalela abantwana, kukho indlela yokuphuma kwimeko.
Ukunikezela abantwana ngokungaxhamli kunye nokubukela impendulo ngexesha lomdlalo wakho.
34. Ukuba uloyiko lokuba umntwana wakho uya kulahlekelwa, yenza umyalelo wezithuba zexeshana kunye nenombolo yefowuni yakho.
Ukuba ndilahleka, ngoko nceda ungabiza le nombolo!