Kubonakala ngathi ikati inendawo enhle endlwini: epholile, efudumele kwaye ikhululekile ... Ngoko kutheni iikati zilala kumntu, zidlula kwindawo yazo?
Ngubani na umninindlu?
Ikati liyilo elizimeleyo nelingathandiyo. Akayi kuwugqoka umculi kumntu okanye ubalekele ngokuzinikela. Inyaniso yokuba uyavuma ukuphumla ecaleni komntu, kwaye aze avumele ukuba athabathe, esele ebonakalise isimo sakhe kwaye mhlawumbi uyayihlonela.
Bathi inxalenye yomzimba apho ikati ethanda ukulala ifumaneka kwisifo esithile. Izilwanyana ezinomlilo zizama ukunceda umntu aphelise eso sifo. I-Kotov ithathwa ngokuba yindoda ephilileyo. Kukho imeko ezininzi apho isilwanyana sinceda umntu anqobe nezifo eziyingozi. Njengoko isilwanyana singakwazi ukubona indawo yengxaki, akulula ukuyichaza ukusuka kwinqanaba lezesayensi. Mhlawumbi kusemandleni akhethekileyo kunye nxalenye yamatshini.
Kwiqela elincinane labantu, kunzima ukusho ngubani na onguyintloko. Ngoko ke enye inkcazo yoko kutheni ikati ilala kumntu: ilawula kuphela. Uziva ekhuselekile xa eyazi ukuba umntu uhlala kufuphi.
Uchaza isizathu sokuba ikati ilele kumnini, kwaye uthando lwalo lwanyana luyakushushu. Ubushushu bomzimba womntu buphezulu ngaphezu kwefenitshala okanye nokuba yindawo yekati, ikati lixhomekeke kumnini walo.
Ngaba ndilala nekati?
Amakati afana nokulala embhedeni wenkosi, ngokuqhelekileyo umntu ngokwakhe akayiqondi ukuba ibhola elifudumalayo lixhamle kufuphi. Into ephambili kulo mbandela inkolelo yokuba ikati ayilona isithinteli sezifo eziyingozi kumntu. Ukuba umzingeli uyathanda ukuzulazula ngeenxadi zeedidi ezizungezile, uze ufikelele embhedeni eneenyawo ezingcolileyo, lo mmandla awuyi kukhuseleka. Ikati kufuneka ibe nazo zonke izitofu, kufuneka ulawule ukungabikho kweentlanzi kunye nezibungu kuye. Kwakhona, ungavumeli ikati embhedeni kumntwana omncinci okanye kumntu ongenayo
Buza okuthandayo, kutheni ikati zifana nokulala ebantwini, awukwazi, kodwa umntu uthanda ukulala nesilwanyana ngenxa yesithandwa sakhe, ukufudumala nokuthanda kwakhe isilwanyana.