Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamnye wethu ubuncinane wakuva ilizwi elithi "kuxhomekeke". Kodwa ngaba wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ithetha ntoni? Kule nqaku siza kuzama ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani ocingwa ukuba uxhomekeke kuye.
Imithetho yenani lamazwe ichaza umntu oxhomekeke kuye njengomntu "onokubambisa ixesha elide okanye olusisigxina okanye ukhuseleko lwemali evela kwabanye abantu". Ngaba konke oko? Hayi, ayikho.
Ngubani obonwa ngokuba ngumxhomekeke?
Umntu oxhomekeke kuye ngokuqinisekileyo ungumntu ongekwazi. Kwaye abo babonwa njengabantwana abangazange bafikelele kubantu abadala, abaphantsi kwempesheni kunye nabangasebenzi. Nangona kunjalo, oku akukho konke. Elinye lala maqela linemiqobo yalo. Umzekelo, umntwana uyaqhubeka exhomekeka xa ebhalisile kwimfundo yexesha elizeleyo, ekuqwalaseleni ukuba konke oku kwenzeka ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-23, kwaye imfundo ayikho ikhosi yezemfundo eyongezelelweyo. Abahlawuli-mboleko - ukuba umhlalaphantsi wabo ungaphantsi kobuncinci obuncinane obusekwe ngumthetho.
Inqaku elincamisayo lixhalabisa abatshatileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iiforamu zixoxa ngombuzo: ngaba ngumfazi oxhomekeke kuye? Bonke abagwebi baya kukuphendula: "EWE! "Kodwa kuphela ukuba uzimisele ukukhulisa umntwana. Iholide ehloniphekileyo ehlawulwayo - ayibali. Indoda ethembekileyo nayo inokwenzeka. Kakade ke, oku kunjalo xa umntwana ekhula umntwana, kwaye umfazi-ufumana imali kwintsapho. Abaxhomekeke kuluhlobo lokungalingani "noluntu olunamandla kweli lizwe". Unokufunda ngokubanzi ngamalungelo abaxhomekeke kwiinkcukacha zabasebenzi kunye neentsapho, kodwa kungcono, xa kuthe kwimibuzo-ukubonisana negosa lochwepheshe. Abanini bezondlo ezinjalo kwiintsapho banikezelwa izibonelelo ezithile.
Bafazi abathandekayo! Kwimeko apho unomntu ongaphangeli umntu osele uphumelele kwimfundo okanye uyakwazi ukusebenza, kodwa uceke kakhulu, akafuni ukusebenza kumlingane kwaye akukho bantwana-aba baxhomekeke kuye, kodwa iipasisiti. Ngoko musa ukuzenza ngokwakho!