Kuthekani ukuba umyeni uwile ngothando?

"Emva kwexesha, iimvakalelo zipholile, oku akunakuncedwa .." - cinga kakhulu. Kwaye mhlawumbi akusiyo yonke into elahlekileyo, mhlawumbi kukho indlela yokufumana kwakhona iimvakalelo zangaphambili? Yiloo nto enokuyenza xa umyeni eyekile uthando, siya kuthetha namhlanje.

Ndingayiqonda njani ukuba umyeni wam uwile ngothando?

Ixesha le-candy-bouquet lidlulayo, ukutshatyalaliswa kweemvakalelo kuyanyamalala, intliziyo yakho ayiyikubetha ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza ukuva amanyathelo akho othandekayo kwiholo. Ngoko sifunda ukuba iimvakalelo ziye zaba zinyameko, malunga neyinto efanayo eyenzeka kumadoda, kuphela ukusabela kule ndaba kuyahluke. Amantombazana, mhlawumbi, aya kuqala ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukupholisa okwethutyana kwaye kuzakuzama iindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo zokubuyisela umva kwiimvakalelo. Kodwa imiqondiso yokuba uthando lomyeni luphelile, aluyi kunyuswa imizamo, kodwa ukungabi khona kwabo, loo mntu uyayeka ukwenza oko wayeqhele ukukwenza ngokuvuya. Indoda ayifuni ukuba uthethe ngokupholisa kwakhe, kodwa uya kukhetha ukuba uyayiqonda kwaye umvumele ahambe. Emva kwakho konke, ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyakwazi ukuqonda ukuba umyeni wakho ulele ekuthandeni nawe, mhlawumbi uya kuqhuba ingxoxo engathandekiyo, ukumkhulula kulo xanduva.

Kutheni umyeni wam engandithandi?

Ngaba ucinga ukuba wenzeni ukuba umyeni uwile ngothando? Uyazi njani oku? Uthi akayithandi, okanye umyeni akakathethi nto, kodwa ucinga nje ukuba akakuthandi? Mhlawumbi ubuninzi bebanda kubangelwa kungekhona ngokutshintsha iimvakalelo kuwe, kodwa ngeengxaki emsebenzini? Ukuze ungaphumeleli, khuluma nomyeni wakho, khangela ukuba eli lide lide kangakanani, eli liziphatha ngayo nawe ngeveki. Ukuba izikhalazo ziqinisekisiwe okanye umyeni ekuxelele ukuba akayithandi, kodwa ufuna ngokwenene ukugcina ubudlelwane, zama ukuqonda izizathu. Kwenzeke njani ukuba umyeni wehla ngenxa yothando waza wayeka ukunyamekela okanye waya kwenye intokazi? Nazi ezinye iingcinga malunga nale nto.

1. Amadoda afana nokudlala oovulindlela, kwaye ukuba uyayifunda ukusuka kwiphepha ukuya kumfihla, uyekile ukunomdla kuye. Ngoko waqhubeka ukuvula ii-horizons ezintsha.
2. Wadibana nomnye, kwaye ngoku wamthandana naye, kodwa kwakungekho ndawo kuwe entliziyweni yakhe.
3. Umyeni wakho waqonda ukuba awuhambisani neminqweno yakhe. Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, kwakubonakala kuye ukuba unguye kanye into ayifunayo, kodwa ngoku ulahlekelwe ukholo kuye.
4. Wena ngokwakho ubeka isohlwayo ngenxa yokuba umyeni uwile ngothando - ukungcatsha kunye nokunyanzelwa ngabantu kuxolelwe kakhulu. Kwaye abanye abakwazi ukuxolela into enjalo kwaye bakhetha ukulahla "iphepha elimnyama" ebomini babo.
5. Enyanisweni, akazange akuthande, isisondelelo, isithandwa, uthando - konke, kodwa uthando, umnqweno wokudala intsapho kunye nawe - hayi. Yingakho, xa ukunyamezela kwakhe kudlula, wagqiba ekubeni athathe inxaxheba.

Kuthekani ukuba umyeni uwile ngothando?

Okokuqala kufuneka ukhethe isigqibo sokuba ufuna ntoni ngempela - ukubuyisela le ndoda okanye ucinga ukuba ugqibe ukuba akayidingi ngempela? Ukuba unqwenela ukulwa, yenza ngokuhlakanipha, ucinge ngamanqanaba akho alandelayo. Kwaye ukuze ungenzi iimpazamo kumanyathelo, kufuneka ufumane ukuba yintoni kanye indoda yakho ayithandiyo kuwe.

1. Akukho mfihlelo eyaneleyo? Ewe, iingubo zamabhinqa zingasombululwa, ziqokelele kumaqela abantu aba-10, kwaye kusekho ubomi obuya kubakho. Mnike ngokukhawuleza into ethile kwi-arsenal yakhe.
2. Uthe wayethetha ukulungeleka, kodwa u-sexier? Kuthetha ukuthini ngaphambili, ngokwenene utshintshile kangaka? Ngokukhawuleza ugugile iimpahla ezimpunga kwindawo yokulahla, kwaye uzibeke phezu kwakho, ukuba iliso lithande wena kunye nomyeni wakho. I-hairstyle entsha, i-manicure kunye ne-perfume nazo ziya kuza.
3. Ucela ukuba ngaphambili kwimeko yobudlelwane obuninzi, awuzange umlindele ukuba asebenze ukuze athole udoti? Ewe, mbonise ukuba akukho nto itshintshile. Yintoni enzima ukuba uhlasele kunye neengcebiso kunye nezenzo ezingcolileyo kumyeni kwindlovu?

Kodwa ebaluleke kakhulu, khumbula - awukwazi ukuyalela intliziyo yakho, kwaye ukuba umntu akafuni ukuba nawe, akukho tricks kuya kunceda ukufezekisa oku. Kule meko, kungcono ukumyeka ukuba ahambe, kwaye ufunde indlela yokuphila ngaphandle kwakhe.