Amakholi angaqondakaliyo, ukungabikho, iphunga leminye imimoya yabasetyhini ... Abafazi basoloko bevakalelwa kukuba into ephosakeleyo kunye nabathembekile babo kwaye baqala ukuzitshintsha, bakhumbulule zonke izono ezifa . Indlela yokuqonda nokuqonda ukuba umyeni ukopela nokukopela okanye ukhathele kwaye akahlali kwixesha elifanelekileyo lobomi bakhe, uya kuxelwa kule nqaku.
Ungaziqonda njani ukuba indoda iyatshintsha?
Ezi zimpawu zilandelayo zikhokelela kwingcamango yokungathembeki kwabathembekileyo. Apha:
- Le ndoda ivakalelwa ngokwasemzimbeni. Akasenomdla wokulala phantsi kweeveki zonke embhedeni, ebukela iifilimu zothando kunye nokuya kutyelela. Xa ezama ukukhumbula izihlandlo ezimnandi ebomini obudlulileyo, uthatha isihloko kwelinye icala.
- Ukutshintsha kwakhe rhoqo imihla ngemihla. Emva kwakho konke, umthandi ufuna ixesha, kwaye ukuba athembekileyo wayehlala ehamba ngezoshishino, ahlale emsebenzini emva kwexesha okanye kwigalaji, oku kungachanekanga ngokuqinisekileyo umfazi wakhe.
- Ukuqonda ukuba indoda ishintshile ngendlela eyaqala ukujonga ngayo ukubonakala kwayo. Kwaye ukuba engaphambi kokungazange agxininise iinwele zakhe aze ahlaziye i-wardrobe ithembele umfazi wakhe, kodwa ngoku ngokukhethekileyo akhetha i-cologne, i-shaves ihlale ibukela i-ndever, ihambela isitya rhoqo ngamaxesha kwaye iguqulela rhoqo iikhati.
- Kuyinkosikazi akufuneki kuphela ukuchitha ixesha, kodwa nemali. Ukunciphisa ngokuthe ngqo kubhajethi yentsapho, iindleko ezingenakwenziwa kunye nezinye izibonakaliso-alarm.
- Iifowuni ezingenakuqondwa kunye ne-SMS-ki, idibaniselwano kwiintanethi zentlalo, njl njl. Ukuba indoda yaqala ukufihla ifowuni kumfazi wayo, kwaye xa uthetha ukuya kwelinye igumbi, kuya kunceda ukuqonda ukuba umyeni wakho ushintshile wena. Ngandlela-thile, ngexesha lokuzilibazisa, kulungele ukukhangela i-mobile kunye nokuba kukho ezininzi iifowuni ezivela kwi-mythical "Vasya" okanye "brigadier", ungazama ukubuyela kule nani. Ngaphandle kokuba ukucaciswa kolwalamano luyingxenye yezicwangciso zomfazi wakhe.
- Ukutshintsha kwindlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo ngumqondiso omkhulu wokungathembeki kweqabane. Ukuba sele kubanda kakhulu okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, kubonisa ukunyaniseka okukhulu, ukubonisa iindlela ezintsha kunye nobuchule, ngokucacileyo kwakungekho ngaphandle kwefuthe lomntu wesithathu.
- Ukutshintshela indoda yakhe nangaphandle,
ukucaphukisa, ukukhathala kwimihla ngemihla kunye nokulahlekelwa ngumdla kubantwana kubonisa ukuba abathembekileyo bayaphula. - Abo banomdla wendlela yokuqonda ukuba umyeni ushintshile iqumrhu lequmrhu, unokuphendula ukuba kunokwenzeka ukukrokreza iqabane lakho ukuba akaphenduli iifowuni yonke imini, wafika ekhaya ngokukhawuleza kunye ne-podshofe, ehluthayo, ephazamisekile, ecocekileyo kwaye enqunywe ngomlomo. Ukungabikho kwengubo yangaphantsi okanye i-obnoxious state iya kugqiba kweengcamango ezimbi. Nangona, mhlawumbi, oogxa bakhe babedla ngaye.