Intsapho nganye ineemithetho kunye neemfanelo zayo kwilungu ngalinye lentsapho. Omnye uxanduva lomyalelo endlwini, umntu upheka isidlo, umntu uthabatha udoti, kwaye umntu uya esitolo kunye uluhlu lwemveliso. Ewe, kwinqanaba lokuqala lokudala intsapho, yonke le nto iwela kumfazi, akunakwenzeka kwaye kuyinto engokwemvelo.
Imisebenzi yamadoda kwintsapho iya kuba yinto eyahlukileyo. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba amadoda "aphile kangcono". Bonisa intlonelo, bafazi abathandekayo.
Kubantu kwirekhodi
Iimbopheleleko zamadoda kwiintsapho zisekelwe ekudalweni kweemeko apho ababhinqileyo nabantwana beziva bekhuselekile. Oku akuthethi ukufakwa komnyango okhusekileyo kunye neengcingo kwiifestile. Intsapho apho kukho ubutyebi bezinto eziphathekayo, izimo zokuphila ezizinzileyo zidalwe, ukusebenzisana phakathi koododa, kunye nabantwana abonwabileyo bahamba bejikeleza indlu - le yintsapho ekhuselekile. Kulandela ukuba umntu ufuna (andithandi igama "kufuneka"):
- ukuba yinhloko yentsapho, ukuba ube ngumntu onondla. Ukwenza izigqibo kunye nokubonelela intsapho ngemali ngumsebenzi ofanelekileyo kwaye onzima;
- kuba "indoda". Yintoni intokazi eya kuba yintsapho, ukuziphatha kwayo kuxhomekeke kwiimeko apho umntu edala khona umfazi wakhe. Ukungena kunye nokungahoywa komfazi, ukungakwazi kwakhe ukwenza izigqibo nokuba "indoda", ukungafuni ukuba yinhloko yentsapho ekugqibeleni kuyomnika umfazi onamahloni oza kutyhola izinto ezininzi ezandleni zakhe, kuquka nomyeni wakhe;
- kuba "nguyise." Imisebenzi yopapa kwintsapho ihlanganiswe ngokungenakuqhathaniswa nokudala igunya kumabantwana. Ukuba ngumzekelo ofanelekileyo kwonyana kunye nekamva "ukholo kumadoda" yakhe intombi akuyona into elula. Ukunyamekela umntwana kwiintsuku zokuqala zobomi bakhe, ukufundisa nokuthanda umntwana wakhe ngumthwalo oqhelekileyo wabazali. Ubawo kufuneka banike umntwana ixesha kwaye babonise inkxalabo, kuba kuyamnandi ngakumbi ukuva kumntwana "utata" kunokuba "umalume".
Abasetyhini, ninyamekele amadoda kwaye yibakhuthaze kubo.