"Ungayifaka njani i-alimony?" Lo mbuzo unomdla oomama abaninzi abahlala bengenalo inkxaso yenyama yomntu owayengumyeni emva kokuqhawula umtshato. Kwilizwe lethu ngokuqhelekileyo kukho imeko xa omnye wabazali efaka inkxaso yokuxhasa abantwana. Ngokwezibalo, kwiimeko ezininzi, emva kokuqhawula umtshato umntwana uhlala nonina, kwaye kungekhona noyise, kwiimeko ezinje, unina uya kuba neendleko ezongezelelweyo, ezingenako ukuhlala zifumana. Nangakhathaliseki ubuhlobo apho abazali behlula khona, umntwana akafanele abe yimeko ehlazo.
Ngokomthetho okwangoku, ibhinqa inelungelo lokufakela inkxaso yenkxaso enkambini xa uyise enqaba ukubonelela ngenkxaso.
"Ndifuna ukufakela i-alimony-ndingakwenza njani oku?"
Ngaphambi kokuhambisa amaxwebhu enkundleni ye-alimony, ibhinqa kufuneka lihlale lizibuza loo mbuzo: "Ngaba ufuna ukufaka ifayile ye-alimony?". Ukuba ngaba abazali baxubusha phakathi kwabo kwaye benza izilungiso, ngoko imfuneko yokubhenela enkundleni iyawa. Kwaye, njengokuba kukho ukubonisa, kwimeko engcono kakhulu ngumntwana. Kule meko, abo baqala ukutshata kufuneka benze isivumelwano ngokubhaliweyo kwaye bawubhengeze. Isivumelwano sichaza isixa-mali esiyiyo-ntloko yomntwana onyanzelekile ukuba ayihlawule. Ixesha kunye nendlela yokudluliselwa kwemali inokuthi ichazwe kwisivumelwano.
Ukuba umba awukwazi ukulungiswa ngokuthula, ngoko umfazi kufuneka abuze indlela kwaye angayifumana phi indawo yokufaka isicelo se-alimony e-Ukraine.
Into yokuqala echaphazela abafazi kule meko yindawo yokufaka isicelo se-alimony. Ukwenza oku, unokuqhagamshelana negqwetha okanye enze ingxelo ngokuzimeleyo, ifayile kwaye ulinde isigqibo senkundla.
INkundla inquma inani le-alimony kunye nenkqubo yokuhlawulwa kwabo. Ubukhulu bemali buchaphazeleka ngolu hlobo:
- imeko zokuphila zomntwana kunye nempilo yakhe;
- imeko yemali yomhlawuli we-alimony;
- Ubukho bomhlawuleli wabanye abantwana, abo bahlawula i-alimony kunye nezihlobo ezingafanelekanga.
Kuxhomekeke kule miba, inkundla inokumisela inani le-alimony ngendlela yenxalenye yomvuzo okanye kwixabiso elilodwa. Njengomthetho, isabelo somvuzo sinikwe kwisiganeko sokuba uyise unomvuzo ohlala njalo kwaye ozinzile. Inani elithile linikezelwe ukuba umhlawuli unenzuzo engavumelekanga.
Ukuba umfazi emva kokuqhawula umtshato unesibini okanye ngaphezulu abantwana abaseleyo, inani le-alimony linqunywe ixesha elide - kude kube umntwana efikelela kwiminyaka elishumi elinesibhozo. Emva koko, imali ilandiswa.
Ibhinqa inelungelo lokufakela i-alimony ngaphandle kokuqhawula umtshato, oko kukuthi, inene, utshatile noyise womlingane. Imithetho yethu ayinikezeli nayiphi na imingcipheko ekufumaneni i-alimony yabasetyhini abatshatileyo. Ukuba uyise akaboneleli ngenkxaso yenkxaso, unina unelungelo lokufakela i-alimony yonyana okanye intombi kunye nabo ngokwabo ngexesha lokukhulelwa aze ade afinyelele kwiminyaka emithathu.
INkundla inyanzela ummangalelwa ukuba abuyisele i-alimony kumntwana ukususela ngexesha isigqibo esenziwe. Unina unakho ukuxhomekeka ekubuyiseni kwe-alimony kwithuba elidlulileyo, kodwa kungengaphezulu kweminyaka emithathu. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka ukuba athengise enkundleni yokuba uyise womntwana wenqabe ukuhlawula, kwaye wathatha yonke imilinganiselo efunekayo yokufumana imali kumntwana.
Wonke amalungelo okufumana ulondolozo kuphela ngaba bafazi abasemtshatweni obhalisiweyo kunye noyise womntwana. Ukuba ngaba abazali babesemtshatweni womtshato, isigqibo senkundla asiyi kuhambelana nommangali.
Kwimeko enzima, xa omnye wabazali ezama ukufumana inkxaso yenkxaso evela kwiqabane langaphambili, musa ukulibala malunga neminqweno yomntwana. Umntwana, ngaphezu kwemali, ufuna iimfuno zabazali kunye nokunyamekela. Ngaloo ndlela ke uya kuba nako ukuphuhlisa ngokuzeleyo kwaye akhulise impilo kwaye uyonwabile.