Ukususela ekupholiseni ubudlelwane akuqinisekisiwe, akukho sibini esitshatileyo, umkhwa owaziwayo, ukuhluka kwezinto ezinomdla kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi kunokukhokelela ekubeni ukuziphatha komyeni onothando ngokukhawuleza kuyashintsha. Ukuba ubona iimpawu zesithenjwa kunye nokungalindelekanga kuwe kumyeni wakho, kufuneka uthathe amanyathelo okugcina umtshato wakho ngokukhawuleza.
Izimpawu ukuba indoda ayithandi umfazi wayo
Ukuqonda nokuvakalelwa kukuba umyeni usuka kude kuwe akunzima. Njengomthetho, amadoda, bezama ukufihla ukupholisa iimvakalelo, baveze ngokucacileyo oku ngokuziphatha kwabo kwimihla ngemihla. Khangela ukuba umyeni wakho uyakuthanda nje ngokuba uhlaziye isimo sakho sengqondo kuye nangomtshato wakho. Qaphela kwaye uhlalutye le miba:
- NoNxibelelwano . Ukuba iqabane lalisetyenziselwa ukuxoxa nawe zonke iinkcukacha zobomi bakhe, zabelwana ngeemeko zakhe zomsebenzi emsebenzini, ezithandwayo, zazama ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nawe, kwaye ngoku uvalelwe kwaye unsociable, oku kungenye yeempawu zokuqala eziphazamisayo. Ngenxa yoko, uluvo lwakho luye lwayeka ukumdla kunye nokunxibelelana kunye nokulahlekelwa yinto yangaphambili.
- Ukungabikho rhoqo . Ukudambisa emsebenzini, izinto ezibalulekileyo, ukuhamba ngezoshishino kunye neentlanganiso zidla ngokuba umntu kuphela isizathu sokubalekela ekhaya. Ukungabikho rhoqo ekhaya ngenxa yezizathu ezingathandabuzekiyo - enye intsimbi, ebonisa ukulahlekelwa kweemvakalelo.
- Amagama abathandekayo, achukumisa . Yintoni enokuba yendalo ngokwempawu ezinobungqina obubonakalayo kunye nobungqina obungabonakaliyo, amazwi kunye nezinye iimbonakalo zengqondo kwindoda. Ukuba indoda ingakutshilo into ayithandayo, musa ukufuna ukumbamba, ukumanga okanye ukuphazamiseka ngengozi, kuthetha ukuba ulahlekelwa yintando yakhe.
- Iimfumba zezindlu kunye nokugxeka . Ukuba kukho naziphi izenzo zakho ezibangela ukucasuka kunye nokungaxhatshazi kwiqabane, ukufihla okanye ukugxeka ngokukhawuleza, ngoko kukufanele ukhangele ngokungakumbi, mhlawumbi ufumene into entsha yokumangalisa.
- Ku futshane . Ubuhlobo obusondeleyo - olu ngenye yezinto eziphambili ezingabonisa isimo sengqondo somyeni wakho kuwe. Ukwenqaba rhoqo
kwizesondo ngenxa yokukhathala, ingqesho okanye impilo ephosakeleyo ingaxhomekeka ngokuqinisekileyo kunye nenyaniso yokuba indoda yakhe yathi ayikuthandi. Umnqweno wesondo lomntu ungenye yezibonakaliso ezithandabuzayo zengqondo yomntu, ekungabikho kwakhe umntu kufuneka acinge ngesandi somtshato wakho.
Ukuba ukuziphatha komyeni wakho kuphakamisa ukungathandabuzeki, buza umbuzo-kutheni umyeni wam engandiyithandi, ngokuphindaphindiweyo impendulo enyanisekileyo yalo mbuzo inceda ukugcina umtshato nokubuyisela iimvakalelo ezindala. Cinga-mhlawumbi uqhutyelwa yinkqubo yendlu yentsapho ekholelwa ukuba kufuneka ihlale yindoda kungekhona kuphela umsikazi ekhitshini, kodwa i-interlocutor enomdla kunye nomfazi othandekayo.