Izibalo zibonisa ukuba abangaphezu kwama-70% wamadoda atshintsha okanye ubuncinane xa beguqule iqabane labo. Ngelo xesha, abafazi bashintsha abayeni babo ngokuncinci. Ukwazi oku, abafazi bazama ukuqonda ukuba kutheni amadoda atshatileyo aqala ukuthanda.
Kutheni umntu ejika inkosikazi - ingqondo yengqondo yomntu otshatileyo
I-Psychology ichaza izizathu ezibangela ukuba amadoda atshati aqale abathandi:
- Ukunganeliseki ngokwesondo . Esi sizathu kukuba ngowokuqala kule uluhlu lwezizathu ezichitha ubomi bentsapho. Ingxaki ikhona kwinto yokuba iminqweno yamadoda kunye neyesifazana ayihambisani nolu ngxaki. Kwabesilisa, isondo ngumnye wemisebenzi ebalulekileyo ebusini. Kubasetyhini, isondo singabalulekanga okanye simele ekupheleni kwoluhlu lwezinto eziphambili. Ukongezelela, umthwalo owela kumahlombe wabasetyhini kunye nokukhathala okuqhubekayo, akwenzi negalelo ekuphuhlisweni kwesifiso sesondo. Kule nkalo, umfazi ongatshatanga ngumncintiswano omkhulu kumlingane ophelile. Kulo mmandla, kunokufumana impendulo kumbuzo weso sizathu sokuba amadoda atshatileyo aqale abathandi emsebenzini. Ukunganeliseki ngokwesondo kunye nomsebenzi ophezulu emsebenzini kukhokelela ekubeni umntu uyifumana indawo efanelekileyo, kwindawo yokusebenzela.
- Ukunganeliseki kwengqondo . Induduzo yengqondo yomtshato yinto ebalulekileyo yentsapho yolonwabo. Ukuba kukho ukungquzulana kwintsapho, ukuxabana, abatshatileyo abanakufumana ulwimi olufanayo baze baqonde, ngoko indoda ingaya kwindawo yokufuna indawo enokuthula. Ngelo xesha, ngenxa yesinye isizathu okanye enye, uya kugcina intsapho.
- Ubuntu okanye ubunzima bexesha . Esinye isizathu esibalulekileyo sokuba amadoda aqale abathandi, ngaba zixesha leengxaki. Kwimeko yobomi bendoda, kunokufika ixesha xa eqala ukungathandabuzeki amandla akhe kunye nomtsalane. Kule nkalo, inkosikazi yinto enjengomfanekiso wokumemeza onceda ukubuyisela ibhalansi elahlekileyo. Ukungathembeki okunjalo kuqhelekileyo kumadoda angaphezu kweminyaka engama-45, kuba kule minyaka ubudala umntu uqala ukuziva ngokugqithiseleyo ukuguga komzimba kwaye ufuna ukuzibonakalisa yena kunye nabanye ukuba akuyiyo yonke into elahlekileyo.
- Imikhwa emibi . Ubuqhetseba obunxilayo buqhelekile. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba olo tshintsho luhlala lwenzeke ngengozi kwaye kwakungeke kwenzeke ukuba umntu wayengenangqondo.
- Impembelelo yendalo . Kwinkampani yamadoda athile kukholwa ukuba umntu ohloniphayo kufuneka abe nenkosikazi kwaye, mhlawumbi, akukho nanye. Kule meko, le ndoda iphela ukuvavanya kakuhle imeko yentsapho kwaye iqondise imikhosi yayo ekukhangekeni kwe-adventure.